Lori Gottlieb

From Generation X to Generation Me

Rhiana Maidenberg | Posted 04.16.2012

Rhiana Maidenberg

In contrast to our upbringing, we resolved to be a more constant presence in our children's lives. The problem is that these children are now dependent on their parents. As a mother of toddlers, how do I combat this trend and raise independent children, while still being an active participant in their childhood?

Why You Don't Need To Baby Proof Your House

Rhiana Maidenberg | Posted 01.18.2012

Rhiana Maidenberg

In my house I have one simple test for the necessity of baby proofing: if there is a possibility of death, or loss of a major limb, we must be vigilant. If not, then that is why Johnson and Johnson invented band-aids.

So, What Do You Do?

Barbara & Shannon Kelley | Posted 12.20.2011

Barbara & Shannon Kelley

For a woman, a job isn't just a job. It's a comment on who she is.

Is There Such Thing As Perfect Parenting?

salon.com | Posted 08.20.2011

There are two kinds of parents in the world. There are those who strive to re-create for their children the blissful upbringings that they themselves ...

Authors Duke It Out For NYC Book Signing Outlets

The Wall Street Journal | JOANNE KAUFMAN | Posted 05.25.2011

Which authors get to sign at which New York locations is a tricky gavotte involving publishers, chain bookstores and other venues. In fact, independen...

Marry Him - A Conversation with Lori Gottlieb

Julie Spira | Posted 11.17.2011

Julie Spira

It was two years ago today that Lori Gottlieb's Atlantic magazine article, Marry Him: The Case for Settling for Mr. Right was released. The piece rai...

Why "Settle" For Lori Gottlieb's Narrow View Of Life? Live Your Own

Melissa Lafsky | Posted 11.17.2011

Melissa Lafsky

Not once in her endless lovelorn musings does Gottlieb ask: What about what my potential partner wants? What about considering how I could work on myself, find my own peace?

A New Book Urges Wannabe Brides To Settle -- Look What Happened to Jenny Sanford for Following That Advice

Jill Brooke | Posted 05.25.2011

Jill Brooke

Jenny Sanford's book is called Staying True written because her husband wasn't true blue. Of all her revelations, one sticks out in my mind.

Love Stories: Is Marriage Necessary?

Wednesday Martin | Posted 11.17.2011

Wednesday Martin

While marital and couples therapists tell us how to save our marriages, sociology, anthropology, and human behavioral ecology suggest that it isn't so much married couples as Marriage itself that's in crisis.

Should You Marry that Rude, Stinky, Creepy Person Since You're Not Perfect Either?

Bella DePaulo | Posted 11.17.2011

Bella DePaulo

Once upon a time, a reporter for a major magazine declared, in all seriousness, that women should just get married already - even if it means settling...

Will U B My Good Enough Valentine?

Melanie Chartoff | Posted 05.25.2011

Melanie Chartoff

Marry Him: The Case for Settling for Mr. Good Enough, impeccably researched tome, is mandatory reading for girls who've not yet grasped the "unavailable parent" part of their inability to let someone love them.

'Marry Him': 5 Reasons You're Wrong About Mr. Right (VIDEO)

wowowow.com | Lori Gottlieb | Posted 05.25.2011

A couple of years ago, I wrote a magazine article called "Marry Him: The Case for Settling for Mr. Good Enough." In it, I confessed that, having found...

Why "Marry Mr. Good-Enough" is Dark Ages Nonsense in a Modern Disguise

Lesley M. M. Blume | Posted 05.25.2011

Lesley M. M. Blume

Ms. Gottlieb argues that we're here to procreate -- in an unhappy union with a mismatched partner, if need be; below, Lesley M. M. Blume begs to differ.