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The Case For Including Sex In Your Marriage Vows

Em & Lo | Posted 04.15.2015 | Weddings
Em & Lo

It's a lot harder to resent each other when you're having sex that's satisfying to both partners as often or as little as you'd both like.

5 Ways to Spice Up Your Love Life

Andi Wickman | Posted 04.10.2015 | Weddings
Andi Wickman

Here are a few things I've done to help me be more intimate with my husband (often leading to some great sex). Some of these sound crazy, but stick with me.

5 Reasons You Shouldn't Give Up On Love

Mindy Utay | Posted 04.09.2015 | Women
Mindy Utay

The major problem with dating is that rejection causes people to doubt whether they are lovable. This is not acceptable. Just because someone does not choose to love you, does NOT mean you are not lovable. Love comes from within, it is not granted by another.

Therein Lies the Rubber

Joseph P. Farrell | Posted 04.03.2015 | Comedy
Joseph P. Farrell

How sad would an open box of 35 condoms look in my sock drawer until I met someone else? How long would that be? And why do I keep my condoms in the sock drawer? I have two nightstands, for crying out loud.

The Beatles Were Wrong

Mary-Lou Stephens | Posted 03.31.2015 | Women
Mary-Lou Stephens

When you're in love, it feels like nothing else matters. It's so easy and seductive to let your life go -- your friends, your interests, your beliefs, your hobbies. I get it. It feels good and it's fun and smoochy and yummy. You don't need anyone or anything else.

My Husband's Attraction To Other Women Turns Me On

Gracie X | Posted 03.30.2015 | Weddings
Gracie X

The seductive glow that a stranger can elicit is thrilling. Polyamorous people call it 'new relationship energy.' The sudden affirmation that a newcomer finds you desirable is a real high.

10 Signs You're Married To A Nurse

Shelly Lopez Gray | Posted 03.26.2015 | Weddings
Shelly Lopez Gray

There are many tell-tell signs you are married to a nurse. These are just a few of them. God help our poor spouses!

The Definitive List of Men You'll Find At Whole Foods

Literally, Darling | Posted 03.23.2015 | Women
Literally, Darling

If you're looking for a man, look no further. I'm here with the definitive list of men you'll find at what I like to call, "Disneyland for those with dietary restrictions."

Breaking Up Might Be Easier Than You Think

Sara Eckel | Posted 03.18.2015 | Women
Sara Eckel

As truly gut-wrenching as these separations can feel, research suggests that most of the lovelorn will recover sooner than they think.

What Not To Do On An OkCupid Date

Becca Wolinsky | Posted 03.16.2015 | Women
Becca Wolinsky

Do not ask the other person how many OkCupid dates he/she has been on. If you're on your first OkCupid date and announce that, you may come across as a noob, and if it is your fifteenth OkCupid date, like it was for me, well, we all know why that is embarrassing.

10 Steps to Moving Beyond the Friend Zone

Susan Winter | Posted 03.10.2015 | Women
Susan Winter

Flipping from a friend to lover doesn't work in a text or email. It may seem like the easy way out, but don't do it. You will fail. They need to either see your face or feel the warmth and conviction in your voice to make your statement work.

Stop Trying to 'Fix' the Relationship

Jennifer Twardowski | Posted 03.02.2015 | Women
Jennifer Twardowski

Why was I always the only one who really tried to work things out? Why was I always the one putting work and effort into relationship issues, but the guy rarely reciprocated?

A Sex-Positive Feminist Laments '50 Shades of Boredom'

Gracie X | Posted 02.26.2015 | Women
Gracie X

He's creepy. He's that guy who needs a personality overhaul, the dude who's too controlling, too domineering -- out of bed. You want to dominate me in bed? Be my guest. You want to drive? Here are the keys to my clitoris. But don't pull that controlling crap out of bed.

14 Ways to Fall In Love With Someone Who Makes You Better

Carly Spindel | Posted 03.06.2015 | Women
Carly Spindel

The person you fall in love with should enhance your life. He or she is supposed to make you smile more than you frown. They ought to make you feel great about yourself. They should fascinate you, amaze you and of course, make you very, very happy.

Will 'Pink Viagra' Cure Monogamy?

Stephen Snyder MD | Posted 02.24.2015 | Women
Stephen Snyder MD

Strict sexual monogamy has always had more to do with property rights than with erotic pleasure. It's served us pretty well for thousands of years. But it's not exactly natural.

Top 5 Love Lessons from 'The Bachelor' for Bachelors (Bali)

Em & Lo | Posted 02.24.2015 | Women
Em & Lo

Since clearly, Chris was in the driver's seat of this love bus and all three ladies were just along for the ride this week (having all admitted to actively falling for him), the best love lessons to be gleaned from this episode seemed to be rules solely applicable to bachelors.

7 Guys You Should Break Up With, Stat

Lindsey Caruana | Posted 02.22.2015 | Women
Lindsey Caruana

With all of the monumental heartache, building insecurities and irreparable damage that presents itself after such said rejection, there are still certain instances when you should welcome it -- actually, you should count your lucky stars that you dodged this destructive bullet and the Gods above threw you a bone.

5 Things I Learned From Dating A (Much) Younger Man

Holly Sidell | Posted 02.19.2015 | Women
Holly Sidell

You could be the most amazing, sexiest, coolest, smartest, funniest woman alive, but you can't do anything to change another person's emotional, mental or physical availability.

5 Signs Your Relationship Is in Trouble

Phoebe Fox | Posted 02.18.2015 | Women
Phoebe Fox

Now that Cupid's wings are out of your eyes, it could be time to reassess your relationship for any of these five warning signs that your love may be on the wane.

You Deserve The Absolute Best

Carly Spindel | Posted 02.18.2015 | Women
Carly Spindel

You deserve someone who loves to plan because he knows it brings joy to your life. You should date someone who reminds you that you're special and makes an effort to make you happy.

The Lure of Sugar Daddy Sites

Dr. Gail Gross | Posted 02.18.2015 | Women
Dr. Gail Gross

Men who seek younger partners may be having problems aging and are trying to re-establish a connection with the culture of a younger generation.

4 Dating Realizations I've Had at Age 29

Annelia Alex | Posted 02.17.2015 | Women
Annelia Alex

Over the past decade, my strategies and perspective on dating have evolved, and I feel better about the process.

11 Tough Love Lessons I Learned From My Ex-Boyfriends

Jennifer Twardowski | Posted 04.16.2015 | Women
Jennifer Twardowski

You can't always trust that others will respect your boundaries after you state them. You have to be sure that you make actions that reinforce your boundary -- no matter how painful and difficult that might be.

45 Ways To Fall In Love Every Day

Lexi Herrick | Posted 04.14.2015 | Women
Lexi Herrick

Falling in love is not a restricted extravagance. We can fall in love repeatedly, and in such a plethora of ways. We can wake up every day and decide to fall in love with each other, and with the life we have been given.

9 Ways Dating And Working Out Are Similar

Sahaj Kohli | Posted 04.13.2015 | Women
Sahaj Kohli

Both discovering what dating is again and experimenting with the gym and new workouts have a learning curve that requires trial and error. Here are nine ways they are extremely similar...