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Jealousy

When Her Good News Makes You Feel Bad

Glennon Melton | Posted 01.17.2015 | Women
Glennon Melton

The amazing thing about love and attention and encouragement and grace and success and joy is that these things are infinite. We get a new supply every single morning and so we can give it away all day.

Let's Talk About Envy

Sarah Foulkes | Posted 01.13.2015 | Women
Sarah Foulkes

We're in a culture that prioritizes self-actualization, but when we see someone who's achieved, or partly achieved, what they want, our first instinct is to tear them down -- and we tear them down because we envy them.

Why I've Chosen To Live In A Complete State Of Denial

Dori Hartley | Posted 12.31.2014 | Fifty
Dori Hartley

Another year means only one thing to me -- I have to somehow get used to typing a 5 instead of a 4 when I write the year down. That's basically all of it in a nutshell. The real hurdle to bolt over is in remembering that the beginning of the year starts with a 20, and not a 19.

3 Healthy Ways To Deal With Jealousy

Kimanzi Constable | Posted 12.16.2014 | Healthy Living
Kimanzi Constable

There's a line you don't want to cross, and there are ways to deal with jealousy when it arises. Jealousy can eat away at you and keep you from making progress in life. Here are three ways to deal with jealousy.

Seeing Other Women As Allies, Rather Than Enemies: A How-To

Cynthia | Posted 12.10.2014 | Women
Cynthia

It's easy to cut each other down, to make comparisons, and to criticize. It's what we've been taught to do. But think for a minute about what our lives would look and feel like if instead, we were supportive of other women, if we celebrated instead of lamented.

Couple Envy: 'Why Am I Such a Terrible Person?'

Sara Eckel | Posted 12.24.2014 | Women
Sara Eckel

Envy is one of the toughest emotions to deal with because it packs a two-fold punch. First, there is the envy itself, that terrible feeling of loneliness and deprivation you get when your friend's guy impulsively kisses her hair or laces his fingers through hers.

6 Early Warning Signs of an Abusive Relationship

Pamela Jacobs | Posted 12.20.2014 | Women
Pamela Jacobs

But while abuse often escalates to physical violence, it does not start out that way. In fact, abusers are often charming, attentive, and sweet in the beginning of a relationship.

3 Steps To Make Jealousy Work To Your Advantage

Mercedes Maidana | Posted 12.17.2014 | Women
Mercedes Maidana

Do you feel jealous of someone else's career success? We are all human. We all have emotions that control us from time to time, and sometimes one of those emotions is a big ball of jealousy!

I Want To Be That Girl

Anna Caltabiano | Posted 12.06.2014 | Teen
Anna Caltabiano

Maybe it's only jealousy. Maybe it's not. We don't understand it, but you know it's not just you. Your friends hate her guts too, and it baffles them as well. All we know is that we want to become something we hate.

6 Signs He's Ready to Take It to the Next Level With Your Best Friend

Reductress | Posted 11.10.2014 | Comedy
Reductress

After years of being soul-crushingly single, you've finally met a guy who's hot, funny, and close with his family. You might even love him. Everything about him is perfect... for your best friend, Stephanie.

Nick Jonas Trades In Pop For Sultry R&B On New Solo Album

Shira Lazar | Posted 11.05.2014 | Entertainment
Shira Lazar

I sat down Nick Jonas sat to answer your questions from Twitter in front of a lucky group of winners from Dash Radio & Myspace. His self titled solo a...

You and Me: We All Create Abundance Every Day

Donna Labermeier | Posted 10.27.2014 | Healthy Living
Donna Labermeier

How can we all be more aware of and transform the kind of abundance we are creating each day? The answer: Love yourself, be open to the power of possibility, live and let live, be supportive but not enabling, and make a concerted effort to be the change you wish to see.

6 Daily Irritations We Don't Talk About

Barbara Greenberg | Posted 10.14.2014 | Women
Barbara Greenberg

I am aware of what makes you brighten up and have those pleasurable magic moments. I am also painfully aware of those little moments that drive women of all ages just a little bit crazy and makes you want to rip your hair out.

6 Reasons Why We Should Embrace Criticism

Susie Moore | Posted 10.12.2014 | Healthy Living
Susie Moore

There will always be people who disagree with you or who dislike your ideas and actions -- whether or not these people are coming from a positive or a negative place. Appreciate and accept them for being different than you and forgive them if they upset you.

10 Questions Your Daughters Should Be Asking

Barbara Greenberg | Posted 10.11.2014 | Parents
Barbara Greenberg

Your daughters may feel pretty or less than pretty, but I think that what they are really asking is whether or not they are acceptable and fit in.

Is Envy Controlling Your Life?

Kristen Houghton | Posted 10.05.2014 | Healthy Living
Kristen Houghton

Being satisfied with what you have now does not make you complacent and "stuck" with what you have in your current life. Let that little spark of envy work for you not against you. Let it energize, not exhaust you. Look around and make needed or wanted changes to your life.

Jealousy Is Impoverishing Us and Our World, So Let's Do Something About It

Beth Green | Posted 10.05.2014 | Healthy Living
Beth Green

At a time in our world's history when our survival and well being are threatened by severe climate change, addiction, stress and unhappiness, we cannot waste another moment envying those who have something to offer us or withholding support from those whose gifts could benefit our world.

I Was Jealous Of My Friend. Then She Got Cancer.

Sarah Gilbert | Posted 09.30.2014 | Women
Sarah Gilbert

I don't want her blue eyes the way her husband must want them before they closed each night. I don't want her body, and not just because it's gone. It was never mine to covet in the first place, just like her life.

When Your Adult Kids Reject You

Barbara Greenberg | Posted 09.22.2014 | Divorce
Barbara Greenberg

My problem is my daughter. I raised her as a single parent along with my son. I gave them a decent life and have a good relationship with my son as I did with my daughter until about 12 years ago.

5 Reasons Why Jealousy Is A Good Thing

Emily Williams | Posted 08.31.2014 | Women
Emily Williams

You have to actually know what you want to get there, right? Awareness is key when you're trying to reach your goals, and I believe jealousy is something that's actually quite a good indicator of where you want to be in your life.

Virtual Jealousy

Tayler Wiley | Posted 08.03.2014 | College
Tayler Wiley

We must all realize soon how serious this issue has become, before this viral jealousy virus becomes too strong for an antidote.

When You're the Last Single Gal Left

Akirah Robinson | Posted 08.12.2014 | Women
Akirah Robinson

Being single can be tough, especially when most of your friends aren't. And boy, can I identify with this. Boy, can I ever...

12 Cold Facts About Being Super-Hot

Billi Gordon, Ph.D. | Posted 07.28.2014 | Women
Billi Gordon, Ph.D.

Pretty is a thing, whereas beauty is a force. Although we live in a world where physical appearance is a currency, a differential engine drives life, ...

The Anatomy of Everyday Hatred

Wray Herbert | Posted 07.23.2014 | Science
Wray Herbert

Who hates whom, and why? What do we mean when we say, I hate? And what do we do about it?

How To Stop Being So Jealous

Karen X. Cheng | Posted 07.20.2014 | Business
Karen X. Cheng

You know the feeling. When it hurts to see other people succeed. When you read articles about Mark Zuckerberg, the world's youngest billionaire. When you watch some freak child prodigy playing piano like a mini Mozart. When your friend gets that thing you wanted for yourself.