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Late Life Coming Out

Getting to Gay

Henry V | Posted 10.29.2014 | Gay Voices
Henry V

What the hell are you doing here, anyway? OK, that's it. You need to get your ass home! You're fucking 40 years old! You've got kids! You have a wife! It's winter 2009. Just a few months ago everything changed when I acknowledged to my wife Evelyn that I'm gay.

Coming Out Later

John Corvino | Posted 01.27.2013 | Gay Voices
John Corvino

"Jake" has been a friend of my partner Mark since high school. He's now a successful attorney, in his late 30s, nice-looking, smart and kind. Also, he's never had a girlfriend. Also, he frequently posts about pro-gay causes on Facebook. (Yes, I'm doing the same math you're doing.)

WATCH: Gay Grandpa Recounts Being Confronted By Wife: 'Dean, Your Boys Want to Know If Richard's Your Lover'

Nathan Manske | Posted 09.12.2012 | Gay Voices
Nathan Manske


In 'Defense' Of Waiting To Come Out

Khalid El Khatib | Posted 06.17.2012 | Gay Voices
Khalid El Khatib

At brunch last Sunday one of my closest friends was gushing over a guy he met out. His suitor is smart, handsome, employed, rents to own, and has a shared penchant for pizza at 3 a.m. But there's one problem: Prince Charming came out only a few months ago, at 28.

61, Gay, And Closeted: Is It Too Late For Him?

John Shore | Posted 05.23.2012 | Gay Voices
John Shore

The reason you want to come out is not because of what it will do for your relationship with others. It's because of what coming out will do for your relationship with you. The kind of stress born of living a lie will age you prematurely.

Finding My True Self

James Helmuth, Ph.D. | Posted 12.27.2011 | Gay Voices
James Helmuth, Ph.D.

I chose to come out to myself, my wife, my teenage children and my parents and siblings. But in coming out, I also needed to end a 20-year marriage. This was the beginning of a painful but blissful journey of self-awareness.