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My Qui-Gon Jinn

Tom Bartolomei | Posted 02.02.2016 | Queer Voices
Tom Bartolomei

Sept. 12 was my mom's birthday. This post is dedicated to her, as well as to my dad and all those family members who stand with the LGBT community and fight alongside us.

Right to Marry is a Drag

Tom Bartolomei | Posted 02.02.2016 | Queer Voices
Tom Bartolomei

I have been out for over 20 years and in that time I have "come out" several times. First it was to family and friends as gay, and then there was coming out at the Forbes Top 100 Company I work for and last as a Drag Queen's husband.

Please Feed the Queen

Tom Bartolomei | Posted 02.02.2016 | Queer Voices
Tom Bartolomei

If you can't afford to tip then please feed the queen with applause. You have no idea how much audience reaction means to these girls. A lot of them feed off of it and the more you applaud and holler the better the performance you'll receive.

Styles of Drag

Tom Bartolomei | Posted 02.02.2016 | Queer Voices
Tom Bartolomei

Drag comes is so many styles, it's not even funny. What follows are the styles I have had the pleasure of seeing.

exPOZed

Tom Bartolomei | Posted 02.02.2016 | Queer Voices
Tom Bartolomei

From my personal experience I would have to say Drag Queens have some of the biggest hearts I have ever seen.

10 Things I Learned Being Married to a Drag Queen

Tom Bartolomei | Posted 02.02.2016 | Queer Voices
Tom Bartolomei

When Jeff decided three and a half years ago to start performing in drag I never thought there would be so much to learn as a drag husband. It's not like there is a manual. There really should be.

Reflections Of A Drag Husband

Tom Bartolomei | Posted 02.02.2016 | Queer Voices
Tom Bartolomei

Being married to a drag queen is difficult. Well, being married to Vivian is difficult, at least. One of the most difficult things is the expense. Then there is the time commitment. And then there is the frustration. But I can honestly say that I would not trade it for anything.