There are no generally right answers out there for us all to accept as the one way of creating ourselves and what we experience. There's only the realization that there's a right answer for you as an individual and you have the ability to find it better than anyone else -- because it's always located somewhere between your gut and your soul.
Much of my life has centered on finding a new way to live. Even in childhood I was looking for a different path, a way to escape a life that felt cold and unaccepting. Those early experiences were profound in forming the adult I grew to be, and I still struggle with overcoming long-ago lessons learned.