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Why Is One The Saddest Number?

Marta Ibarrondo | Posted 07.21.2014 | Comedy
Marta Ibarrondo

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A Letter to AirBnB's CEO, With Love, From Georgia O'Keeffe

Christine Deakers | Posted 07.18.2014 | Arts
Christine Deakers

I can understand your frustrations if the gadflies are harping on the implications of your rebrand. I never intended to offend or titillate my viewers either; rather I wanted to set myself a part from others.

The Real Naked Drama Behind the Movie Sex Tape

Sari Eckler Cooper | Posted 07.17.2014 | Entertainment
Sari Eckler Cooper

In Sex Tape, the first hurtle seems to be the labor scene in which Jay watches his son's head crowning and comments more about the size of his wife's vaginal opening than on the miracle of his child entering the world.

This Is How Often Married People Are Having Sex

The Huffington Post | Taryn Hillin | Posted 07.31.2014 | Weddings

It's often thought that when you tie the knot, your sex life all but dies. From hectic work schedules to kids' demands, roadblocks to doing the de...

Sacrifice Is Not a Dirty Word

M. Gary Neuman | Posted 07.17.2014 | Women
M. Gary Neuman

Stop focusing on what you don't have and start developing what you do have. Your sacrifice is only meaningful if you use it as a springboard to positive actions that keep you on track. The more love you give, the more you'll receive.

The Latest 'Dear White People' PSA Will Crack You Up

The Huffington Post | Avery Stone | Posted 07.21.2014 | Black Voices

We've all heard the stereotype that black men are, uh, well-endowed in the nether region. However, this playful PSA from our favorite folks from th...

A Message For Men Who Can Only Get Turned On By Young Women

Ken Solin | Posted 07.16.2014 | Fifty
Ken Solin

If you're a guy who's only capable of functioning sexually with women with perfect bodies, continue your hapless pursuit. But if you're a guy who sees beauty in terms other than perfection, then you already know how beautiful and desirable boomer women are. And you probably own a full-length mirror and are aware that your attractiveness to women isn't tied to perfection either.

The Art and Science of Flirting

Samantha Boardman MD | Posted 07.15.2014 | Healthy Living
Samantha Boardman MD

Truly listening involves hearing what the person is saying and also paying attention to their non-verbal communication. Respond by paraphrasing and reflecting on the conversation to move it forward -- it shows them you genuinely care about what they have to say.

What Type of Selfie Are You?

Lauren DeLisa | Posted 07.15.2014 | Technology
Lauren DeLisa

Quick! Are you the kind who combs your hair before a selfie or do you just go for it? While many have said that this growing phenomenon has caused us to become even more concerned about our looks than in previous times, there may actually be something a bit deeper going on beneath the surface.

Manifesting Your Life Is Like Manifesting an Orgasm

Tracy Crossley | Posted 07.15.2014 | Healthy Living
Tracy Crossley

It recently dawned on me that as a female, manifesting what I want in my life is very similar to making an orgasm happen. Since I am not a guy, I c...

7 Things That Sound Enough Like 'I Love You'

Reductress | Posted 07.14.2014 | Comedy
Reductress

Use these seven get-out-of-emotional-corner free cards, cause sooner or later you'll have to show some sign of affection...and that's amore than you asked for!

Why Boomers Need A Refresher Course In Safe Sex

High50 | Posted 07.13.2014 | Fifty
High50

Educational campaigns have been aimed at the young and as a result 20 and 30-somethings know the rules: condoms for casual sex and full sexual health checks when they move on to exclusive relationships. However, many over-50s feel uneasy about visiting sexual health clinics, despite the fact that they forget about using condoms, because contraception is no longer an issue.

My 'Naked' Truth

Robin Korth | Posted 07.31.2014 | Fifty
Robin Korth

Naked, I stood at the closet doors with the lights on and made myself ready. I took a deep breath and positioned the mirrors so I could see all of me. I consciously worked to remove my self-believed inner image. I opened my eyes and looked very carefully at my body. And my heart lurched at the truth.

8 Things Middle-Aged Women Think About Far More Than Whether They're Still F*ckable by Middle-Aged Men

Lisa Solod | Posted 07.11.2014 | Fifty
Lisa Solod

We think about our friends and how much we love them. If we have children, we care about getting them grown. We care about our parents and how they are aging. We wonder about our partners. If they will live as long as we do. Women don't worry about being f*ckable.

23 Texts That Sound Sexy Once You Become A Parent

Jessica Martin-Weber | Posted 07.31.2014 | Parents
Jessica Martin-Weber

With kids around, my husband and I have to get creative with how we flirt, communicate desire and find privacy. And it's amazing the things we now find to be quite flirtatious and sexy.

I Was Worried About My Sex Appeal Until I Read Esquire

Dr. Logan Levkoff | Posted 07.11.2014 | Women
Dr. Logan Levkoff

There's a part of me that cannot even believe that we are having a conversation legitimizing the sex appeal of a particular age group. It's absurd. But we are, because when attractive celebrities that certain men want to have sex with reach a particular age, we need a piece like this one to justify desiring sex with said age group.

Madison Young on Beautiful Porn, Revealing All, Fearing Nothing & Her New Memoir Daddy

David Henry Sterry | Posted 07.15.2014 | Books
David Henry Sterry

I first met Madison Young when we performed together on the same bill at the Center for Sex and Culture in San Francisco. I was immediately struck by the wonderful mass of contradictions. Smart but humble. Cute but fierce. Physical but articulate. Frankly, everything you'd want in a porn star.

Top 10 Things We Will Tell Our Daughters About Sex

Em & Lo | Posted 07.10.2014 | Women
Em & Lo

Writing about sex for the past 15 years has also given us plenty of time to think about how we'd like to raise our daughters, and how we will talk to them (and in some cases, are talking to them) about sex. Here are the top 10 things we want them -- eventually -- to know and understand.

True Story: I Fell in Love With a Felon

Ravishly | Posted 07.10.2014 | Women
Ravishly

Zangeif got in a work-release program. This meant that he was allowed to work while in jail. At every shift, I drove to his restaurant and had sneaky makeout sessions with him. I'd be lying if I said that his sentence provided no additional thrill -- defiance is hot.

Is My Husband Gay, Straight or Bi?

Joe Kort, Ph.D. | Posted 07.09.2014 | Gay Voices
Joe Kort, Ph.D.

"Is my husband gay?" is a question women ask me on a regular basis. This question comes from having either found gay porn on the computer or discovere...

Economic Dependence Promotes Prudishness

Rob Brooks | Posted 07.09.2014 | Science
Rob Brooks

More often than not, women's economic dependence on men is bundled up with strong views against sexual promiscuity. But why? Are economic dependence and anti-promiscuity morality both symptoms of the same cause? Patriarchy, perhaps? Or does one bring about the other?

You're In Charge Of Your Body. I Still Get To Make Rules.

John Kinnear | Posted 07.09.2014 | Parents
John Kinnear

Here's the problem with shirts and bumper stickers and sound bites. They boil everything down into a simple digestible message that, while catchy and convenient, is also easily misconstrued.

The Truth About Boomer Sex

Renee Fisher | Posted 07.09.2014 | Fifty
Renee Fisher

Although her memories certainly still involve body positions she would now need manuals to achieve, she would welcome any research that would take into account her current arthritis and other unmentionable issues.

Why Sex Toy Shopping Is No Longer a Dirty Little Secret

Dr. Yvonne K. Fulbright | Posted 07.09.2014 | Women
Dr. Yvonne K. Fulbright

It used to be something done in secret. Anybody, from good girl to gay guy to carnal couple, had to slink down to the seedy sex toy shop on the other side of town to purchase their private pleasure items.

The Simple Trick To Better Sex Is Hiding In Your Kitchen

The Huffington Post | Taryn Hillin | Posted 07.10.2014 | Divorce

It's been said that an apple a day keeps the doctor away, but new research suggests it can do a lot more than that. A new study published in Archi...