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Are You Obligated to Respond to a Grindr Message?

Mike Alvear | Posted 09.30.2013 | Gay Voices
Mike Alvear

Your Grindr notification goes off and you rub your pincers with glee while thinking a one-word thought: "Score!" But then you see that it's from a guy who looks like the hindquarters of bad luck. Do you say, "Thanks, but no thanks"?

The Secret To Meeting And Attracting Hot Gay Men

Mike Alvear | Posted 11.17.2011 | Healthy Living
Mike Alvear

Gays have gone from lurking in bathhouses and public restrooms to checking out bars and parties; from anonymous scrumping to emotionally resonant sex.

What If He Doesn't Look Anything Like His Pictures?

Mike Alvear | Posted 05.25.2011 | Style
Mike Alvear

Now it's okay to lie about your weight online, but it's not okay if the guy's looking for a slender build and you're so fat you were born on the 24th, 25th and 26th of July.

Meet Men The Way You Lose Weight: By Detaching From The Outcome

Mike Alvear | Posted 11.17.2011 | Healthy Living
Mike Alvear

How do you get rid of this fear of rejection? By disconnecting yourself from results and connecting with the process.

Gay Dating: The 5 Principles of Gay Body Language

Mike Alvear | Posted 11.17.2011 | Healthy Living
Mike Alvear

As the author of the first body language book for gay men, I'm often asked how male body language affects guy-on-guy dating. The answer: plenty.

Gay Dating: How to Use Texts Like a Pheromone

Mike Alvear | Posted 05.25.2011 | Style
Mike Alvear

Studies show the average person sends or receives over 100 texts a year. If you've met somebody you're interested in, you've gotta learn the art of going from textual to sexual.

Gay Dating: How Gay Body Language Works

Mike Alvear | Posted 05.25.2011 | Style
Mike Alvear

Here's how the positioning of your palms can make somebody dislike you in a real conversation.