The number one sex problem that I hear from women is the lack of desire for sex. They do still enjoy sex once they get started, they tell me, but they're seldom in the mood ahead of time. It isn't just a problem for women -- many men also report decreased desire -- but for women, it's the main complaint.
Really, Miley Cyrus? You think sex ends at 40? You told Matt Lauer that, at 55, he was 'definitely not sexual'? On what planet? Oh, right, the youth planet! Miley, you could teach me plenty about fame, music, handling bad publicity, and, I suppose, twerking. But I could teach you a thing or two about sex.
Is 'senior erotica' a trend? We may never know, because we don't talk much about our erotica appetite or preferences. But we can make it a trend just by buying, reading, and talking about erotica that acknowledges our age group. You'll be surprised and, I hope, delighted, to expand your fantasy life to see what is possible at our age!
Sex without commitment can work if we believe it can, and we're clear ourselves as well as with our partners about the boundaries. Are we friends first, lovers second? Are we playing at romance, or refusing to let the relationship become romantic? Are the reasons that we want to be friends with benefits but not actual 'in-love' lovers clear and valid to both of us?
If a partner is offended that you won't have unprotected sex, please get your clothes back on. Being willing to go to bed with you without protection indicates that he/she did that with other partners... Do you really want to sleep with all the people this person has slept with, and all of those people's casual partners?