Self Control

Please Meditate: Self Inquiry and Impulse Control (VIDEO)

Olivia Rosewood | Posted 03.19.2012

Olivia Rosewood

"Why should I question myself?" You might wonder. The answer to that question is found in the question itself. The fact that one is able to question one's self indicates that there is more to awareness than incessant thought, as many assume.

The Psychology Of Weight Control: How Recalling Your Values Leads To Weight Loss

Wray Herbert | Posted 03.03.2012

Wray Herbert

Scientists believe that people can get stuck in repeating cycles, in which failure to lose weight impairs psychological functioning, which in turn increases the risk of more failure. Even a quick and simple intervention may have the power to disrupt this destructive cycle.

Life & Happiness With Laura Rowley: How To Boost Willpower

Laura Rowley | Posted 02.11.2012

The holidays are definitely a season of multiple decisions -- gifts and decorations, menus and invitations -- and choice overload can weaken our willp...

How To Stop Being A People-Pleaser

Daylle Deanna Schwartz | Posted 02.01.2012

Daylle Deanna Schwartz

Despite the self-empowerment messages we hear, people pleasing is still rampant, especially among women.

14 Tips For Controlling Holiday Eating -- On Thanksgiving And Beyond

Gretchen Rubin | Posted 01.24.2012

Gretchen Rubin

I've been thinking a lot about my eating habits lately -- probably because the holiday season is so full of temptation. Here are some guideline to follow, whether eating in or eating out.

Why Religion Makes You Disciplined

Wray Herbert | Posted 01.21.2012

Wray Herbert

A team of psychological scientists at Queen's University, Ontario, is now offering a novel idea about the origin of religion, and what's more they're delivering some preliminary scientific evidence to support their reasoning.

How To Keep Going When You Think You Can't: 5 Tips For Tough Times

Amy Gutman | Posted 01.11.2012

Amy Gutman

You probably know the feeling: Just when you most need to push ahead, whatever willpower you once possessed is nowhere to be found. As it turns out, this is no coincidence.

Could This Trait Make You More Successful?

Heidi Grant Halvorson, Ph.D. | Posted 12.26.2011

Heidi Grant Halvorson, Ph.D.

New research shows that people just won't trust you when you seem like you might have a willpower problem.

Self-Control: Helpful Or Harmful?

Heidi Grant Halvorson, Ph.D. | Posted 11.20.2011

Heidi Grant Halvorson, Ph.D.

We automatically think of willpower as a resource we use to help us do the things we know we should do -- the things that are good for us. Why, then, would anyone ever exert willpower in order to do something that isn't good for them?

How to Stop Love From Making You Act Like a Fool

Heidi Grant Halvorson, Ph.D. | Posted 10.11.2011

Heidi Grant Halvorson, Ph.D.

Just taking a moment to decide how you will handle your less attractive impulses could mean the difference between finding Mr. Right and seriously freaking him out.

5 Ways to Spend Less

Heidi Grant Halvorson, Ph.D. | Posted 10.04.2011

Heidi Grant Halvorson, Ph.D.

Everyone knows that if you want to get your finances in order and start being smart about your financial future, you need to make a financial plan.

New Strategies To Curb Emotional Eating

Heidi Grant Halvorson, Ph.D. | Posted 09.04.2011

Heidi Grant Halvorson, Ph.D.

Americans are stressed out, and seeking treatment for anxiety and depression in record numbers. Experiencing all of those bad feelings each day leads us to consume more and more high-calorie junk food.

The Relationship Between Exercise And Self Control

Heidi Grant Halvorson, Ph.D. | Posted 08.14.2011

Heidi Grant Halvorson, Ph.D.

It turns out that our capacity for self-control is surprisingly like a muscle -- like a bicep or tricep.

The Only Way to Get Important Things Done

Tony Schwartz | Posted 07.26.2011

Tony Schwartz

We each have one reservoir of will and discipline, and it gets progressively depleted by any act of conscious self-regulation. So if you spend energy trying to resist a fragrant chocolate chip cookie, you'll have less energy left over to solve a difficult problem.

Balanced Life -- Quiz: Are you a Moderator or an Abstainer, When Trying to Give Something Up?

Gretchen Rubin | Posted 11.17.2011

Gretchen Rubin

Every Wednesday is Tip Day, or Quiz Day. This Wednesday, back by popular demand: Quiz -- are you a moderator or abstainer? One of the great myst...

How Willpower Works

Heidi Grant Halvorson, Ph.D. | Posted 11.17.2011

Heidi Grant Halvorson, Ph.D.

Your capacity for self-control is not unlike the muscles in your body. Just as well-developed biceps sometimes get tired and jelly-like after a strenuous workout, so, too, does your willpower "muscle."

9 Things Successful People Do Differently

Heidi Grant Halvorson, Ph.D. | Posted 11.17.2011

Heidi Grant Halvorson, Ph.D.

Decades of research on achievement suggests that successful people reach their goals not simply because of who they are, but more often because of what they do.

30 Things We Need -- and 30 We Don't

Tony Schwartz | Posted 05.25.2011

Tony Schwartz

Do you have the feeling, as I do, that in the tsunami of everyday life, we're getting too much of stuff we don't need, and not enough of what we do? Herewith my first set of suggestions about how to redress the imbalance.

The Partner Paradox: 'Outsourcing' Self-Discipline

Wray Herbert | Posted 11.17.2011

Wray Herbert

Is it possible that having a supportive partner might have the opposite and paradoxical effect, actually undermining effort and commitment to health and fitness goals over the long haul?

Take Back Your Attention

Tony Schwartz | Posted 11.17.2011

Tony Schwartz

Something insidious has happened. The same device most of us use to get our primary work accomplished is also now the repository of 1,000 distractions and every imaginable source of immediate gratification.

Treat Yourself Like A Toddler

Gretchen Rubin | Posted 11.17.2011

Gretchen Rubin

It's easy to expect that you "should" be able to deal with a particular situation, and of course, to a point, it's admirable to be flexible, to be low-maintenance.

How Thinking About An Elephant Can Make You Happier

Gretchen Rubin | Posted 11.17.2011

Gretchen Rubin

If you want to distract yourself and raise your thoughts, what do you think about? Do you consider the elephant, contemplate the heavens, or something similar?

Dog Tired: What Our Hounds Can Teach Us About Self-Control

Wray Herbert | Posted 11.17.2011

Wray Herbert

New research is now suggesting a much more primitive explanation for our powers of self-discipline--one that brings us down a notch or two in the animal kingdom.

The Balanced Life: Make It Easy to Do Right

Gretchen Rubin | Posted 11.17.2011

Gretchen Rubin

Find ingenious ways to make a resolution easier to keep.

Is Binge Eating A Psychiatric Disorder?

latimes.com | Melissa Healy | Posted 11.17.2011

Psychiatrists must decide whether "binge eating disorder" stands alongside anorexia nervosa and bulimia nervosa as a separate psychiatric condition --...