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You Slept With My Stalker?

Mike Diamond | Posted 02.02.2016 | Queer Voices
Mike Diamond

I did have a stalker once, and a friend did sleep with him and tell me about it afterwards. That little factoid proves that there is a dearth of sane, sexy, available men. My stalker was a manic-depressive Brooklyn plumber with one testicle, yet I was still wildly upset when he "betrayed" me.

The Down-Low Stigma Is Still Prevalent In Urban Gay Media

Deron Dalton | Posted 02.02.2016 | Queer Voices
Deron Dalton

It's as though "down low" were synonymous with "gay and black." Not only is being on the down low problematic, but portraying all gay black men as down-low brothers stigmatizes the gay black community.