The Happiness Project

5 Traits of Successful Bloggers

Delia Lloyd | Posted 05.30.2012

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The best bloggers I know never run out of material to write about because the they never run out of things that fascinate them. And they are able to transmit that sense of wonderment onto the page.

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Want To Be Happier? Write Your Own Set Of Personal Commandments

Gretchen Rubin | Posted 04.19.2012

Read More: Happiness, Creativity, List Writing, Commandments, Be Happy, Gretchen Rubin, Values, Happiness Commandments, Being Happy, The Happiness Project, Happiness Project, Spirituality, Healthy Living News

Each person's list will differ. One person's commandment is to "Say yes," another person's commandment is to "Say no." You need to think about yourself, your values, your strengths and weaknesses, your interests.

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Want To Feel Happier? Enjoy Childish Pleasures

Gretchen Rubin | Posted 03.19.2012

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My children make me happy for many reasons, of course. But it strikes me that one reason they make me happy is they encourage me to engage more deeply with the physical world.

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My First Book -- And My First Video Book Trailer

Nina Sankovitch | Posted 07.25.2011

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Think writing a query letter is hard? Or the synopsis for a book that you hope to have published? Welcome to the next task in presenting your book to the world: the video book trailer.

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False Choices: Do Any Of These Sound Familiar?

Gretchen Rubin | Posted 11.17.2011

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The more I've thought about happiness, the more wary I've become of false choices. It's so easy to frame choices or attitudes in an either/or way, and yet, so often, that choice is misleading.

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Treat Yourself Like A Toddler

Gretchen Rubin | Posted 11.17.2011

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It's easy to expect that you "should" be able to deal with a particular situation, and of course, to a point, it's admirable to be flexible, to be low-maintenance.

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13 Tips For Sticking To Your New Year's Resolutions

Gretchen Rubin | Posted 11.17.2011

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New Year's Eve is just a few days away, and that means it's the season for resolutions. I'm a big believer in the power of small changes to make us happier.

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Balanced Life: Be Nice, It Matters

Gretchen Rubin | Posted 11.17.2011

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I was about to get a promotion. My boss said sternly, "Be polite and be fair. Then you'll do fine." I've always remembered that.

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8 Pieces of Advice From My Sister, the Sage

Gretchen Rubin | Posted 11.17.2011

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My sister Elizabeth Craft is a sage. Every time I talk to her, I keep a pen and paper handy so I can write down her words of wisdom.

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Trying to Make a Tough Decision? Try Asking Yourself the 5 Fateful Questions

Gretchen Rubin | Posted 11.17.2011

Read More: Decisions, Decision-Making, Choice, Goals, Happiness, The Happiness Project, Happiness Project, Decision Making, Healthy Living News

When I'm reluctant to take a risk or face something uncomfortable, I ask myself these five questions. They help me think clearly about a situation.

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Life Got You Down? Frame Your Problem

Gretchen Rubin | Posted 11.17.2011

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When you're annoyed or frustrated, ask yourself, "What exactlyis the problem here?" This rule seems so obvious that it's hard to explain why it's so tremendously helpful.

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Reconsider the Rules of Thumb You Use in Everyday Life

Gretchen Rubin | Posted 11.17.2011

Read More: Heuristics, Happiness, How to Be Happy, Happiness Is, Finding Happiness, The Happiness Project, Happiness Project, Healthy Living News

My adventures in happiness research led me to the concept of heuristics. Heuristics are "rules of thumb," the quick, common sense principles people apply to solve a problem or make a decision.

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5 Common Happiness Mistakes: 'Boosters' That Do More Harm Than Good

Gretchen Rubin | Posted 11.17.2011

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I've found out from long experience that several of the most popular strategies for boosting happiness don't actually work very well in the long term.

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Mother's Day: 10 Best New Books To Give Mom This Year

Christian Science Monitor | Marjorie Kehe | Posted 05.25.2011

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Looking for a book for Mom? Try Googling "10 best books for Mother's Day" and you pretty much already know what you will get. And let's face it: She's...

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Overcoming My Fear on the Road to Happiness

Randy Taran | Posted 11.17.2011

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Ask yourself, what is the scariest thing that you could do? For me, it's revealing what's most important me, to a large group of people. Not only did I not seek out these opportunities, I ran from them!

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Balanced Life: What's an Obstacle to Your Happiness?

Gretchen Rubin | Posted 11.17.2011

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Although it's helpful to focus on the positive, it's also very important to pay attention to what's undermining your happiness.

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10 Easy Ways to Be Happy Now: Exercising the Happiness Muscle

Randy Taran | Posted 11.17.2011

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How can we develop that happiness muscle, and start pumping up our happiness? Here are 10 easy tips that can make a real difference.

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Her Husband Of 20 Years Said, 'I Want Out. I Don't love You.' She Said, 'I Don't Buy It.' And Then...

Jesse Kornbluth | Posted 05.25.2011

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I like this book so much that don't want to quote, summarize, interpret --- I just hope, if you're in any kind of relationship, that you'll get it and read it.

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Why The Elegance of the Hedgehog Is For Grownups

Delia Lloyd | Posted 11.17.2011

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This is a small, intimate novel about an exceedingly well-educated concierge in a Paris apartment building and her relationships. Here are five reasons I think this book is essential reading for grown ups.

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Balanced Life -- Relish the Moment. In My Case, 10 Weeks on the Bestseller List

Gretchen Rubin | Posted 11.17.2011

Read More: Psychology, Tal Ben-Shahar, Goals, Happiness, Gretchen Rubin, Happiness Tips, The Happiness Project, Healthy Living News

In his book, Tal Ben-Shahar describes the "arrival fallacy," the belief that when you arrive at a certain destination, you'll be happy. But arriving rarely makes you as happy as you expect.

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Balanced Life -- Buy Needful Things

Gretchen Rubin | Posted 11.17.2011

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I'm working on my Happiness Project, and you could have one, too! Everyone's project will look different, but it's the rare person who can't benefit....

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What to Do When Your Friend Writes a Book

Michael Melcher | Posted 11.17.2011

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Publishing The Creative Lawyer meant more to me than being on the cover of Men's Health's "Ripped in Their 40's" special issue.

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Exercise Quiz: Are You A Work-Out Drop-Out?

Gretchen Rubin | Posted 11.17.2011

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I discovered the key to my Happiness Project. What is it? Resolutions. It has been the ability to make and keep my innumerable resolutions that has al...

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Happiness Tip Of The Day: Secrets Of Adulthood

Gretchen Rubin | Posted 11.17.2011

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I'm working on my Happiness Project, and you should have one, too! Everyone's project will look different, but it's the rare person who can't benefit....

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Why Rituals Make You Happy

Gretchen Rubin | Posted 11.17.2011

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Until I started my Happiness Project, I didn't think much about rituals and whether they made me happy. But when I reflected on them, I realized that...

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