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Advice On How To Introduce Sex Toys In The Bedroom

Posted 08.04.2015 | MarloThomas

I thought I knew a lot about the female orgasm, but after having sex expert Emily Nagoski come by the show, I realized how much more there was to it! ...

Here's What Happens When Women Demand Orgasms

Jenny Block | Posted 07.31.2015 | Women
Jenny Block

Own your pleasure. You're not a slut for wanting to come. You're not greedy for wanting to come as much as possible. You're a human. Human's seek pleasure. Soak it in, as much as you can get.

The Epidemic of the Angry and Numb Vagina

Pamela Madsen | Posted 07.13.2015 | Women
Pamela Madsen

The lack of acceptance that far too many woman have for her own vagina and the lack of knowledge about the incredible potential of embodying the creative life force energy these spaces hold, continues to disturb me as I encounter this all over the world.

How To Reclaim Your Sexual Voice Through Orgasmic Yoga

Pamela Madsen | Posted 07.13.2015 | Fifty
Pamela Madsen

One of the more challenging things for many people when it comes to sex is to find out what really turns them on after having removed all of their shame and judgment. The next big step is to then state their desires aloud to themselves and to their intimate partners.

4 Common Reasons Why Women Don't Have Orgasms

Pamela Madsen | Posted 06.24.2015 | Fifty
Pamela Madsen

The reasons why women hold themselves back from receiving pleasure in their bodies and having orgasm are common and widespread. And women can open up to pleasure and change their relationship to their bodies and their sexuality at any age.

How 8 Women Discovered Masturbation -- And What They Wish They Knew

The Huffington Post | Nina Friend | Posted 06.16.2015 | Women

From reading Sex For Dummies to playing around with a vibrating hairbrush, every woman has a unique first-time story. First time masturbating, that is...

Here's Why Sex Toys Are Your Friends

Jenny Block | Posted 06.16.2015 | Gay Voices
Jenny Block

There is nothing better than the warmth and feel of my girlfriend's mouth and hands. But there is also nothing better than being able to achieve the number and variety of orgasms in which toys can assist.

'Female Viagra' -- Libido Liberation or Gender Hype?

Cary A. Presant, M.D. | Posted 06.15.2015 | Healthy Living
Cary A. Presant, M.D.

Is this new drug flianserin really the "female Viagra," or is it just a drug that empowers women to talk about gender discrimination?

The Fascinating Truth About Women And Sex After 50

Pamela Madsen | Posted 06.11.2015 | Fifty
Pamela Madsen

You have to let go of the idea that women over the age of 50 have a diminishing or lower libido after menopause. That simply does not have to be true. What may be more to the point is the need to let go of their own perceptions of what sexuality is all about.

The Benefit of Making Noise In And Out of Bed

Betsy Blankenbaker | Posted 06.10.2015 | Fifty
Betsy Blankenbaker

I never realized the connection between my vagina and my voice until I started researching orgasm at age 45.

4 Things I Learned About Having Great Sex From Having Crappy Migraines

Kate McCombs | Posted 06.08.2015 | Healthy Living
Kate McCombs

Migraines and sex... Since I'm a sex educator and a chronic migraineur, you can imagine I think about those two things quite a lot. Even though the e...

Busted! 5 Myths About Sex After 50

Pamela Madsen | Posted 06.04.2015 | Fifty
Pamela Madsen

The over-50, midlife, baby boomer sexual being has arrived. And what they want is support and information around how to expand their sexuality with changing bodies.

Everything You Need To Know To Embrace And Love The Clitoris

The Huffington Post | Posted 05.20.2015 | Women

Earlier this week, The Huffington Post launched The Overdue, Under-Told Story Of The Clitoris, a multimedia collaboration meant to educate and empower...

The Not-So-Secret Sexual Healing Underground For Women

Pamela Madsen | Posted 05.14.2015 | Fifty
Pamela Madsen

Given that sex is such a charged and vital part of our identities, I am amazed that after centuries of analyzing, opining and investigating, we still do such a lousy job supporting and educating people around their relationship with their sexuality.

Why I Write About Sex

Rachel Hills | Posted 06.08.2015 | Women
Rachel Hills

I used to be intimidated by people who wrote about sex, even long after I started writing about it myself. The irony, of course, is that people now think the same thing about me. That because I write about sex, I must be particularly sexual. To which my internal response is: "No. You don't get me at all."

4 Reasons Why Soft Penises Are Underrated

Pamela Madsen | Posted 06.06.2015 | Fifty
Pamela Madsen

When men reach out to me, it's usually about their fears surrounding having and sustaining erections. Men -- just like women -- worry about getting it on. In our culture, it's all about penetrative sex. But a hard penis is not everything when it comes to making love. It's simply not all there is.

11 Tips For A Happy Vagina

Pamela Madsen | Posted 05.26.2015 | Fifty
Pamela Madsen

Vaginas need and enjoy attention; and knowing how to keep your vagina happy is very important -- because if your vagina isn't happy, nobody's happy!

How One Woman's Quest For Great Orgasms Put Her On A Spiritual Journey

Dan Wakefield | Posted 05.17.2015 | Fifty
Dan Wakefield

Full disclosure: the filmmaker Betsy Blankenbaker is a friend of mine. She is not, however, an intimate friend. I knew nothing at all about her orgasms until I read her new book, Autobiography of an Orgasm. Now I know everything.

The Complexity And Simplicity Of Female Erotic Desire

Pamela Madsen | Posted 05.09.2015 | Fifty
Pamela Madsen

As a sex coach who works primarily with women, the lion's share of my work is helping women understand that they are not broken, and helping them find their own individual portal to their unique erotic expression.

Sex Energy on the Brain

Peggy Payne | Posted 04.22.2015 | Religion
Peggy Payne

Kundalini: It's not a pasta. The Sanskrit root of the word means coiled or spiral. The image of a snake piled on itself or two snakes rising is used to depict this reservoir of energy at the base of the spine.

Owning the Big "O": Persons With Disabilities and Sex Work, a "Deliciously Different" Kind of "Session"

Andrew Morrison-Gurza | Posted 04.22.2015 | Gay Voices
Andrew Morrison-Gurza

By only focusing on the above mentioned models of sex and disability, and glorifying the sex worker as a saint of sorts for providing such an invaluable experience, we are again placing people with disabilities at a disadvantage.

The Danger of Viewing Fifty Shades of Grey As Sex Ed

Soraya Chemaly | Posted 04.20.2015 | Women
Soraya Chemaly

Ana, and her fans, are rewarded not by on-screen climax, but by the promise of marriage. All of this sounds an awful lot like ideas embedded in abstinence-only sex ed.

When Your Orgasm Goes Missing

Taylor Marsh | Posted 04.14.2015 | Women
Taylor Marsh

Nobody warns you. It just happens. At least that's my story. I was in my late 40s, passionately in love, and suddenly the wondrous release that always made me so giddy just wasn't there anymore.

This Woman Is Live-Tweeting Her Quest To Have An Orgasm While On Antidepressants

The Huffington Post | Leigh Weingus | Posted 01.30.2015 | Women

Crista Anne Orenda is a blogger, mother of four and sex educator. She also describes herself as a "sex pleasurist," and she was far from pleased when ...

Is Tango Better Than Sex?

Sasha Cagen | Posted 03.08.2015 | Women
Sasha Cagen

A tangasm is not a climax in the way we think of an "orgasm." There is no particular moment of release. The tangasm is not about how it looks, it's about how it feels. A tangasm is a moment of total connection coupled with full-body pleasure, bodies swirling with each other, breathing together, a union with the moment, your partner, the music, the room.