I guess my biggest problem is that when we do have sex I can never climax. Afterward we talk about what happened and what each of us could do better. Well he never listens. I try to do as much as possible like making sure I shave, wear matching underwear (his request) I have even sent him pictures in the middle of the day while we are both working.
Not only is it challenging for Generation X to understand the new millennial mating rules of the 21st century, it's difficult for millennials themselves to understand them, since there's often so much grey area. Here, we try to define the terms explicitly, so we can all get on the same dating page. Even though dating is dead.
We feel your pain. And so do a lot of other people! It's a common mistake many people make with new partners, especially if they're coming off a long-term relationship. Here are 5 fixes for this kind of mess up, some of which are inspired by our own readers' responses to previous advice questions on this exact topic.