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Why Are Straight Men Doing Gay Porn?

Charlie David | Posted 08.26.2016 | Queer Voices
Charlie David

Is it a mockery to have straight men doing gay porn? Or is it an example of how far acceptance and visibility for LGBTQ people have come?

Watch Straight Men Learn The Struggle Of Kissing Someone With Facial Hair

The Huffington Post | Jenavieve Hatch | Posted 02.17.2016 | Women

A new BuzzFeed video gives straight men an opportunity to learn an important lesson: kissing someone with facial hair can be awful. The video turns t...

What Happened When Straight Men Touched Another Penis For The First Time

The Huffington Post | Noah Michelson | Posted 02.09.2016 | Queer Voices

What happens when men who identify as straight are given the opportunity to touch another man's penis for the first time? YouTube stars Bria Kam and C...

The BRO Phenom, and the Demise of Sexual Labeling: An App That Connects Straight Men for Sex Is Challenging Simple Definitions

Joe Kort, Ph.D. | Posted 02.02.2016 | Queer Voices
Joe Kort, Ph.D.

Most people outside of the sex-therapy community have never considered the existence of a multi-universe of sexual identities, but those of us immersed in this stickiest of human foibles have come to realize that there is much yet to discover.

15 Unexpectedly Candid Tips For Straight Guys From Reddit's Gay Men

The Huffington Post | Whitney Meers | Posted 02.02.2016 | Queer Voices

Move over, Maxim... the new go-to advice gurus for straight dudes are the gay men of Reddit. An AskReddit thread titled "Gay men of Reddit, what advic...

Straight Guys Need STD Tests, Too. Why Isn't The Government Recommending It?

The Huffington Post | Erin Schumaker | Posted 11.24.2015 | Healthy Living

A sexually transmitted disease epidemic is growing in the United States, the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention reported last week. The federa...

Here's What It's Like To Be A Straight Man Who Has Sex With Other Men

The Huffington Post | Noah Michelson | Posted 02.17.2016 | Queer Voices

If a man is having sex with other men, he must be gay or bi or somewhere on the queer spectrum, right? Not necessarily. At least not according to some...

Is the Gay Community Scaring Away Our Straight Allies?

Mason Hsieh | Posted 02.02.2016 | Queer Voices
Mason Hsieh

When one of my new straight-male friends asked if he could sit in on a QSA meeting, I immediately said yes and took him to a panel on LGBT dating, hoping to show him how cool the queer community is. The discussion was mostly civil, until my fledgling ally worked up the courage to ask one simple question.

Is Your Husband Gay? Don't Be So Sure

Joe Kort, Ph.D. | Posted 01.26.2015 | Divorce
Joe Kort, Ph.D.

Jennifer discovered from her husband Tom's emails that he was meeting Brad for sex. She came to see me, heartbroken, sure that her marriage to her "gay" husband was doomed. But when I examined Tom, I discovered he wasn't gay.

Gay for Pay: Straight Men Having Gay Sex for Money

Joe Kort, Ph.D. | Posted 02.02.2016 | Queer Voices
Joe Kort, Ph.D.

A new reality show about straight men who have sex with other men for money, titled Broke Straight Boys, is coming to television later this year. Most people don't believe these men are straight at all but gay or bisexual. But the fact is that many men -- gay, straight and bisexual -- can be sexual with the same sex or the opposite sex if money is involved.

Is My Husband Gay, Straight or Bi?

Joe Kort, Ph.D. | Posted 02.02.2016 | Queer Voices
Joe Kort, Ph.D.

"Is my husband gay?" is a question women ask me on a regular basis. This question comes from having either found gay porn on the computer or discovere...

23 Reasons That I Love My Straight Male Friends and They Love Me

David Toussaint | Posted 02.02.2016 | Queer Voices
David Toussaint

Straight men tell me I look good when I know I don't. And that, dudes, is friendship.

To Straight Men Showering With Gay Men: Yes, We Are Looking! (And So Are Other Straight Men)

Joe Kort, Ph.D. | Posted 02.02.2016 | Queer Voices
Joe Kort, Ph.D.

In any locker room, all men -- straight, bisexual and gay -- look at one another. They size each other up, comparing their bodies and penis sizes with those of other men. But we gay and bisexual men have years of practice and experience being appropriate and mindful.

Why Some Gay Men Are Attracted to Straight Men

Joe Kort, Ph.D. | Posted 02.02.2016 | Queer Voices
Joe Kort, Ph.D.

We can't ignore the many gay men who admit a taste for straight guys, which makes me wonder why they prefer straight men sexually. Based on the gay men I have seen in my office, here are some of the possible reasons.

WATCH: How This Straight Man's Wife Reacts When He Cross-Dresses

Posted 02.02.2016 | Queer Voices

William, a straight male cross-dresser, spoke at length about how his wife of four years feels when he dresses up as a woman in a candid interview wit...

Debating Sexual Behavior Vs. Attraction...Among Straight Men

Posted 02.02.2016 | Queer Voices

HuffPost Live tackled the ongoing debate over perceptions of straight men who have sex with other men in an Oct. 11 segment. "I don't it necessari...

Why Some Straight Men Are Romantically or Sexually Attracted to Other Men

Joe Kort, Ph.D. | Posted 02.02.2016 | Queer Voices
Joe Kort, Ph.D.

Many men who have sex with men aren't gay or even bisexual. Although their mental and emotional state resembles that of the initial stages of coming out, gay and bisexual men go on to develop a gay or a bisexual identity, whereas these men don't.

All-American Gay Boy Falls in Love With All-American Straight Boy: Why Some Gay Men Are Attracted to Straight Men

Joe Kort, Ph.D. | Posted 02.02.2016 | Queer Voices
Joe Kort, Ph.D.

There are many gay men who have fantasies and desires about being sexual with straight men, and nothing's inherently wrong with these sexual scenarios. The problem is when their attraction is limited only to straight men and blocks them from enjoying relationships with other gay men.

Why We Care About John Travolta's Sexuality

Joe Kort, Ph.D. | Posted 02.02.2016 | Queer Voices
Joe Kort, Ph.D.

In the past few weeks there have been numerous speculations that John Travolta might have been sexual with men and therefore might be gay. Our culture is obsessed with men who have sex with men and quickly label them as bisexual or gay.

Toronto Columnist Under Fire For Lamenting Affection Between Men

Posted 02.02.2016 | Queer Voices

A Canadian columnist is facing a blogsophere backlash after writing an op-ed in which she lamented what she perceives as an increase in physical affec...

Bromance App Is Grindr For Straight Men

Posted 02.02.2016 | Queer Voices

From Grindr to Scruff, gay men have plenty of mobile apps they can use to meet each other while on the go. But how are straight guys supposed to find ...