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This Horror Movie Trailer About Being Ghosted Is Scary Realistic

The Huffington Post | Brittany Wong | Posted 10.06.2016 | Divorce

Ghosting, the act where one dater ends a relationship by simply disappearing, has gotten a bit out of hand. In the BuzzFeed video above, ghosting is ...

This Theory Might Explain Why Modern Dating Is So Difficult

The Huffington Post | Brittany Wong | Posted 10.04.2016 | Divorce

Modern dating is a lot of work ― and we may be partly to blame for that. In a new video from The Atlantic, Moira Weigel, author Labor of Love: The ...

When You Deleted Tinder For Her

Bernard Mokam | Posted 09.29.2016 | College
Bernard Mokam

It is well intentioned but perhaps it is also a curse -- I fall too easily as I hope to share myself with somebody. I have always questioned if I was ...

14 Modern Love Notes From Couples Who Don't Like The Sappy Stuff

The Huffington Post | Kelsey Borresen | Posted 08.25.2016 | Weddings

Romance isn’t one size fits all. Some couples subscribe to a Nicholas Sparks-novel kind of love and others find romance in snark, humor and puns. B...

Ghosting, Benching And Zombieing - A Modern Dater's Guide

Francesca Hogi | Posted 08.15.2016 | Style
Francesca Hogi

These days, you hear a lot of people complaining about the current state of dating. It's no wonder -- the rules of dating seem to be constantly changing.

To Change Or Not To Change? That Is The Post-Wedding Question!

Malini Bhatia | Posted 06.29.2016 | Weddings
Malini Bhatia

Gone are the days when the wife is expected to take her husband's surname when they get married -- there are other options and they are becoming more popular. Maybe this name change question is something you have been pondering since you played dress up bride-and-groom games with your dolls as a kid. Or maybe you never really thought about it until you met Mr. Right and now you have to actually make this important decision.

What is the Worst City for Single For Women Today?

Damona Hoffman | Posted 05.31.2016 | Women
Damona Hoffman

Could your city be the worst place to look for love? If you live in New York, Los Angeles, San Francisco, or Boston, you could be right. However, if you live in Chicago, Atlanta, Houston or Miami, you could also be correct. Wait, what if you live in Detroit? How about Phoenix? Could it be Nashville? Maybe Seattle?

How To Plan a Real Wedding

Eve Sturges | Posted 05.24.2016 | Weddings
Eve Sturges

My wedding fantasies included, but were not limited to, eloping with a taco truck after party in downtown LA, a three-day extravaganza in my Sonoma Co...

8 Podcasts To Improve Your Love Life

The Huffington Post | Jillian Capewell | Posted 05.23.2016 | Arts

Much like love itself, assembling a list of podcasts about love (and lust, dating, singlehood, breaking up, etc.) is a challenge. Here's why: after w...

They Found Love In A Sanders Place

The Huffington Post | Blair Guild | Posted 01.05.2017 | Politics

WASHINGTON -- Dating can be tricky. Are things moving too fast? What are your potential partner’s views on marriage? Are they as frustrated as you t...

This Valentine's Day, More Americans Are Searching For Love Online

Reuters | Casey Williams | Posted 02.11.2016 | Technology

Just in time for Valentine's Day, a survey shows that more Americans are looking for love through online dating, with more than four times as many you...

Trust Thyself: What Girl in the Woods Author Aspen Matis Found on the Trail to Independence

Jaime Lubin | Posted 09.22.2016 | Books
Jaime Lubin

Since its release earlier this month, Aspen Matis' debut memoir has been making headlines as yet another spotlight on the horrors of campus sexual assault. But those expecting a lurid cautionary tale will find something else entirely.

30 Days of Online Dating: What I Learned

Stacie Corliss | Posted 07.29.2016 | Comedy
Stacie Corliss

If you're reading this, you're most likely aware that I once decided to go on 30 online dates in 30 days and (over)share my experiences with complete and total strangers. The actual 30-day period took place in the fall of 2013. Why did it take me a full year to begin writing about it? Let's just say it was a rough and bumpy road to recovery.

30 Days of Online Dating: Crazy Ex-Girlfriend(s)?

Stacie Corliss | Posted 07.21.2016 | Comedy
Stacie Corliss

Apparently, TO's ex was not stoked on the situation. Specifically, me. Awkward. Especially considering I was previously unaware of her existence? Like, three minutes ago previous.

30 Days of Online Dating: The Two-Day Date

Stacie Corliss | Posted 07.15.2016 | Comedy
Stacie Corliss

Dinner with TO's college friends! Excellent impression, here I come. At this point, I'm pretty sure TO thinks I have no friends. I've met so many of his and he's met... zero... of mine.

30 Days of Online Dating: My Worst Tinder Date

Stacie Corliss | Posted 07.07.2016 | Comedy
Stacie Corliss

Tinder Mason requested my friendship on Facebook. I accepted, assuming he was one of the many men I had met at our mutual friend's recent birthday. That assumption was incorrect.

30 Days of Online Dating: F*ck the Rules

Stacie Corliss | Posted 07.01.2016 | Comedy
Stacie Corliss

eHarmony Gabe's soul is every bit as kind as I had anticipated. There is also every bit as much chemistry between the two of us as I had anticipated -- er, every bit as little? There is zero chemistry. Just zero.

9 Awesome Honeymoon Trips No One Takes

Oyster | Posted 06.25.2016 | Travel

We have searched high and low for some out-of-the-box, unique honeymoon ideas for those of you who are looking to mix it up on their post-wedding romp. After all, the excitement and sense of adventure you'll feel after your dream wedding is the perfect time to try something new.

30 Days of Online Dating: Taking Things to the Next Level

Stacie Corliss | Posted 06.24.2016 | Comedy
Stacie Corliss

TO and I obviously aren't at the whole relationship point yet, but this conversation is still making me a little uncomfortable. I feel even more uncomfortable a few hours later. Back at his place...

30 Days of Online Dating: Wherein I Explore the Art of the Third-Night Stand

Stacie Corliss | Posted 06.17.2016 | Comedy
Stacie Corliss

With TJ's half-baked plans and could-be-(much)(much)-better conversation, I don't really see a date four in our future. Alas, this whole experiment was about opening myself up to new experiences, sooooo South Bay here I come! (Sorry, Mom.)

30 Days of Online Dating: Wanna Come In?

Stacie Corliss | Posted 06.09.2016 | Comedy
Stacie Corliss

Thursday afternoon, I realize I'm a bit overdue for a visit to Anya, my favorite wax-wielding Russian. Half-a$$ed home sesh it is! Because the only thing better than paying someone else to strip each and every hair from your lady parts is conducting the massacre yourself.

'Big Voices' Helped Stacey D'Erasmo Find Her Own

Annie L. Scholl | Posted 06.05.2016 | Books
Annie L. Scholl

I think it was (author) Francine Prose who said publication is like the calm before the calm--that you think so much will happen and it doesn't. But when my first book came out (Tea, Algonquin Books, 2000), what I wasn't prepared for was the magnitude of what it felt like internally.

30 Days of Online Dating: My First (and Best) JDate

Stacie Corliss | Posted 05.28.2016 | Comedy
Stacie Corliss

Born in LA, JDJ loves his family, loves his job, loves his life...who knew there were so many well-adjusted men nestled in the bosom of this city?

30 Days of Online Dating: Love Awkwardly

Stacie Corliss | Posted 05.21.2016 | Comedy
Stacie Corliss

I know exactly what I'm going to order -- shaved Brussels sprout salad and scallops, please and thank you. eHA is less decisive, and asks our server to select his courses for him. So trusting. I feel like there's a metaphor in here somewhere.

30 Days of Online Dating: I Was His First...Kiss

Stacie Corliss | Posted 05.14.2016 | Comedy
Stacie Corliss

This is a modern dating experiment. One girl. Five dating sites. Hundreds of chats. Thirty days. Thirty dates. Eighteen guys. (?) boyfriend. To start at the beginning, click here -- or jump right in at date twenty-one below.