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8 Relationship Secrets From The Trenches

Taylor Marsh | Posted 08.05.2014 | Women
Taylor Marsh

How happy are you with the life you've created? Are you working a job you hate or building a career that resonates? If you haven't dealt with your own happiness all by yourself, stop reading now. If, however, you know what you want, this is for you.

The Irony of Religious Celibacy

Peggy Payne | Posted 08.06.2014 | Religion
Peggy Payne

Poet John Donne famously recognized the similarity of sexual and religious ecstasy. Born Catholic, he became an Anglican priest and the Dean of St. Paul's Cathedral, as well as a poet both bawdy and religious.

Fifty Shades of BDSM

Randall Frederick | Posted 08.04.2014 | Women
Randall Frederick

BDSM is more than just dropping your voice, spanking or telling your partner to do whatever you want. To properly understand what you're getting yourself into, there are a few things to understand.

How Friends With Benefits Are Actually Benefitting Gen Y

Unwritten | Posted 08.04.2014 | Women
Unwritten

We're protecting our own feelings by putting up the same fronts that are basically shoved in our faces. In plain terms -- if they're cold, then be colder. If they're smart, then be smarter.

How to Improve Your Sex Life: Risk Living Dangerously

Daniel Griffin, Ph.D. | Posted 08.04.2014 | Healthy Living
Daniel Griffin, Ph.D.

A couple recently came into my office.  On paper, they had a reasonably healthy marriage. Greg had suffered some setbacks at work, and got depresse...

The Downside To Being A 'Pretty Girl'

Ravishly | Posted 08.04.2014 | Women
Ravishly

Before the age of 14, I was offered cunnilingus from strangers, followed for blocks and called every form of "slut" one can imagine.

Five Reasons You Should Have Sex with Your Husband Every Night

Meg Conley | Posted 08.05.2014 | Weddings
Meg Conley

Then one day while washing dishes, I realized that we had gone eight days without touching each other. Eight days was a quite some time for us. But the thing that bothered me the most was that I hadn't missed it. And I knew that was a problem.

What I REALLY Wanted In The Bedroom After Decades Of Casual Sex

Ken Solin | Posted 08.04.2014 | Fifty
Ken Solin

I know a few boomer women who have given up sex. Their primary reason is that they're not in relationships and they're not interested in casual sex. While most of these women would like to become sexual again, they prefer to wait for the in-love version.

On Talking About the Future With Your Significant Other -- Without Ruining Everything

Shannon Deep | Posted 08.03.2014 | Women
Shannon Deep

Perfectly reasonable humans turn into walking rom-com tropes when it comes to the future of their relationships.

The Power In Being Honest About A Shared Human Experience

Robin Korth | Posted 08.01.2014 | Fifty
Robin Korth

I am an honest and brave woman who writes about her life. I write about my feelings, experiences, insights and ideas with a purpose-filled courage and openness. I recently wrote a blog about an event in my life that was extraordinarily painful and very personal. In bringing this experience into words, I shared a deep hurt and, in doing so, I made a powerful claim of my body and spirit.

Sex: What He Really Wants (And Is Afraid to Ask For)

GalTime | Posted 07.31.2014 | Women
GalTime

Do you want the scoop on what your guy really wants, but is maybe too bashful to ask you for? I polled both regular men and sexuality experts to get the inside information. Here's what they told me.

My Experience With Body Hair and Why I Became a Manscaper

Eric Barry | Posted 07.31.2014 | Comedy
Eric Barry

Generally before I make any decisions in life, I ask myself one important question: What Would Ryan Lochte Do?

GUYBRATOR! UK Sex Toy Company Shakes It Up With Male Vibrator

Posted 07.31.2014 | Weird News

UK-Based sex toy company, Hot Octopuss, has utilized oscillation technology used by the medical industry to help men with spinal cord injuries reprodu...

10 Things I Don't Give a Sh*t About Now That I'm 29

Literally, Darling | Posted 07.31.2014 | Women
Literally, Darling

I once cared deeply about these things. But as I've gotten older and "wiser" (debatable), I've realized they just don't matter to me.

The Most Important Thing To Know About Sex After A Split

Jackie Pilossoph | Posted 07.30.2014 | Divorce
Jackie Pilossoph

I will only say this once, but I will say it loud and clear: Safe sex is just as important after divorce as it was before you were married. It's actually MORE important because you now have kids to think about!

5 Quick Fixes For A Ho-Hum Married Sex Life

Fawn Weaver | Posted 07.29.2014 | Weddings
Fawn Weaver

Have you heard the rumor that married sex is boring? Well, that's not the case in my 11-year marriage, and it doesn't have to be for yours either. One of the beautiful things about being with the same partner for so long is you are able to explore each other's bodies.

The Magic Formula for Dealing With Your Teens 'Pom-Poms, Tissues or Toolbox?'

Barbara Greenberg | Posted 07.29.2014 | Parents
Barbara Greenberg

Sometimes we need to be cheered on. Other times we need tissues. And yet other moments call for something from our figurative toolbox. Right, parents? Let me help you in every possible way by letting you know that your teens too need these three magic responses from you.

5 Ways To Navigate A Relationship In A Porn-Saturated World

Sarah Thomas | Posted 07.29.2014 | Women
Sarah Thomas

Human sexuality is complex. And porn is a facet of it that still incites ambiguity in me -- I don't have it all figured out.

6 Easy Sex Hacks That Don't Involve Flexibility

The Huffington Post | Avery Stone | Posted 08.07.2014 | Women

"Life hacks" have occupied our offices, bathrooms, closets and kitchens. It's about time to employ a few in the bedroom. A video from BuzzFeedBlue ...

MS and Sex

Richard M. Cohen | Posted 07.28.2014 | Healthy Living
Richard M. Cohen

What was so interesting was although there are various urological issues associated with multiple sclerosis, there are specific sexual problems that go hand in hand with deeply troubling urological issues. Most men with MS will experience a urological issue, many of them sexual.

Mindfulness for Mind-Blowing Sex: 5 Practices

Joyce Marter | Posted 07.28.2014 | Healthy Living
Joyce Marter

Electric shivers of euphoria ripple throughout her naked body. The summer breeze encircles the lovers, intensifying the deeply arousing sensation of...

We Live 9,349 Miles Apart, But We're Killing It In The Bedroom

YourTango | Cris Gladly | Posted 07.28.2014 | Divorce

By Cris Gladly for YourTango I live in Orlando. He lives in Australia. At any given moment, there are 9,349 miles (plus one heck of an expensive ai...

Is It Really OK to Deny Your Spouse Sex?

Vicki Larson | Posted 07.27.2014 | Divorce
Vicki Larson

Do you owe your spouse sex? If you stop having sex with your spouse, is he or she justified in having an affair? Is the denial of sex just as much as a betrayal as infidelity?

Gay for Pay: Straight Men Having Gay Sex for Money

Joe Kort, Ph.D. | Posted 07.25.2014 | Gay Voices
Joe Kort, Ph.D.

A new reality show about straight men who have sex with other men for money, titled Broke Straight Boys, is coming to television later this year. Most people don't believe these men are straight at all but gay or bisexual. But the fact is that many men -- gay, straight and bisexual -- can be sexual with the same sex or the opposite sex if money is involved.

Over-The-Counter ED Drugs Considered

Chuck Nyren | Posted 07.25.2014 | Fifty
Chuck Nyren

When you get older, things don't always work perfectly. Usually they work fine, but taking one of these pills is sort of like a tune-up for an old car that still runs but could use a tune-up. Nothing to be embarrassed about. You're just an old car. A classic car.