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Sex After Divorce

After Divorce: When a Fling Is Not Just a Fling

Kerry Neville | Posted 04.18.2016 | Divorce
Kerry Neville

I had my first adult fling (unaided by Jell-O shots) six months after the divorce, hopefully long enough so that it wasn't in angry reaction to his infidelity and my need to have my self-esteem buttressed. Because that was the default rumination long into the dark hours of night after learning about the affair.

Seeking a Happy-Ever-After While Carrying The Baggage Of Divorce

High50 | Posted 02.16.2017 | Fifty
High50

Voicemail. Leaving a message required me to put myself on the line and a Heimlich-maneuver-inducing swallowing of pride. 'Hello. It's me. I'd like to come back ... if you'll have me.'

For Middle-Age Moms Like Me, Divorce Can Be The Best Aphrodisiac

Washington Post | Brittany Wong | Posted 01.07.2016 | Divorce

We were sitting on the Little League bench ostensibly to watch our 11-year-olds play, but instead we were doing what we moms typically did — grumble...

8 Enticing Ways To Feel Sexy (And Have More Sex) After A Split

The Huffington Post | Brittany Wong | Posted 01.07.2016 | Divorce

Just because your relationship ended doesn't mean you don't have sexual needs. Below, sex therapists and other sexperts offer up eight ways to reconne...

Serial Dating Is Easy Online But SO Much Harder In Real Life

High50 | Posted 12.13.2016 | Fifty
High50

I'm having fortnightly dates with my millionaire, but since he's sexually reluctant I am also currently working four guys from an online dating site. They are Vice Man, Guitar Man, Brighton Boy and Home Boy.

I Just Went To My First Party As 'A Single' In 30 Years. Here's What Happened.

High50 | Posted 12.04.2016 | Fifty
High50

Now, I am absolutely not a party girl. Unless there is a theme where I can lose myself a bit and I find fancy dress liberates you. The party's theme is 'zoo' and will be held in a swanky private members' club in London. A little animal action might not come amiss, I think, so I accept and focus on the outfit.

Here's How Many Divorcés Say They've Had Sex With Their Ex

The Huffington Post | Brittany Wong | Posted 11.30.2015 | Divorce

Old bedroom habits die hard: According to a new survey, quite a few divorcés continue to hit the sheets with their exes post-split. The poll-- condu...

What Charlie Sheen Can Teach Us About Safe Sex

Jackie Pilossoph | Posted 11.18.2016 | Divorce
Jackie Pilossoph

Telling the world you are HIV positive can't be easy. Especially if you're Charlie Sheen. That's why it wasn't surprising to me that Sheen seemed extremely nervous during his interview a couple days ago with Matt Lauer on Today.

8 Steps To Hotter Sex After Divorce

Divorced Moms | Posted 09.09.2016 | Divorce
Divorced Moms

For those of us with less-than-great sex lives during our marriage, you can make over your sex life post-divorce.

I Rediscovered Sex After My Divorce, And It Was Hot, Hot, HOT

Divorced Moms | Posted 07.28.2016 | Divorce
Divorced Moms

Once the divorce was finalized, I was like a 21-year-old let out at a bar for the first time.

My Husband Left Me For A Younger Woman -- Now It's My Turn To Move On

High50 | Posted 07.28.2016 | Fifty
High50

My mum always used to force me to get back on anything I fell off-- horses, bikes, water-skis....men. Well, not actually the latter, but she would have if she was still around. So I now needed to apply this life lesson to my love life.

Is Sex With Lots of People Normal for the Newly Separated?

Jackie Pilossoph | Posted 05.19.2015 | Divorce
Jackie Pilossoph

Some men and women after divorce go crazy when it comes to sex, seeking out multiple physical encounters. If that is the case, my opinion is that they are trying to cover up a deep wound with a temporary Band-Aid, and it never works.

My First Vibrator

Jennifer Cullen | Posted 01.17.2015 | Divorce
Jennifer Cullen

It was one of those lipstick vibes. Small, but powerful. It felt odd to use it that first time. I can still remember my hesitancy. I waited until my kids had gone to their father's house for the night, double-checked that all of the doors were locked and headed upstairs to my bedroom.

Sex With Your Ex: Appealing or No Way?!

Jackie Pilossoph | Posted 12.07.2014 | Divorce
Jackie Pilossoph

In certain cases, sex with an ex is sexy and fun and exciting. Temporarily, that is. I have to believe that nine times out of 10 the after effects are disappointment, hurt, sadness and regret. So, be careful.

The Most Important Thing To Know About Sex After A Split

Jackie Pilossoph | Posted 09.29.2014 | Divorce
Jackie Pilossoph

I will only say this once, but I will say it loud and clear: Safe sex is just as important after divorce as it was before you were married. It's actually MORE important because you now have kids to think about!

The Most Important Thing To Know About Sex After Divorce

Jackie Pilossoph | Posted 08.31.2014 | Divorce
Jackie Pilossoph

I'm not really sure I know a man or woman who doesn't enjoy sex. Those passionate moments that take your breath away are wonderful and exciting and fun! But when it comes to sex after divorce, I want to stress the importance of safe sex.

10 Things You Should Know About Sex After Divorce

Posted 06.21.2014 | Divorce

By Live By Surprise for DivorcedMoms.com In America, it's common to get married young without a lot of sexual experience. Oftentimes, people who ma...

The Joys of Sex After Divorce

Debbie Burgin | Posted 08.19.2014 | Divorce
Debbie Burgin

One of the best solutions to a damaged sense of self-esteem is to go out and date, flirt and see where it goes! I do think the best cure for a broken or wounded heart is to get back into the game and, maybe not find a new love, but the very least, a new lover.

Why I'm Finally Embracing My Middle-Aged Body, Flaws And All

Posted 06.16.2014 | Divorce

By Sophie Rosen for DivorcedMoms.com It’s that date. Whichever date that may be -- third, seventh, or three years into a friendship now on the ve...

Dating After Divorce: When Is the Right Time?

Jackie Pilossoph | Posted 08.04.2014 | Divorce
Jackie Pilossoph

Every newly separated man or woman has a unique situation when it comes to dating. There are no rules. That's why there should be no judging by others.

8 Reasons Sex After Divorce Is Hotter Than Married Sex

Posted 08.12.2014 | Divorce

By Real Mom for DivorcedMoms.com At the end of my marriage, my sex life was pretty much the same thing over and over and over. We had our way of do...

5 Benefits Of Having A Friend With Benefits

Posted 03.17.2014 | Divorce

By D. A. Wolf for DivorcedMoms.com Do you believe that "friends with benefits" is purely no-strings sex? Do you consider it a phase that some women...

The Truth About Revenge Sex

Posted 03.03.2014 | Divorce

By Danielle Page for YourTango.com If you've ever had post-breakup sex as a way of getting over (or back at) your ex, you're in good company. A r...

WATCH: Author On 'The Secret Sex Life Of A Single Mom'

HuffPost Live | Posted 02.18.2014 | Divorce

Dating after a divorce can seem like a daunting task. But author Delaine Moore embraced it. She turned her sexcapades into a steamy memoir, The Secret...

Everything You Need To Know About Sex After Divorce

Posted 02.03.2014 | Divorce

Written by D.A. Wolf for DivorcedMoms.com Sex after divorce? It may be on your mind. It may be on your mind all the time, now that you're no lon...