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Richard Abrons

My Best Friend

Richard Abrons | Posted 01.11.2016 | New York
Richard Abrons

I have known David for about 60 years. Only for the last 10 has he been my best friend. Being best friends was something that delighted both of us. We had lunch about once a week and talked on the phone almost every day.

What I Miss Most About Growing Up In The 1930s

Richard Abrons | Posted 12.20.2015 | Fifty
Richard Abrons

In the 1930s, when I was growing up in New Rochelle, aunts and uncles were ever present. Perhaps it was because they lived in the city and wanted a taste of grass and trees. Maybe it was because they were second generation, still partly strangers in a strange land. Whatever, family took precedence.


Richard Abrons | Posted 11.16.2015 | Arts
Richard Abrons

If you asked me what was the one thing I enjoyed most during my childhood, my answer would be reading. Oh, there were lots of other things to enjoy -...

Kim Davis: I Respect Her

Richard Abrons | Posted 09.04.2015 | Politics
Richard Abrons

Kim Davis, the Kentucky clerk who refuses to issue marriage licenses to same sex couples, has gotten herself into an ugly mess. She is being screamed ...

Rotten Justice

Richard Abrons | Posted 09.03.2015 | Politics
Richard Abrons

I read about killings, rape and torture in South Sudan, Syria and elsewhere and turn the page. These are terrible things but they are too far away to ...

Why I Am a Liberal

Richard Abrons | Posted 07.30.2015 | Politics
Richard Abrons

When genial Ronald Reagan appeared on the scene to castigate government, a tsunami of conservatism succeeded in making liberal almost a dirty word. I believe that tsunami is spent.


Richard Abrons | Posted 06.30.2015 | Politics
Richard Abrons

My sympathies were strongly for the South. Lee. Jackson, Jeb Stuart, Nathan Bedford Forrrest -- those were my heroes. I even sucked on lemons because Stonewall did. When I was asked why, I said because they tasted good.


Richard Abrons | Posted 06.11.2015 | Religion
Richard Abrons

In my forties, I felt the desire to gravitate to a higher place. I confided my yearnings to a friend who had immersed himself in spiritual endeavors.

Presidents and I

Richard Abrons | Posted 05.18.2015 | Politics
Richard Abrons

In 1940 Franklin Delano Roosevelt ran for a third term against Wendell Wilkie. My father took me, a very politically aware 14-year-old, to a political...


Richard Abrons | Posted 06.27.2015 | Fifty
Richard Abrons

I tell her that I don't want to be a burden and I mean that with all my heart. "You should never have married an older man," I say.

Seeing The Glass As Half Full At Age 88

Richard Abrons | Posted 06.10.2015 | Fifty
Richard Abrons

There is a general principle to growing older. It gets worse. You want to live a long life. Good, but you can't avoid issues. Take my lunch group. Bert has had a stroke; David is legally blind; Mickey uses a walker; Justin is leaning ever more precariously; my joints are aching.

Favorite Things

Richard Abrons | Posted 05.02.2015 | Fifty
Richard Abrons

Here are a few of my favorite things. Actually, Sound Of Music is one of them. As is Julie Andrews in her prime. From here on I will list them as they occur to me -- not in order of importance or pleasure.

The Childhood Games That Make Us Feel All Nostalgia

Richard Abrons | Posted 04.17.2015 | Fifty
Richard Abrons

Growing up in New Rochelle in the the 1930s, we played games that now are off the map. I wonder if any of my small but hearty band of readers are familiar with them. You'd have to be old and lived in the suburbs. These games took up much of our free time and I remember them with great fondness.

Take Responsibility

Richard Abrons | Posted 03.22.2015 | Healthy Living
Richard Abrons

When I was in my 40s, I asked my 84-year-old uncle what was the most important piece of wisdom he had learned from his long experience. He thought for a while, and then he said, "take responsibility."


Richard Abrons | Posted 02.23.2015 | Healthy Living
Richard Abrons

And now I walk with a cane. At first reluctant to display such an obvious accoutrement of old age, I have come to enjoy my persona. With each thump I feel the gravitas of Peter Stuyvesant, an old familiar figure thumping through the streets of the Big Apple. Still observing, still discerning, not to be trifled with. I wave my cane. Out of my way, whipper-snappers. Yes, doctors take up more and more of my time. Bring 'em on!

Janet's Class

Richard Abrons | Posted 01.26.2015 | Fifty
Richard Abrons

If you are of a certain age, retired, without an office and somewhat bored. I have an idea for you. Join an acting group, class, whatever you want to call it. What you need is an experienced leader to guide you and a dozen or so pleasant people who will commit to the venture.

Give Ups

Richard Abrons | Posted 12.23.2014 | Fifty
Richard Abrons

Children and grandchildren, friends, people to see, places to go, things to do. I have NOT given up.

The Days of Awe

Richard Abrons | Posted 11.24.2014 | Religion
Richard Abrons

At home I never went to religious school and was not bar mitzvahed. We went as a family to services on the high holy days. My father always said, 'we go to be counted.' We went as part of the team.

This Messy World

Richard Abrons | Posted 10.28.2014 | World
Richard Abrons

A messy world? Oh, yes. But do some good and enjoy. Nothing wrong with that.

Letting You In

Richard Abrons | Posted 09.28.2014 | Healthy Living
Richard Abrons

About 10 years ago my internist told me that my blood test showed kidney numbers beyond normal. He said it in passing and I let it pass. I have no interest into possible lurking calamities.

How I Know I've Finally Reached Old Age

Richard Abrons | Posted 09.08.2014 | Fifty
Richard Abrons

When I was 80, I wrote a personal memoir. This is what I said about old age: 'I am an old man. Eighty has got to be old. But, if in good health with all the joints and the brain working, what is the big deal?' Now, at 87, I wouldn't say that today.

The 4 Maxims That Have Helped Me Live A Better Life

Richard Abrons | Posted 08.18.2014 | GPS for the Soul
Richard Abrons

A few maxims have become embedded in my psyche and have helped me live a better life. They are few and they are not old favorites like 'a rolling stone gathers no moss' or 'a penny saved is a penny earned.'

Sense and Sensibility

Richard Abrons | Posted 07.01.2014 | Fifty
Richard Abrons

My lovely and adored wife, Iris, would have been a survivor in prehistoric times. What our neanderthal ancestors needed to evade the sabre tooth tiger and the massive mastodon she has in spades.

Only Connect

Richard Abrons | Posted 06.17.2014 | Fifty
Richard Abrons

Nothing is more satisfying than connecting, truly connecting, with another soul or group of souls. Mostly, however, we skim the surface, maintain our poise, do not penetrate or reveal.


Richard Abrons | Posted 05.20.2014 | Fifty
Richard Abrons

Thought I wouldn't get around to that, did you? Did you really think I would ignore a third of our time? Perhaps you thought I would have nothing to contribute. Wrong. Eighty-seven years, hundreds of conversations, a thousand articles.