Saying 'No' To Negativity
Just the other day, a dear friend of mine wrote me a note letting me know that he was gravely concerned about what he perceived to be my undeniably positive attitude towards things in general.
Just the other day, a dear friend of mine wrote me a note letting me know that he was gravely concerned about what he perceived to be my undeniably positive attitude towards things in general.
Jess Suter | Posted 05.10.2012
Having grown up around family and close friends suffering from depression, like many of us have, I've always had the curiosity as to how we as humans ...
Richard J. Davidson | Posted 05.09.2012
I was always fascinated by variations among people in how they respond to emotional events in their environment. This strikes me as the most important characteristic of emotion--we are all different. The unique emotional fingerprint we all have is what I call Emotional Style.
Ilana Ross | Posted 05.08.2012
My best friend Michaela and I didn't realize we were best friends until junior year when I rowed from Tangier to Spain to visit her, and save her from...
Peter Baksa | Posted 04.18.2012
As we develop greater strength of character, we're able to face the unknown and to create new possibilities for ourselves. We begin to learn to detach and to recognize the cycles and the patterns that are always evolving within us and around us.
Julie Chen, M.D. | Posted 04.18.2012
In medicine, when we talk about the "nocebo effect," what we are referring to is the concept that adverse health or clinical events can be produced or influenced by negative expectations.
Heidi Grant Halvorson, Ph.D. | Posted 03.22.2012
Cultivate your realistic optimism by combining a positive attitude with an honest assessment of the challenges that await you. Don't visualize success -- visualize the steps you will take in order to make success happen.
Mateo Gutierrez | Posted 03.14.2012
There's no question that a good positive quote will get shared. And there's no question that a positive observation will be shared wildly in the social web. The more interesting point is that the negative posts often get corrected.
Mastin Kipp | Posted 03.14.2012
If I was letting the news media paint my opinion of the world, my life would probably suck. Crazy things do happen in the world every day, but it is up to us to apply the meaning to the events.
Susan Piver | Posted 12.26.2011
When I catch myself falling into a pit of despair over ill loved ones, for example ... I say to myself, "You could always just cheer up." Amazingly, even if it's only for a moment, I do.
Mike Robbins | Posted 12.26.2011
It's normal for us to compare ourselves to others. However, negative comparison can have serious consequences on our self-esteem, our relationships, our work and our overall experience of life.
Dr. Judith Rich | Posted 11.28.2011
Imagine you could get a glimpse of humanity, everywhere on the planet, all at the same time. That's what a group of creative filmmakers, students and inspired citizens set out to do last October.
Penny Love Hoff | Posted 08.25.2011
We cannot always control our thoughts, especially when life comes unhinged. But that makes it all the more important to control the thoughts that are manageable.
Mike Robbins | Posted 11.17.2011
If we pay much attention to the media, it's easy to get the impression that life is really scary, dangerous, and there are lots of terrible things happening all over the place.
Jay Michaelson | Posted 11.17.2011
Okay, so it feels good to say "all is one" in the yoga studio. But during the other hours of the day, aren't we all behaving as if it's you versus me, in a dog-eat-dog world?
Dr. Jim Taylor | Posted 05.25.2011
Too often athletes are their own worst enemy rather than their best ally. When you compete, whose side are you on?
Marty Zwilling | Posted 05.25.2011
Every entrepreneur likes to think that their document is inspirational. Every serious investor has a stack of these in their in-basket. Here is what investors say the former shouldn't do.
Lita Smith-Mines | Posted 05.25.2011
As business owners, we all are trying to hang on for dear life. But how do you keep a grip when your fingers have grown numb?
Michael Wolf | Posted 05.25.2011
Very few subjects stir interest like negative campaigns; voters dislike them; political consultants adore them; and political scientists scrutinize them. Two contradictory points are evident.
Dr. Ali Binazir | Posted 11.17.2011
Many people unconsciously want to be treated poorly, taken advantage of, or even outright abused.
Michael Yapko | Posted 11.17.2011
The fact that all of us are eminently capable of experiencing angry feelings is a given. What defines us, though, is how well or how poorly we manage that anger.
Russell Bishop | Posted 11.17.2011
What strikes me most about the Club is the skillful banter between members as they engage in one-downsmanship. How have we become a nation besotted with criticism and complaint over reasoned argument and positive action?
Dr. Paula Bloom | Posted 11.17.2011
We are each susceptible to the influences around us. It is important to realize this, and surround ourselves with happy, healthy thoughts.
Howard C. Cutler, M.D. | Posted 11.17.2011
New scientific evidence dispels our cultural biases and myths, such as perceiving happiness as a somewhat "soft" or frivolous subject, or considering happiness to be self-centered or self-indulgent.
msn.com | Posted 11.17.2011
A surprising number of teenagers -- nearly 15 percent -- think they're going to die young, leading many to drug use, suicide attempts and other unsafe...
Dori Hartley | Posted 05.17.2012