I began to think about the sea of articles written about the lament from men that women have some weird language they'll never understand and how exhausting is was trying to figure out what we're thinking. But let's get real here. We don't always know what you're saying either.
There are some common threads I hear about why my married clients come to me, and I have a pretty good success record in helping couples figure out how to talk to each other about one of the scariest subjects there is: sex and intimacy.
The most common source of miscommunication in any relationship is a very simple one: people routinely fail to realize how little they are actually communicating. In other words, we think we've said a lot more than we actually have.