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7 Things That Sound Enough Like 'I Love You'

Reductress | Posted 09.13.2014 | Comedy
Reductress

Use these seven get-out-of-emotional-corner free cards, cause sooner or later you'll have to show some sign of affection...and that's amore than you asked for!

Why Boomers Need A Refresher Course In Safe Sex

High50 | Posted 09.01.2014 | Fifty
High50

Educational campaigns have been aimed at the young and as a result 20 and 30-somethings know the rules: condoms for casual sex and full sexual health checks when they move on to exclusive relationships. However, many over-50s feel uneasy about visiting sexual health clinics, despite the fact that they forget about using condoms, because contraception is no longer an issue.

My 'Naked' Truth

Robin Korth | Posted 09.11.2014 | Fifty
Robin Korth

Naked, I stood at the closet doors with the lights on and made myself ready. I took a deep breath and positioned the mirrors so I could see all of me. I consciously worked to remove my self-believed inner image. I opened my eyes and looked very carefully at my body. And my heart lurched at the truth.

8 Things Middle-Aged Women Think About Far More Than Whether They're Still F*ckable by Middle-Aged Men

Lisa Solod | Posted 09.10.2014 | Fifty
Lisa Solod

We think about our friends and how much we love them. If we have children, we care about getting them grown. We care about our parents and how they are aging. We wonder about our partners. If they will live as long as we do. Women don't worry about being f*ckable.

23 Texts That Sound Sexy Once You Become A Parent

Jessica Martin-Weber | Posted 09.10.2014 | Parents
Jessica Martin-Weber

With kids around, my husband and I have to get creative with how we flirt, communicate desire and find privacy. And it's amazing the things we now find to be quite flirtatious and sexy.

I Was Worried About My Sex Appeal Until I Read Esquire

Dr. Logan Levkoff | Posted 09.10.2014 | Women
Dr. Logan Levkoff

There's a part of me that cannot even believe that we are having a conversation legitimizing the sex appeal of a particular age group. It's absurd. But we are, because when attractive celebrities that certain men want to have sex with reach a particular age, we need a piece like this one to justify desiring sex with said age group.

Madison Young on Beautiful Porn, Revealing All, Fearing Nothing & Her New Memoir Daddy

David Henry Sterry | Posted 09.09.2014 | Books
David Henry Sterry

I first met Madison Young when we performed together on the same bill at the Center for Sex and Culture in San Francisco. I was immediately struck by the wonderful mass of contradictions. Smart but humble. Cute but fierce. Physical but articulate. Frankly, everything you'd want in a porn star.

Top 10 Things We Will Tell Our Daughters About Sex

Em & Lo | Posted 09.09.2014 | Women
Em & Lo

Writing about sex for the past 15 years has also given us plenty of time to think about how we'd like to raise our daughters, and how we will talk to them (and in some cases, are talking to them) about sex. Here are the top 10 things we want them -- eventually -- to know and understand.

True Story: I Fell in Love With a Felon

Ravishly | Posted 09.09.2014 | Women
Ravishly

Zangeif got in a work-release program. This meant that he was allowed to work while in jail. At every shift, I drove to his restaurant and had sneaky makeout sessions with him. I'd be lying if I said that his sentence provided no additional thrill -- defiance is hot.

Is My Husband Gay, Straight or Bi?

Joe Kort, Ph.D. | Posted 09.08.2014 | Gay Voices
Joe Kort, Ph.D.

"Is my husband gay?" is a question women ask me on a regular basis. This question comes from having either found gay porn on the computer or discovere...

Economic Dependence Promotes Prudishness

Rob Brooks | Posted 09.08.2014 | Science
Rob Brooks

More often than not, women's economic dependence on men is bundled up with strong views against sexual promiscuity. But why? Are economic dependence and anti-promiscuity morality both symptoms of the same cause? Patriarchy, perhaps? Or does one bring about the other?

You're In Charge Of Your Body. I Still Get To Make Rules.

John Kinnear | Posted 09.08.2014 | Parents
John Kinnear

Here's the problem with shirts and bumper stickers and sound bites. They boil everything down into a simple digestible message that, while catchy and convenient, is also easily misconstrued.

The Truth About Boomer Sex

Renee Fisher | Posted 09.08.2014 | Fifty
Renee Fisher

Although her memories certainly still involve body positions she would now need manuals to achieve, she would welcome any research that would take into account her current arthritis and other unmentionable issues.

Why Sex Toy Shopping Is No Longer a Dirty Little Secret

Dr. Yvonne K. Fulbright | Posted 09.08.2014 | Women
Dr. Yvonne K. Fulbright

It used to be something done in secret. Anybody, from good girl to gay guy to carnal couple, had to slink down to the seedy sex toy shop on the other side of town to purchase their private pleasure items.

The Simple Trick To Better Sex Is Hiding In Your Kitchen

The Huffington Post | Taryn Hillin | Posted 08.07.2014 | Divorce

It's been said that an apple a day keeps the doctor away, but new research suggests it can do a lot more than that. A new study published in Archi...

I Arranged Blind Marriages: Confessions of a Married at First Sight Expert

Dr. Logan Levkoff | Posted 09.07.2014 | Women
Dr. Logan Levkoff

I worry that we are so used to jumping in and out of relationships that we don't even know what's worth fighting for anymore.

Hobby Lobby Is Already about Us: LGBT Hetero-Sex

Amy Andre | Posted 09.07.2014 | Gay Voices
Amy Andre

When was the last time you asked your lesbian BFF what kind of birth control she uses? Your gay neighbor if any of his female lovers are on the pill? Your bisexual bowling league buddies... well, anything p-in-v related whatsoever?

7 Absolutely Insane Sex Facts From Around The World

YourTango | Posted 07.07.2014 | Weird News

In general, most of us like to get it on. This is just one of the many things that make us great. But when it comes to sex, how educated are you on th...

7 Ways To Have 'Vacation Sex' At Home

Doug and Leslie Gustafson | Posted 09.06.2014 | Weddings
Doug and Leslie Gustafson

We believe there is really no mystery here. When we go away, we manufacture the ingredients that make sex work. These same ingredients can work at home if we know what they are and build them into our lives. Here are some crucial ones.

Conservative Women Also Use Birth Control: The Hobby Lobby Decision Hurts All Women

H. A. Goodman | Posted 09.02.2014 | Politics
H. A. Goodman

A blatant disregard for the reality of sexual behavior in America, coupled with the belief that one's religion trumps the healthcare needs of even conservative women, is the real story behind the Supreme Court's Hobby Lobby decision.

Hot Sex vs. Dirty Laundry

Renee Fisher | Posted 09.01.2014 | Fifty
Renee Fisher

Older adults might switch fascination from the bedroom to the bathroom, where one's sexual moves would be replaced by the desire for regular movements. Or, they might choose whichever room in the house would be their napping place.

Slut-Shaming for the Righteous

Mark Morford | Posted 08.31.2014 | Politics
Mark Morford

To make amends and shore up the "angry bigot" vote, the GOP quickly made the (very bizarre) decision to jump back on the warpath against their once-timid old nemesis, an enemy that has now become, much to their confusion, the most potent foe imaginable: women.

How I Got Into a Threesome

Sybil Adelman Sage | Posted 08.31.2014 | Comedy
Sybil Adelman Sage

There was little reason to consider having a threesome when I was single. It was hard enough to find one guy who made me want to shave my legs. If two reasonable men materialized, I would pass one along to a girlfriend.

The Most Important Thing To Know About Sex After Divorce

Jackie Pilossoph | Posted 08.31.2014 | Divorce
Jackie Pilossoph

I'm not really sure I know a man or woman who doesn't enjoy sex. Those passionate moments that take your breath away are wonderful and exciting and fun! But when it comes to sex after divorce, I want to stress the importance of safe sex.

What Your Dreams Reveal About Your Love Life

Steve Mason | Posted 08.30.2014 | Books
Steve Mason

In her new book "The Complete Dream Book of Love and Relationships" Gillian Holloway reveals the meaning of dreams and what they say about your romant...