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6 Signs Your Partner Is Marriage Material

6 Signs Your Partner Is Marriage Material

12. 1.2014
Who we choose to marry is one of the most important and costliest decisions a person will make, yet it's not uncommon for lovers to make...
Oh, There's Other Places Than Home for the Holidays

Oh, There's Other Places Than Home for the Holidays

12. 1.2014
It was the first holiday in over a decade that I did not go to bed filled with a sense of longing for a "real" holiday. Making my own agenda...
Why You Absolutely, Positively Must Have Shameless Sex Post-Split

Why You Absolutely, Positively Must Have Shameless Sex Post-Split

12. 1.2014
During my sexual post-divorce journey, for the first time in my life, I discovered my own boundaries. I claimed what I wanted and disregarded...
4 Huge Mistakes I Made As A Husband

4 Huge Mistakes I Made As A Husband

12. 1.2014
If you're looking to learn from some other guy's mistakes when it comes to torpedoing your marriage with stupid oversights and selfish...
The Obstacles On the Path Are the Path

The Obstacles On the Path Are the Path

12. 1.2014
Friends ask me, what's the right way to meditate? I have no idea. I just breathe in and out and notice the breath and the thoughts as they...
5 Steps To Avoid The Sunday Evening Blues

5 Steps To Avoid The Sunday Evening Blues

11.30.2014
It's late afternoon on Sunday. The weekend hourglass is trickling down to its last bit of sand and you feel a pervasive sadness cascading...
The Best Answer to Nosy Divorce Questions

The Best Answer to Nosy Divorce Questions

11.29.2014
People love juicy gossip, so you will be quizzed by by folks who have no business asking, and not the least need to know about your divorce....
Starting New Holiday Traditions After a Divorce

Starting New Holiday Traditions After a Divorce

11.26.2014
Holidays can be especially tricky to navigate as a newly divorced couple. It takes time to settle into the new normal -- for you, your...
Why I'm Thankful for My Divorce

Why I'm Thankful for My Divorce

11.26.2014
This Thanksgiving, I'm thankful my former spouse pushed me to realize that parting ways was the best thing for us. I'm thankful for my...
How I Paid Off $115K Of Debt

How I Paid Off $115K Of Debt

11.26.2014
After years of keeping his credit cards locked in a fire safe, Peter got an unpleasant surprise: a collection of statements totaling more...
Divorcing Parents Should Share the Nest

Divorcing Parents Should Share the Nest

11.26.2014
In a "Nesting arrangement" children will stay in the house while parents take turns living there. With all that is changing in the children's...
Holidays, Family and Divorce - What I've Learned

Holidays, Family and Divorce - What I've Learned

11.25.2014
Holidays, family and divorce come with great complexity. This year, I have finally developed the tools to navigate through it. Given that...
STIs: The Sex Talk No One Wants To Have -- But Should

STIs: The Sex Talk No One Wants To Have -- But Should

11.25.2014
I've talked in the past about how hard it is to ask for your sexual preferences in bed. But this is harder than just asking for your favorite...
'I'm A 24-Year-Old Divorcée And I Have Nothing To Apologize For'

'I'm A 24-Year-Old Divorcée And I Have Nothing To Apologize For'

11.25.2014
My personal life is healthy and challenging. I am learning to embrace quality over quantity in all of my relationships. I recycle (most...