Your Grindr notification goes off and you rub your pincers with glee while thinking a one-word thought: "Score!" But then you see that it's from a guy who looks like the hindquarters of bad luck. Do you say, "Thanks, but no thanks"?
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Now it's okay to lie about your weight online, but it's not okay if the guy's looking for a slender build and you're so fat you were born on the 24th, 25th and 26th of July.
How do you get rid of this fear of rejection? By disconnecting yourself from results and connecting with the process.
As the author of the first body language book for gay men, I'm often asked how male body language affects guy-on-guy dating. The answer: plenty.
Studies show the average person sends or receives over 100 texts a year. If you've met somebody you're interested in, you've gotta learn the art of going from textual to sexual.
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