Personal Responsibility

Facebook Crybabies

Aaron Harber | Posted 05.29.2012

Aaron Harber

The Blame Game Begins The recent spate of complaints about Facebook's unspectacular stock debut includes thousands of investors who were upset FB's i...

You Don't Have to Do it All

Jinny Ditzler | Posted 05.09.2012

Jinny Ditzler

After a moment of desperation, I laughed out loud. Hopeless! The list is getting longer, not shorter. Do I really have to do everything I think I have to do? And my inner wisdom whispered, "No."

Personal Transformation: And How to Stay That Way

Jinny Ditzler | Posted 04.30.2012

Jinny Ditzler

To maintain your personal transformation, remember that what you focus on is what you get. Mindfulness means keeping your mind on positive thoughts and actions and pulling it back when it wanders off course.

Personal Transformation: The ABC's of Destroying Limiting Beliefs

Jinny Ditzler | Posted 04.17.2012

Jinny Ditzler

When you master the art and science of the paradigm shift, you're able to make life as meaningful as you like. You're now able to clear the obstacles on the path to the results you want and need. You can silence the whining, self-pitying monkey mind any time you like.

Have You Been Accountable?

Kathy Kaehler | Posted 04.12.2012

Kathy Kaehler

Accountability is not just a mindset but a skill set that everyone can learn and should master. Choose accountability and own it. You will always come out on top.

Personal Transformation: Anything Is Possible

Jinny Ditzler | Posted 04.14.2012

Jinny Ditzler

In all my many years of coaching people, I've never met anyone without a "monkey mind" -- the little voice that runs a commentary on what's wrong with us and why we can't get what we want and need.

Personal Transformation: Personal Responsibility

Jinny Ditzler | Posted 05.27.2012

Jinny Ditzler

Few would say that personal transformation is easy. Or as our friend Lew Epstein put it -- "It's simple, but not easy."

'Why Are My Partners Always Needy?'

Margaret Paul, Ph.D. | Posted 05.08.2012

Margaret Paul, Ph.D.

A patient of mine realized that if he wanted to attract a loving and caring woman who took responsibility for herself, he would have to learn to be loving and caring toward himself.

Newt Gingrich, Self-Victimization, and the Politics of Personal Responsibility

John Becker | Posted 03.24.2012

John Becker

Newt's ego is so monumental that once he could no longer conceal his affair, he had the temerity to demand in all seriousness that his wife "share" him with his mistress.

7 Ways to Improve Your Relationship

Margaret Paul, Ph.D. | Posted 03.19.2012

Margaret Paul, Ph.D.

Good relationships don't just happen. I've discovered seven choices you can make that will not only improve your relationship, but can turn a failing relationship into a successful one.

You Are Never Alone

Margaret Paul, Ph.D. | Posted 03.06.2012

Margaret Paul, Ph.D.

What if you knew that you were never alone -- that you were always being guided by a personal source of spiritual guidance? If you knew and experienced this, you would undoubtedly feel much safer and more peaceful.

Who Is Responsible for Your Feelings?

Margaret Paul, Ph.D. | Posted 01.31.2012

Margaret Paul, Ph.D.

If you pay careful attention to your emotions, you will discover, in your relationships with others, that it is often not another's behavior that is creating your misery or your inner peace or joy, but rather your own responses.

The 7-Step Guide To Ruining Your Relationship

Margaret Paul, Ph.D. | Posted 01.26.2012

Margaret Paul, Ph.D.

Congratulations! You have succeeded in creating a terrible relationship! Now you can miserably and righteously leave your partner and do the whole thing again!

Self-Pity or Self-Compassion

Margaret Paul, Ph.D. | Posted 01.21.2012

Margaret Paul, Ph.D.

There is a vast difference between feeling sorry for yourself and feeling kindness toward yourself.

It Takes One to Know One: Dancing With the Shadow Self

Akoshia Yoba | Posted 01.15.2012

Akoshia Yoba

Living in a society that shuns blatant acts of self-praise, I learned that when we admire people we are often projecting the best and beautiful parts of ourselves onto them.

The Return of Social Darwinism

Paul Stoller | Posted 12.24.2011

Paul Stoller

With the narrow-minded and heartless ideas of Romney and Cain we will not only drift back to a reconfigured form of 19th century economic royalism, but also return to the ideology of Social Darwinism. Such a return will tear our society apart.

The Herman Cain Blame Game

Kent Greenfield | Posted 12.13.2011

Kent Greenfield

People shouldn't be blamed for not choosing work when the choice to work doesn't exist. Pulling on bootstraps works only when you have boots, and only when someone isn't holding you down.

Other Things Tea Party Crowds Break Into Applause For

Andy McDonald | Posted 11.23.2011

Andy McDonald

The execution of a potentially innocent person, the death of a comatose man without healthcare -- these warm and fuzzy topics are just some of the man...

Silver Linings in the Health Care Ruling

Ron Pollack | Posted 10.17.2011

Ron Pollack

For those of us who have followed in the footsteps of earlier generations and fought for progress for years, Friday's decision on the Affordable Care Act by the 11th Circuit Court of Appeals feels familiar.

Enmeshed Parenting

Margaret Paul, Ph.D. | Posted 10.16.2011

Margaret Paul, Ph.D.

It is vitally important that you have a sense of passion and purpose in your life separate from your children. And it is vitally important that you learn to define your own sense of worth rather than making your children's behavior responsible.

Parents, What Kind of Role Model Are You?

Margaret Paul, Ph.D. | Posted 09.17.2011

Margaret Paul, Ph.D.

It's very important to realize that, while being there for your children is vital, it is only half of good parenting. The other half is being there for yourself with honesty, courage and integrity.

States Should Follow Massachusetts' Lead

Fred Silberberg | Posted 09.26.2011

Fred Silberberg

It seems that of late, Massachusetts is the state that leads the rest of the country when it comes to family law issues.

Chocolate Cake Doesn't Make You Fat -- But Eating It Does

Jeff Schweitzer | Posted 08.30.2011

Jeff Schweitzer

Looking for the easy solution, avoiding the hard work necessary to maintain a healthy diet, is what got us into this mess to begin with.

The "Sweat Lodge Guru" Guilty Verdict: Recognizing the Deadly Influence of Authority

Kent Greenfield | Posted 08.24.2011

Kent Greenfield

Two years ago, three people died in a sweat lodge near Sedona, Arizona, during a so-called "Spiritual Warrior" retreat led by self-help guru James Art...

The Five Wisdoms Of The Mandala

C. Clinton Sidle | Posted 08.15.2011

C. Clinton Sidle

Known as a Mandala, or Medicine Wheel, this framework has provided a guide for personal growth and effectiveness that has withstood the test of time for thousands of years.