How Women Lose Themselves in Motherhood
So many women lose themselves in motherhood. I call this the "Silent War," the process of slowly fading away from yourself, your interests and your passions without even realizing it's happening.
So many women lose themselves in motherhood. I call this the "Silent War," the process of slowly fading away from yourself, your interests and your passions without even realizing it's happening.
Kristin Neff | Posted 05.23.2012
Although the term "compassion fatigue" is well-known, some psychologists are starting to argue that the term should be changed to "empathy fatigue."
Nancy Deville | Posted 05.20.2012
The early 40s are the years to make significant changes to head off accelerated aging. It's a "make or break it" time of life. You can tailspin into aging, or you can revamp and renew yourself.
Karen Horneffer-Ginter, Ph.D. | Posted 05.13.2012
It's worth considering how we can optimize our self-care efforts. Take some time to reflect on how much time feels like enough time and what mix of activities feels like it best meets the range of your needs.
Wendy Strgar | Posted 05.08.2012
Finding the courage to extricate the shame, guilt, or other emotional baggage from our hearts is where healing begins and we open to the potential of our life.
Susan Harrow | Posted 05.14.2012
I'm in love with Pinterest the new hot social network where images are digital coke -- addictive, unlimited pleasure with just a few side effects -- l...
Iyanla Vanzant | Posted 05.26.2012
Something that we often forget is that we all play a role in the creation of the pain we experience, even if someone else is involved.
James S. Gordon | Posted 05.06.2012
So much happens to all of us in the Jacmel training as we go deeper, become more aware, take chances, and connect over five days.
James S. Gordon | Posted 05.02.2012
The loss of life here in Jacmel is far less than in Port-au-Prince but the burden is still heavy. There are of course the ordinary deaths that come with age, and the losses of younger people cut down by accident, sudden illness, or murder.
Mia Redrick | Posted 05.01.2012
We've all heard the term "helicopter mom" to describe moms that are over-protective and overly involved in their children's daily activities. These moms frequently over-stay their welcome and hyper-manage everything.
Judith J. Wurtman, PhD | Posted 04.30.2012
Several of my friends live alone. The reasons for their solitary lifestyles vary, but what most of them have in common is an almost total disinterest in cooking meals for themselves.
Stephanie Bennett Vogt | Posted 04.10.2012
Have you ever stopped what you were doing to simply watch what's going on in your head? Yes, to do nothing more than observe your thoughts without doing anything to fix or manage them?
Mia Redrick | Posted 04.07.2012
Because my mother lost herself in motherhood and gave her children everything she had, she forgot to leave much for herself and had to reacquaint herself with the "Me" in Mommy.
Agapi Stassinopoulos | Posted 04.02.2012
It took me years to realize the value of replenishing myself and putting myself on the top of my to do list, of taking care of myself so I can take care of others. And at some point I really got that the key to happiness is to going deep inside myself and realizing that I was enough and that is what I call the process of unbinding.
Red Room | Posted 04.01.2012
Getting the most out of your experience is what really counts. Here are some tips for the spa newbie or the spa savvy.
Mia Redrick | Posted 03.25.2012
Last year, I decided to complete my first Iron Girl Triathlon. I've always wanted to do a tri event, but the biggest obstacle facing me was that I did not know how to swim.
Wendy Lustbader | Posted 03.21.2012
When an older family member needs help, many people struggle to find the time to provide assistance to their relative amidst the many other commitments crowding their lives. Often, it is hard to figure out just how much help is really necessary.
Mia Redrick | Posted 03.13.2012
At some point, I want to model what quality of life looks like for my kids and I'm pretty sure it isn't riding around from place to place in your car. Can you relate?
Stephanie Bennett Vogt | Posted 02.27.2012
f they brighten your day, help you feel supremely good, connect you to a quiet place within, they are... not clutter. Nor an extravagance. What lifts your spirits? What helps you feel lighter and in the flow?
Rick Hanson, Ph.D. | Posted 02.20.2012
Feeling understood, valued and cherished -- whether as a child or an adult, and with regard to another person or to a group -- may not be a life and death matter, but it certainly affects one's happiness and effectiveness.
Judith J. Wurtman, PhD | Posted 02.14.2012
The infamous holiday five pounds do not have to be inevitable, and what a wonderful gift you will be giving yourself to enter the New Year without the extra weight of the past.
Mia Redrick | Posted 02.12.2012
I decided a few years back that taking care of myself was just as important as taking care of everyone else.
Judith Johnson | Posted 01.17.2012
If you find yourself on a trajectory of anticipating an awful Thanksgiving, consider what you might do to change that. Ultimately, how you experience that day is a reflection of your attitude.
Stephanie Sarkis, Ph.D. | Posted 11.07.2011
I've noticed more moms making appointments with me because they feel their lives are out of control -- they feel burned out. If you don't take care of yourself, it's even more of a challenge to take care of anyone else.
Erin N. Marcus, M.D. | Posted 10.02.2011
Sometimes, the simplest tools in medicine are the ones that give us the most useful information.
Mia Redrick | Posted 05.31.2012