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Sex After Divorce

Is Sex With Lots of People Normal for the Newly Separated?

Jackie Pilossoph | Posted 03.19.2015 | Divorce
Jackie Pilossoph

Some men and women after divorce go crazy when it comes to sex, seeking out multiple physical encounters. If that is the case, my opinion is that they are trying to cover up a deep wound with a temporary Band-Aid, and it never works.

My First Vibrator

Jennifer Cullen | Posted 01.17.2015 | Divorce
Jennifer Cullen

It was one of those lipstick vibes. Small, but powerful. It felt odd to use it that first time. I can still remember my hesitancy. I waited until my kids had gone to their father's house for the night, double-checked that all of the doors were locked and headed upstairs to my bedroom.

Sex With Your Ex: Appealing or No Way?!

Jackie Pilossoph | Posted 12.07.2014 | Divorce
Jackie Pilossoph

In certain cases, sex with an ex is sexy and fun and exciting. Temporarily, that is. I have to believe that nine times out of 10 the after effects are disappointment, hurt, sadness and regret. So, be careful.

The Most Important Thing To Know About Sex After A Split

Jackie Pilossoph | Posted 09.29.2014 | Divorce
Jackie Pilossoph

I will only say this once, but I will say it loud and clear: Safe sex is just as important after divorce as it was before you were married. It's actually MORE important because you now have kids to think about!

The Most Important Thing To Know About Sex After Divorce

Jackie Pilossoph | Posted 08.31.2014 | Divorce
Jackie Pilossoph

I'm not really sure I know a man or woman who doesn't enjoy sex. Those passionate moments that take your breath away are wonderful and exciting and fun! But when it comes to sex after divorce, I want to stress the importance of safe sex.

10 Things You Should Know About Sex After Divorce

Posted 06.21.2014 | Divorce

By Live By Surprise for DivorcedMoms.com In America, it's common to get married young without a lot of sexual experience. Oftentimes, people who ma...

The Joys of Sex After Divorce

Debbie Burgin | Posted 08.19.2014 | Divorce
Debbie Burgin

One of the best solutions to a damaged sense of self-esteem is to go out and date, flirt and see where it goes! I do think the best cure for a broken or wounded heart is to get back into the game and, maybe not find a new love, but the very least, a new lover.

Why I'm Finally Embracing My Middle-Aged Body, Flaws And All

Posted 06.16.2014 | Divorce

By Sophie Rosen for DivorcedMoms.com It’s that date. Whichever date that may be -- third, seventh, or three years into a friendship now on the ve...

Dating After Divorce: When Is the Right Time?

Jackie Pilossoph | Posted 08.04.2014 | Divorce
Jackie Pilossoph

Every newly separated man or woman has a unique situation when it comes to dating. There are no rules. That's why there should be no judging by others.

8 Reasons Sex After Divorce Is Hotter Than Married Sex

Posted 08.12.2014 | Divorce

By Real Mom for DivorcedMoms.com At the end of my marriage, my sex life was pretty much the same thing over and over and over. We had our way of do...

5 Benefits Of Having A Friend With Benefits

Posted 03.17.2014 | Divorce

By D. A. Wolf for DivorcedMoms.com Do you believe that "friends with benefits" is purely no-strings sex? Do you consider it a phase that some women...

The Truth About Revenge Sex

Posted 03.03.2014 | Divorce

By Danielle Page for YourTango.com If you've ever had post-breakup sex as a way of getting over (or back at) your ex, you're in good company. A r...

WATCH: Author On 'The Secret Sex Life Of A Single Mom'

HuffPost Live | Posted 02.18.2014 | Divorce

Dating after a divorce can seem like a daunting task. But author Delaine Moore embraced it. She turned her sexcapades into a steamy memoir, The Secret...

Everything You Need To Know About Sex After Divorce

Posted 02.03.2014 | Divorce

Written by D.A. Wolf for DivorcedMoms.com Sex after divorce? It may be on your mind. It may be on your mind all the time, now that you're no lon...

How To Reclaim Your Sexuality Post-Split

Debbie Martinez, M.A. | Posted 01.23.2014 | Divorce
Debbie Martinez, M.A.

In the year or even years before the final split, sex took on an obligatory role. Now as the judge signs off on your divorce decree, you are left wondering if you will ever be interested in sex again: Is your lovemaking really unfulfilling for your partner and are you still desirable?

REVEALED: Who Really Fakes Orgasms

Posted 09.12.2013 | Divorce

Pop culture would have you believe that women are ones likely to fake orgasms, but a new survey suggests otherwise. According to a new survey by da...

This Will Make You Feel Better About Your Sex Life

Posted 09.14.2013 | Divorce

Unsatisfied with your sex life post-divorce? Cheer up -- it could be a whole lot worse. How can we be so sure? Over the weekend, the trending hash...

What You Need To Know About Sex After A Split

Janis Spindel | Posted 10.07.2013 | Divorce
Janis Spindel

Divorce isn't the end, it's a chance for rebirth. So take this chance to break out of your normal habits and try something frisky and new!

Inside My 'Tawdry' Post-Split Fling

Posted 05.28.2013 | Divorce

Written by The Stir Bloggers on CafeMom’s blog, The Stir. I separated from my husband just a year ago. The day before Mother's Day, to be exact. ...

HELP! I Can't Achieve The 'Big O'

Posted 05.24.2013 | Divorce

Sex after a split can be a stressful experience -- and unfortunately, one that may not be too enjoyable at first. A woman in the audience of "The ...

Is Having Friends With Benefits A Good Idea After Divorce?

Posted 05.23.2013 | Divorce

Does the mere prospect of having sex again post-split freak you out? You may want to try hooking up with a close friend. That's the polarizing adv...

Why You Should Have Sex With A Friend

Posted 05.22.2013 | Divorce

One of the scariest parts of moving on after a split is dating again, and the intimidating (but exciting!) prospect of having sex with someone new. ...

'The First Order Of Business After Divorce Is Sex'

Posted 05.21.2013 | Divorce

Is the best way to get over someone to get under someone else? Yes, according to HuffPost blogger Michael Solomon, who stopped by HuffPost live on ...

The Case For Casual Sex

Posted 05.16.2013 | Divorce

Written by Jennifer Cullen on CafeMom’s blog, The Stir. If you’ve been stuck in a bad marriage for a while, getting divorced is a release. Ye...

What Sex After A Split Is Really Like

Jackie Pilossoph | Posted 06.29.2013 | Divorce
Jackie Pilossoph

I truly think that the first time you have sex after marriage is a monumental experience. It can be traumatizing, scary, sad, or strange, but it can also be exciting, fun, heart-stoppingly great, or over-the-top, out of the ballpark amazing.