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Youth Sports Parents

Thanks Robin!

Fred Engh | Posted 05.21.2015 | Sports
Fred Engh

I often wonder if Robin Roberts ever knew that, at least for me, he was the impetus of helping change the attitudes of those parents who ruin, for so many kids, what would have been a great, fun experience in their lives.

A Tragedy That Never Should Have Happened

Fred Engh | Posted 05.13.2015 | Parents
Fred Engh

A few years ago, I was asked by the ABC television news show 20/20 to be interviewed about issues involving safety in youth sports. They were doing a report on the heartbreaking story of a child who began playing baseball in the first grade.

15 Reason Competitive Sports Are Great For Kids (That Have Nothing to Do With Winning)

Anne Josephson | Posted 05.07.2015 | Parents
Anne Josephson

I don't think that competition is either good or bad. It just is. Rather it is how we think about it and cope with it makes it good or bad. How much we stress the importance of competition that gives it a larger space in our lives than it deserves.

The Ugly Parent in All of Us

Fred Engh | Posted 05.06.2015 | Sports
Fred Engh

Sports for kids would be a great experience if parents could control their emotions, but that is like asking a person who has never been skiing before to just relax as they look straight down from the top of the mountain. Relaxing just isn't in the cards.

That's My Kid Out There! Aren't I Great?

Fred Engh | Posted 04.29.2015 | Sports
Fred Engh

All seven of my children played sports while they were growing up and I can tell you that there is hardly anything that can compare to the joy, frustration, triumph and disappointment of watching our kids compete.

10 Ways Parents Can Help Their Kids Avoid Overuse Injuries and Burnout in Sports

Brooke de Lench | Posted 04.27.2015 | Sports
Brooke de Lench

According to Safe Kids Worldwide, more than 3.5 million children age fourteen and under get medical treatment for sports injuries each year.

Misplaced Priorities in Child Safety and Youth Sports

Fred Engh | Posted 04.22.2015 | Parents
Fred Engh

The bottom line is that to me letting your kids go to the park unsupervised is a whole lot better than putting them in the hands for a full season with someone you haven't a clue about.

Ouch! 4 Steps to Fewer Sports Injuries

Emily Cohen | Posted 04.20.2015 | Parents
Emily Cohen

You are the expert on your own kid, not the coach. The coach can't read your kid's body language the way you can.

If Schools Have a Superintendent, Why Don't Youth Sports?

Fred Engh | Posted 04.15.2015 | Parents
Fred Engh

Whether we want to admit it or not, youth sports are really about education. Our organization says that sports are the outdoor classroom whereby young people are learning a host of life lesson and they are not always good lessons.

Background Checks... Don't Be So Sure

Fred Engh | Posted 04.08.2015 | Impact
Fred Engh

Whatever we can do to prevent child abusers from abusing children in organized sports, I'm all for. Throughout the last several years, the phrase "background checks" has been floating around as if it's a panacea for making sure youth sports leagues are doing the right thing.

Is a Sexual Predator Lurking on Your Kid's Team?

Fred Engh | Posted 04.01.2015 | Impact
Fred Engh

Ever since Jerry Sandusky became a household name and rocked the national sports landscape, it also shined the spotlight on a chilling topic that all too often gets shoved to the side because it's too uncomfortable and unpleasant to talk about.

5 Signs Your Child's Team is Toxic

Emily Cohen | Posted 03.31.2015 | Parents
Emily Cohen

If a coach tries to say your child isn't allowed to play on another team or any other sport, or worse, asks you sign to a form to that effect, that coach doesn't have your child's best interests at heart--only his own. And his ego.

All-Star Teams Turn Fun Into Frenzy

Fred Engh | Posted 03.25.2015 | Sports
Fred Engh

When youth sports began way back in the late '30s, it was so kids would have something to do during their time off from school in the summer. With the advent of all-star teams, on a team with 15 players, 14 would be left with no baseball for the rest of the summer.

Travel Teams: Youth Sports' New Headache

Fred Engh | Posted 05.18.2015 | Sports
Fred Engh

Sadly, sandlot games have pretty much evaporated though, a casualty of the travel team frenzy that has been sweeping through communities for quite some time now, disrupting recreational programs and saddling children with a mind boggling schedule of practices and games.

Fun, Fitness And Fostering Character: 8 Tips To Make Youth Sports Great For Kids

Anne Josephson | Posted 05.16.2015 | Sports
Anne Josephson

Parent brawls, coaches who belittle athletes and the kids who are suffering from injuries, eating disorders or stress and exhaustion. It can leave a parent wondering: why is it valuable for my child to play youth sports?

Are Youth Sports A Societal Panacea?

Luis Fernando Llosa | Posted 05.13.2015 | Sports
Luis Fernando Llosa

Our intentions are good, but the end result can be surprisingly toxic.

8 Ways to Inject Joy in Youth Sports

Justin Ricklefs | Posted 05.02.2015 | Parents
Justin Ricklefs

This is a sensitive conversation that I'm sure isn't fully exhausted here, but it's one I think we should start having more honestly and openly. I'm hopeful we can all start to play a part in the solution.

Tackling The Tough Issues Of Coaching Kids: The Let ‘Em Play vs. ‘Wussification' Debate

Bob Cook | Posted 02.18.2015 | Sports
Bob Cook

My favorite moment in televised youth sports fiction comes from the CBC series, "The Tournament." The TV series, imported from Canada to the Unite...

12 Ways to Be a Happier Sports Parent in 2015

Anne Josephson | Posted 03.10.2015 | Parents
Anne Josephson

Enjoy watching your children's joy in doing their sport, not in your children's achievement within it. Assess your circle of sports parent friends. Take care of yourself.

Youth Sports Specialization Defies Logic

Ken Reed | Posted 12.31.2014 | Sports
Ken Reed

The growing trend of having our young athletes specialize in a single sport -- some as early as 9 years old -- flies in the face of scientific research and expert testimony.

Safety In Youth Sports: Parents Have Spoken, We Have Listened, Now It's Time To Act

James R. Whitehead | Posted 12.28.2014 | Sports
James R. Whitehead

Concussions and other head injuries not only top the headlines these days, they top the list of fears among parents as well. In fact, one-quarter of the parents surveyed have considered keeping their children from playing a sport because of fears of a concussion or other head injury.

It's Not Just Words: 10 Smart Word Choices of Smart Athletes

Anne Josephson | Posted 12.10.2014 | Parents
Anne Josephson

If parents keep reinforcing to their child that her pursuit of excellence in a sport is a sacrifice their child is making instead of a decision she is making, what effect is that likely to have on the child's attitude?

Burnout and Injury A Major Concern In Youth Sports

Ken Reed | Posted 03.31.2015 | Sports
Ken Reed

As a society, we need to start focusing more on sports as a vehicle to build teamwork and leadership abilities, improve sports skills, enhance fitness and health, gain experiences that teach lifetime lessons and shape values, develop friendships and less on scholarships, pro contracts and gold medals.

Notes From The Losing Team

Lindsay Ferrier | Posted 12.06.2014 | Parents
Lindsay Ferrier

I don't care what you tell your children about sportsmanship -- if you're not living it yourself from the sidelines, it doesn't mean anything.

20 Reasons Your Preschooler Should Do Sports (That Have Nothing To Do With Learning Sports)

Anne Josephson | Posted 11.26.2014 | Parents
Anne Josephson

What if Johnny never learns how to do a cartwheel? Or if Janie never scores a goal? Would there still be any value in putting your preschooler in a sports readiness class? Yes, I say. Absolutely yes.