Self Hatred

Reflections On Self-Hatred And Relationships

Wade Davis, Jr. | Posted 04.18.2012

Wade Davis, Jr.

After my last Huffington Post piece, "Black, Gay, and Suspicious?" I received several humbling requests from people who wanted to read a follow-up elaborating more on the subject of my internalized racism and the way it had potentially shaped my dating choices.

We Pay Too Much For Beauty -- And I Don't Mean Money

Dori Hartley | Posted 10.22.2011

Dori Hartley

As one who has seen firsthand what some women will put themselves through in order to achieve self-improvement, I have come to discover that the real price paid has nothing to do with money.

You're Black? How Boring

Posted 10.05.2011

About once a month, I have a conversation that—after the initial introductions are made and small talk is in full swing—goes something along these...

How To Lose Your Addiction

Srinivasan Pillay | Posted 11.17.2011

Srinivasan Pillay

Addictions are a double-edged sword. They offer a form of comfort that, unfortunately, does not last and often leads to pain and discomfort. If we know this, why do we repeat harmful actions over and over again.

Why Seeking To Be Perfect Never Works

Soren Gordhamer | Posted 11.17.2011

Soren Gordhamer

While I have nothing against cool clothes, exercise, and health drinks, let's get one thing straight: perfection is something that exists inside us, never from the outside.