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Women Having It All

Never Enough

Gina Baski | Posted 09.10.2016 | Women
Gina Baski

Cultural and social messaging constantly reinforce that no matter how hard women work, they will not achieve the same status in the workplace as their male counterparts. When we are passionate at work we are emotional, when we are assertive it is either "that time of the month" or we are just a ball buster.

Kirsten Gillibrand Is Frustrated With The Debate Over Women 'Having It All'

The Huffington Post | Paige Lavender | Posted 06.11.2015 | Politics

Sen. Kirsten Gillibrand (D-N.Y.) said she's frustrated with how the debate over women "having it all" is framed, saying it's "degrading." In an int...

Having It All

Gina Baski | Posted 05.20.2016 | Women
Gina Baski

For all Moms, those who work and those who do not, it always boils down to a balancing act. Some days I juggle each ball in perfect harmony, other days nothing seems to sync up the way I planned. Those are the days I watch as each ball gets dropped in succession.

On Pregnancy and Gender Equality

Lindsay Tucker | Posted 05.13.2016 | Women
Lindsay Tucker

Last week, Boston Globe columnist Shirley Leung proposed that yes, women can, in fact, have it all. Just as soon as men get pregnant.

How To Have It All

Aimee Chan | Posted 05.11.2016 | Parents
Aimee Chan

Career woman. Involved mother. Loving partner. Is it really possible to have it all -- and not have a nervous breakdown from the stress?

The Elusive 'All'

Zehra Mehdi-Barlas | Posted 02.26.2015 | Women
Zehra Mehdi-Barlas

Fast forward to the present where women are now torn between having it, not having it, trying to have it or pretending to have it all. After all, nowadays if we are not leaning in and slow cooking at the same time, we definitely don't have it all, do we?

'Having it All' Even When Staying At Home

Reem Kassis | Posted 12.14.2014 | Women
Reem Kassis

Making this choice was one of the hardest things I had ever had to do. It was admitting that everything I had worked so hard for, everything I had aspired to achieve and prove, was neither what I had expected nor what I wanted. "Having it all" was not all it was pumped up to be.

The Real Reason Why You Feel Like You're Hanging By A Thread

meQuilibrium | Posted 09.09.2014 | Healthy Living
meQuilibrium

It's hard to feel good about "having it all" when you've got incompatible sets of expectations and beliefs knocking around in your head. The trick is to learn to modify or steer around these beliefs and expectations so they don't make you feel like you're constantly on the verge of collapse.

Why Can Men Have it All and Women Can't?

Robyn N. Cohen | Posted 09.06.2014 | Women
Robyn N. Cohen

We have the opportunity to create whatever life we would like to live, to pursue whatever professional goals we have for ourselves, to fulfill our desires in a way that makes us happy.

You Can Have It All! A 3-Step Plan to Show You How

Perry Yeatman | Posted 07.07.2014 | Women
Perry Yeatman

I am "proof" that it's hard, that it never works out exactly as planned and that even when you "get it all," you may feel like it's not enough.

WATCH: Why Women Shouldn't Care About 'Having It All'

Posted 02.20.2014 | HuffPost Live 321

To an outsider, it probably looks like Crystal Brown-Tatum has everything. "As an African American woman, business owner, mother, army wife, I wear...

Why 'Good Enough' Is 'Pretty Freaking Good'

Christine Organ | Posted 04.02.2014 | Women
Christine Organ

I have spent too much time and energy making myself feel inadequate and somehow lacking, and I know too many people who are great people, who are well-loved people, who also feel inadequate and somehow lacking. And it makes me sad and angry and frustrated... and absolutely determined to find a way to stop the madness.

The Problem With "Having It All"

Cheryl Dumesnil | Posted 02.02.2016 | Queer Voices
Cheryl Dumesnil

"Having it all" is a myth. "Having" is far too passive, far too effortless a verb for what it takes to combine career and family life. "All" suggests a sense of wholeness that in reality most parents who earn paychecks rarely experience. Instead, we live an ever-shifting, moment-by-moment dynamic.

How Millennial Women Really Feel About 'Having it All'

Literally, Darling | Posted 01.23.2014 | Women
Literally, Darling

Why doesn't anyone ask men if they can "have it all?" Is the "all" of the older generation even relevant to millennials?

The Propaganda of 'Having It All'

Audrey Bellis | Posted 11.18.2013 | Women
Audrey Bellis

Is it me, or does the whole "having it all" notion smell like scarcity packaged as perfectionism while preying on our deepest fears?

Jill of All Trades, Mistress of None

Kristen Houghton | Posted 10.20.2013 | Healthy Living
Kristen Houghton

What's the worst that can happen if you're not perfect? Nothing! You'll survive and you'll be healthier, too. Try being a little imperfect, it's so good for you.

Jessica Cumberbatch Anderson

Why Having It All May Be One 'Gigantic Elaborately Constructed Sexist Ponzi Scheme'

HuffingtonPost.com | Jessica Cumberbatch Anderson | Posted 08.01.2013 | Black Voices

As an interior designer, Sheila Bridges is in the business of detail, a fact she reminds me of in explaining how she layered 49 years of memories, pho...

Why Anne-Marie Slaughter Thinks We Need A 'Men's Movement'

The Huffington Post | Julie Zeilinger | Posted 07.23.2013 | Women

When Anne-Marie Slaughter wrote the now-iconic piece "Why Women Still Can't Have It All" for The Atlantic a year ago, she had no idea she'd launch a f...

How Working From Home Could Hurt Women

The Huffington Post | Julie Zeilinger | Posted 07.22.2013 | Women

Flexible working policies have been championed by the likes of Sheryl Sandberg and other influential women as a viable solution to the work-life bala...

Shouldn't Mothers With Mental Illness Have The Chance To "Have It All," Too?

Joanne Nicholson, Ph.D. | Posted 08.12.2013 | Impact
Joanne Nicholson, Ph.D.

For some slice of American women who are mothers, "having it all" conjures up notions of marriage, a family, a professional position, a home in a safe neighborhood with a decent school system and opportunities to live a better life down the road. For women with psychiatric conditions, life is a different struggle. But with the right support, mothers and almost every person with mental illness can succeed.

Enough About 'Leaning In'

Tiziana Dearing | Posted 10.24.2013 | Women
Tiziana Dearing

It feels like the real point has been hovering a good thousand feet above the conversation. I believed the goal of the women's movement was to achieve true self-determination -- a society in which a woman can be whatever she wants to be.

How She Does It All -- And You Can, Too!

Stephenie Zamora | Posted 05.28.2013 | Healthy Living
Stephenie Zamora

Why do we feel the need to prove we can do it all? I bet, if you really tried, worked endlessly, didn't sleep and stopped doing anything just for fun, you could probably do it all. But at what cost?

Men Have This Problem Too

Posted 03.15.2013 | Women

By: Stephanie Pappas, LiveScience Senior Writer Published: 03/14/2013 09:26 AM EDT on LiveScience Despite magazine covers by the dozens focusing ...

Have It All

Laura Liswood | Posted 03.24.2013 | Women
Laura Liswood

Having it all isn't just determined by a person's or family's choices. Those choices are informed and even forced by policy, customs, structures that are way beyond the control of the individual. Outside forces shape a woman's choices whether she realizes it or not.

Redefining 'Having It All'

Women & Co | Posted 12.09.2012 | Women
Women & Co

Why does this discussion revolve around women's struggles to reach the pinnacle of success in their careers while raising happy, well-adjusted kids? Doesn't "having it all" mean different things to different people? And what does it really mean to today's professional women?