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Why I Feel Like My Wedding Anniversary Date Is Cursed

Why I Feel Like My Wedding Anniversary Date Is Cursed

07.17.2014
We were married 20 years ago today -- but we're not celebrating. The problem isn't the state of the union -- but the date of the union....
Top 20 Dating Tips For Finding Love Again After 50

Top 20 Dating Tips For Finding Love Again After 50

07.16.2014
1. Put in writing what type of relationship you hope to find -- both short term and long term.
Man Tells Woman He Can't Get Turned On By Her Aging Body -- And She Reacts Perfectly

Man Tells Woman He Can't Get Turned On By Her Aging Body -- And She Reacts Perfectly

07.12.2014
Naked, I stood at the closet doors with the lights on and made myself ready. I took a deep breath and positioned the mirrors so I could...
5 Things You Need To Know About Having Casual, Ethical, Fabulous Sex

5 Things You Need To Know About Having Casual, Ethical, Fabulous Sex

07.11.2014
When my 20-year marriage ended a year and a half ago, I knew I needed to stay single for awhile. But because my ex-husband and I had been...
An Octogenarian's Adventures In Online Dating

An Octogenarian's Adventures In Online Dating

07.11.2014
That's really scary, I said to Heather, my 46-year-old trainer. I don't want to do this. Heather insisted, it was not about a new set of...
Why There's Nothing Morally Wrong With Casual Sex

Why There's Nothing Morally Wrong With Casual Sex

07. 8.2014
When Alternet picked up my post on casual sex recently, I got eviscerated in the comment section -- by men and women. I was accused of...
4 Ways To Have The Best Sex Of Your Life In Middle Age

4 Ways To Have The Best Sex Of Your Life In Middle Age

07. 1.2014
Some time ago I wrote a blog concerning sex and menopause. Comments in response to that blog ran the gamut. Some women expressed frustration...
THIS Is Why You Should Try Cougar Dating

THIS Is Why You Should Try Cougar Dating

06.27.2014
Who knew that as women over 50, we'd have so many options to choose from when it came to dating men? Believe it or not, lots of men want...
What I Learned About Love Watching My Mother Go On Her First Date In 51 Years

What I Learned About Love Watching My Mother Go On Her First Date In 51 Years

06.26.2014
I don't think any marriage or relationship is perfect. I think I learned this watching my parents alternate between arguing with great...
7 Things Only Those Married A Long Time Will Understand

7 Things Only Those Married A Long Time Will Understand

Shelley Emling  06.24.2014
There are just some things in life you can't fully appreciate until you've lived through them. Being married for 10 years or longer --...
The Strange Experience That Caused Me To Get Off Match.com

The Strange Experience That Caused Me To Get Off Match.com

06.14.2014
He winked, then he made me 'one of his favorites,' as Match.com dutifully reported to me. Then he wrote an email. Thus bombarded, I read...
How To Unveil An Imperfect Body To A New Lover

How To Unveil An Imperfect Body To A New Lover

06.13.2014
When I was younger, I used to love ripping off my shirt for a new lover. My torso has always been my best feature, and my breasts were...
THIS Is How To Remain Sexy As You Age

THIS Is How To Remain Sexy As You Age

06.13.2014
I know a person who's having a midlife crisis. It isn't a secret; that's part of the crisis. His issue comes down to an excess of sex that...
THIS Is How To Turn Up The Heat On Your Sex Life After 50

THIS Is How To Turn Up The Heat On Your Sex Life After 50

06.12.2014
There comes a moment in every potentially romantic relationship when you either strip off and take the plunge or you pass, and let the...