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Other-Thinking

Karin Schott | Posted 06.24.2015 | Divorce
Karin Schott

If there is one lesson I have learned as a result of my divorce it is that once I can move away from other-thinking the closer I am to healing. Other thinking. It can be insidious. At first you are thinking of your other, soon to be ex, when you are in the turmoil that leads to separation.

6 Powerful Life Lessons Learned From Single Dads

The Huffington Post | Brittany Wong | Posted 06.19.2015 | Divorce

This Father's Day, we're celebrating single and divorced dads. Whether you have full custody or time with the kids every other weekend, the lesson...

Fatherhood From 3,000 Miles Away

Johnny Gill | Posted 06.18.2015 | Black Voices
Johnny Gill

My son, Isaiah, lives in Washington, DC, and I live in Los Angeles. From the time Isaiah was 1 month old, he was bicoastal. During the early months and up until the time he started school, I would travel to and from Washington. It was the most incredible bonding time.

How Am I Going to Do This?!

Karin Schott | Posted 06.09.2015 | Divorce
Karin Schott

How am I going to do this? It is a question I have asked myself plenty of times since my separation and divorce. Once there were two of us who could tackle a problem. Now there is only me.

4 Suggestions to Get You Started When Looking to Date After Divorce

Sheila Blagg | Posted 06.03.2015 | Divorce
Sheila Blagg

Often times people take dating after a divorce entirely too seriously. You are not looking to jump into a serious relationship, are you? Then dating should be fun and exciting, but it's up to you to create that for yourself.

This sh*t is hard.

Jennifer Iacovelli | Posted 05.26.2015 | Divorce
Jennifer Iacovelli

This shit is hard.

What Is a Single Parent, Anyway?

Nancy Saunders | Posted 05.19.2015 | Divorce
Nancy Saunders

Regardless of marital status, at the end of the day, the only thing your children really need to know is that you love them no matter what. So surround yourself with the best village you can find, count your blessings and just breathe. Single parent or not.

In Praise Of Involved Fathers

Joe Seldner | Posted 05.18.2015 | Fifty
Joe Seldner

All the chatter about fathers not being involved in their children's lives sometimes confuses those of us who had the privilege of raising our children by ourselves. We wouldn't have had it any other way, so it is difficult to comprehend why any father would not want to be involved.

Are Single Parents All Created Equal?

Stacey Freeman | Posted 05.14.2015 | Divorce
Stacey Freeman

Not all single parents are created equal. Some of us have it easier than others, and in different ways. Some of us have it more difficult, and in different ways. We can debate until we are blue in the face what constitutes those "better" or "worse" situations.

10 Things Single Moms Want Their Kids To Know

Stacey Freeman | Posted 05.11.2015 | Divorce
Stacey Freeman

Today, deep into my routine as a single mom of two teenage daughters and an elementary-school-age son, hearing those criticisms has yet to become any easier. I somehow suspect it never will. So I continue to remind my kids (and myself) I'm not infallible. I'm human.

7 Invaluable Love Lessons From Single Moms

The Huffington Post | Brittany Wong | Posted 05.11.2015 | Divorce

As a single parent, you're solely responsible for modeling what love looks like: If you choose to remain single, you teach your kids that you don't ne...

5 Sanity-Saving Tips For Busy Single Moms

Lindsey Light | Posted 06.15.2015 | Divorce
Lindsey Light

The truth is I don't need sympathy; I need help. That was not an easy conclusion for me to come to.

Love and Alka-Seltzer: The Transplant and the Tween

Joey Hoffman | Posted 06.09.2015 | Parents
Joey Hoffman

Flying into Omaha now, I see the skyline (which I call, The Building) and still pine for my Manhattan. But I've realized that home is an internal state, and I've realized that a city girl can thrive outside her natural habitat, as long as she's got love -- and Alka-Seltzer.

What I'm Too Ashamed And Devastated To Admit About My Split Out Loud

Samantha Darby Sollenberger | Posted 04.25.2015 | Divorce
Samantha Darby Sollenberger

This is harder because I don't know what my husband has chosen over me. Over Alice. Over our family.

Valentine's Day Gift Ideas for the Single Dad

Jon Vaughn | Posted 04.03.2015 | Divorce
Jon Vaughn

Now that I'm freed from the chains of this holiday, I can finally say exactly what I would want, as a parent, dad, whatever, provided that it comes from my significant other.

55 Personal Photos That Capture Both The Challenges And The Joy Of Single Motherhood

The Huffington Post | Jessica Samakow | Posted 02.24.2015 | Parents

According to a recent Pew Research Center report, 34 percent of kids today live with an unmarried parent, up from 9 percent in 1960. Single parenting,...

Talk to Your Co-Parent Before Bringing Home a Beau

Tara Fass | Posted 03.07.2015 | Divorce
Tara Fass

It's a healthy impulse to want to connect with someone special again. But whether or not it's a good idea to introduce all new dates to your kids -- well, that's an entirely different discussion.

When Co-Parenting Is A Necessary Evil

Tara Fass | Posted 03.01.2015 | Divorce
Tara Fass

Putting the financial and care-taking assistance on the back burner for a moment, the impulse to reach out to share your news and the experience of parenting is part of what it means to be human. You can't avoid it.

How I Survived My Son Leaving (Me) for College

Michelle Martin | Posted 02.28.2015 | Parents
Michelle Martin

I honestly did not know who I was without him in my daily life, and I wasn't very eager to find out. Even though I always worked, empty-nesting after spending nearly two decades immersed in raising my son filled me with dread and terror.

The 15 Biggest Misconceptions About Single Parents

The Huffington Post | Brittany Wong | Posted 12.21.2014 | Divorce

The number of single parent households has skyrocketed in recent years. But despite their growing numbers, single parents still have to contend with ...

Divorcing During the Holidays

Sheila Blagg | Posted 02.05.2015 | Divorce
Sheila Blagg

I can write a blog telling you that following these specific steps you won't feel the pain of the loss of your marriage, but I am sorry, I can't do that!! What I can do is share with you what helped not only myself, but my friends, members on my website and coworkers.

The ER: Holiday Sanctuary for the Broken

Edwin Leap, MD | Posted 01.25.2015 | Healthy Living
Edwin Leap, MD

Where our patients sometimes live in darkness, squalor, danger and hunger, whether run-down trailer, homeless tent or government project, the emergency departments are different. They are places of bright lights and warmth, safety and relief; where beds are clean and food is available. And if nothing else, places where there are people who are interested and polite.

Dear Single Mom (And Sometimes Single Mom)

Sybil Brun | Posted 01.04.2015 | Religion
Sybil Brun

I want you to know that I think about you often. I imagine how you feel on the lonely nights that seem to plague you. I remember the exhaustion that envelops you so much of the time that you think one day, it just might swallow you whole.

3 Secrets To Long-Lasting Relationships

Sheila Blagg | Posted 12.20.2014 | Divorce
Sheila Blagg

You can't instantly walk into a successful long-term relationship, but you can nurture one into existence. If you're trying to turn a good short-term relationship into a great long-term relationship, you'll need to put in effort to make it work.

6 Reasons You Should Consider Online Dating After Divorce

Sheila Blagg | Posted 12.15.2014 | Divorce
Sheila Blagg

Make sure, before you start looking for a new relationship, that you understand what you're looking for and why you're looking for it.