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15 Things That Are Better Than Sex

The Huffington Post | Taryn Hillin | Posted 08.26.2014 | Divorce

We all know sex can be awesome, but let's face it -- when knee-deep in the single life, it's not always what you would call "mind blowing." In fact...

Can I Orgasm in My Sleep (If I Haven't Had One Awake)?

Em & Lo | Posted 08.14.2014 | Women
Em & Lo

As to whether or not you can experience orgasms (awake or asleep) before you've started having sex, the answer is another resounding YES! Yes, yes, yes, yes, oh, yeeeeeesssssssss! Again, we're getting the feeling you're under the impression that your sexuality doesn't get ignited until some other person has sex with you. Not true.

11 Things Men Think About Sex -- And The Reality

Samantha Rodman PhD | Posted 08.09.2014 | Women
Samantha Rodman PhD

If I had a nickel for every time I heard a man say that "unlike most guys," he "really likes" to go down on women, I would have enough nickels to build a life size statue of a man going down on a woman. And then I would auction it off on eBay, because I have children, for God's sake.

How Friends With Benefits Are Actually Benefitting Gen Y

Unwritten | Posted 08.04.2014 | Women
Unwritten

We're protecting our own feelings by putting up the same fronts that are basically shoved in our faces. In plain terms -- if they're cold, then be colder. If they're smart, then be smarter.

Sex: What He Really Wants (And Is Afraid to Ask For)

GalTime | Posted 07.31.2014 | Women
GalTime

Do you want the scoop on what your guy really wants, but is maybe too bashful to ask you for? I polled both regular men and sexuality experts to get the inside information. Here's what they told me.

5 Quick Fixes For A Ho-Hum Married Sex Life

Fawn Weaver | Posted 07.29.2014 | Weddings
Fawn Weaver

Have you heard the rumor that married sex is boring? Well, that's not the case in my 11-year marriage, and it doesn't have to be for yours either. One of the beautiful things about being with the same partner for so long is you are able to explore each other's bodies.

This Is How Often Married People Are Having Sex

The Huffington Post | Taryn Hillin | Posted 07.31.2014 | Weddings

It's often thought that when you tie the knot, your sex life all but dies. From hectic work schedules to kids' demands, roadblocks to doing the de...

Top 10 Things We Will Tell Our Daughters About Sex

Em & Lo | Posted 07.10.2014 | Women
Em & Lo

Writing about sex for the past 15 years has also given us plenty of time to think about how we'd like to raise our daughters, and how we will talk to them (and in some cases, are talking to them) about sex. Here are the top 10 things we want them -- eventually -- to know and understand.

The Simple Trick To Better Sex Is Hiding In Your Kitchen

The Huffington Post | Taryn Hillin | Posted 08.07.2014 | Divorce

It's been said that an apple a day keeps the doctor away, but new research suggests it can do a lot more than that. A new study published in Archi...

The Sidepiece Agreement: 10 Rules for The Other Woman

Zondra Hughes | Posted 08.07.2014 | Chicago
Zondra Hughes

A close male friend (who used to cheat on his wife) has enlightened me that some of us otherwise intelligent chicks enter into the Sidepiece Agreement -- that is, knowingly becoming the mistress or other woman -- without fully understanding the terms of the deal.

How to Supercharge Your Sex Drive

GalTime | Posted 08.27.2014 | Women
GalTime

With busy lives, demanding jobs, families etc., it's not an uncommon phenomenon to find yourself ready to hit the sheets for sleep rather than for a steamy romp in the sack.

10 Things You Should Know About Sex After Divorce

Posted 06.21.2014 | Divorce

By Live By Surprise for DivorcedMoms.com In America, it's common to get married young without a lot of sexual experience. Oftentimes, people who ma...

WOW: Erykah Badu Shares Steamy Sex Tips

The Huffington Post | Brennan Williams | Posted 05.27.2014 | Black Voices

--Grammy Award-winning singer-songwriter Erykah Badu shares personal sex tips on how to keep the fire burning in the bedroom. (Erykah Badu’s Twitter...

8 Reasons Sex After Divorce Is Hotter Than Married Sex

Posted 08.12.2014 | Divorce

By Real Mom for DivorcedMoms.com At the end of my marriage, my sex life was pretty much the same thing over and over and over. We had our way of do...

Alan Simpson Doles Out The Sex Advice You Didn't Want

The Huffington Post | Paige Lavender | Posted 05.07.2014 | Politics

Looking for sex advice? Look no further than 82-year-old former Senator Alan Simpson. Yes, you read that right. Simpson, along with his wife Ann...

Identifying As Sex Positive

Literally, Darling | Posted 07.07.2014 | Women
Literally, Darling

I am a sex-positive feminist. That is how I choose to identify myself. This label highlights how I see the world and how I choose to interact with it. I've come to this association after years of struggling with my own sexual identity and history -- a long and torrid journey.

What Young Women Really Need to Know About College

Julie Zeilinger | Posted 06.30.2014 | College
Julie Zeilinger

We need to stop presenting college as a time when women can and should be getting perfect grades, have legendary social lives and universally satisfying sexual experiences and instead present it as a nuanced experience full of all kinds of emotional, psychological and academic experiences that are different for women.

How A Plug-In Massager Changed My Life (And Marriage)

Roz Warren | Posted 06.28.2014 | Fifty
Roz Warren

After 18 years of enjoying a loving, monogamous union, we've decided to open up our relationship to include Mr. Yippee. We are a couple who does lots of snuggling. Mr. Yippee fits in easily. We snuggle, then take turns administering a hot vibrating massage.

7 Tips to Break the Sexual Ice with a New Partner

GalTime | Posted 06.10.2014 | Women
GalTime

If you want to take your relationship to the next level (meaning less talk and more play!), but don't know how to break the ice sexually, there are a few things you can do to get your partner's attention without being too obvious.

Why Doesn't He Want to Have Sex With Me?

Dr. Gail Gross | Posted 06.02.2014 | Women
Dr. Gail Gross

You're lying in bed bumping up against that body next to you, seething with hurt and anger. You haven't been touched or reached for in more months than you care to count.

9 Reasons You're Still With That Jerk

Posted 03.31.2014 | Divorce

Written by Kiri Blakeley on CafeMom's blog, The Stir Sometimes it's hard to know why you're still with someone who isn't good for you. Intellectu...

The Single Biggest Factor That Determines the Success of a Romantic Relationship

Erwan Davon | Posted 05.26.2014 | Women
Erwan Davon

Practicing and honing sexual skills is essential for keeping the chemistry beyond the hot initial dating stages. A simple interrogation about "what is an orgasm?" and "how can orgasm be prolonged?" is a practical start towards transforming a stagnant relationship blueprint.

What I Wish I Could Tell Hannah Horvath About Sex

Dr. Sue Johnson | Posted 05.25.2014 | Women
Dr. Sue Johnson

Sex without emotion is like a dance without music. All the raunchy moves and costumes won't make up for the silence.

How Deepak Chopra Thinks You Can Boost Your 'Sexual Energy'

Posted 03.21.2014 | HuffPost Live 321

You've probably heard it before but Deepak Chopra wants to tell it to you again: meditation can help rev up your sexual energy. Why is that? Becaus...

Is the Price of Admission to the Game of Love Too High?

Susan Winter | Posted 05.19.2014 | Women
Susan Winter

Women have an internal tabulation system that balances the scales of "risk versus reward." Is this man worth the price? Are we willing to place our intimacy chip on the line and gamble its outcome? And if we lose, how do we recover the price we've paid with our heart?