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Other Mother

It's Never Too Late to Reconnect a Blended Family

Colleen Logan, Ph.D. | Posted 04.02.2014 | Gay Voices
Colleen Logan, Ph.D.

"Other Mothers," keep your hearts open. Your job is a tough one and filled with pain. But continuing to open your heart to your children -- no matter how you define "your" -- is well worth the risk.

Holiday Not Holidate: Free Yourself From the Calendar to Celebrate With Your Blended or Same-Sex Family

Colleen Logan, Ph.D. | Posted 02.22.2014 | Gay Voices
Colleen Logan, Ph.D.

You may feel married to the calendar long after you're no longer married to your ex. As adults, we remember feelings and experiences more than calendar dates. With creativity and commitment, you can celebrate your own new traditions that don't depend on a number on the wall.

5 Things This Lesbian, Divorced, Remarried "Other Mother" Is Thankful for

Colleen Logan, Ph.D. | Posted 01.26.2014 | Gay Voices
Colleen Logan, Ph.D.

In keeping with the holiday, I've thought about some things that I am thankful for - in my personal parenting circumstance and also in our community. What are your experiences this holiday season?

What Makes a Mother 'Primary'?

Colleen Logan, Ph.D. | Posted 01.23.2014 | Gay Voices
Colleen Logan, Ph.D.

I've been writing here about the experience of being the "other mother" for just about a month now. What is the "other mother"? How does the role develop, and where does it lead?