I attended a "Writers Bloc" event this week at UCLA where Michael Kinsley (a big deal guy) was "in conversation" with Mickey Kaus.
Kinsley, has been moderator of Firing Line, editor of The New Republic, editor at Harpers, managing editor of Washington Monthly, American Editor of The Economist. co-host of Crossfire, founding editor of Slate, the Los Angeles Times Editorial Page Editor, and he served as American editor of The Guardian. He is currently a regular columnist for Time Magazine.
During the question period following the "conversation" I asked Kinsley for his opinion about the media consolidation in our country and was quite dismissive of that notion. He, as do so many others, believes in print and internet delivery of news and information, relegates television to the scrapheap of communications in the world. (These are my words, not his.)
I was not thrilled by his reply and I voiced my contrary opinion and he said in a very dismissive way: "you are wrong about this!"
I came away a bit annoyed, and would have been happier had he thrown in a "in my opinion you are wrong" line.
It is incredible to me that so much discourse ends in a "you are wrong" conclusion. There is something absolute in the "you are wrong" statement. I learned long ago that opinions are more honestly shared when they are listened to and not dismissed out of hand, particularly with the "you are wrong" admonition.
I annoy many by saying that "gravity cares not one bit if you agree with it or not." Most other non physical stuff is relegated to opinions that are not necessarily right or wrong, just different. There is rarely a time when it serves anyone to admonish anyone else with the "you are wrong about that" when it is only their opinion.
And now a rapid segue.
When I am asked who I would support as the Democratic nominee for the Presidency, my smart ass reply would be something like "Donald Duck if he was a Democrat."
It is bothersome to me when so many, including Arianna Huffington, when appearing on Bill Maher's Program was desirous of diminishing Hillary Clinton because she voted in favor of authorizing President Bush to attack Iraq if Saddam Hussein refused to give up weapons of mass destruction as required by U.N. resolutions.
In my opinion Hillary took what she thought was the correct course of action at that time and it is not difficult to understand why she did what she did. I was not thrilled by Arianna's position "of certainty."
In any event, should this mean that any of the 77 Senators or the 296 members of the House should be forever be "branded" in some negative way for their "yes" vote on this issue?
I have listened my entire life to the "I'm right and you're wrong" by people that are completely invested in their own positions. This does have a tendency of stifling a dialogue. As things turned out, Bush had misrepresented almost everything and took our nation to war. Blame Bush and his people for the transgression, and not the people who authorized what was dishonestly presented as a grave threat to our country.
For those like me who are older, you might remember Werner Erhardt, the founder of est; It was probably 30 years ago that he and I had a bit of a disagreement over a "media matter." He was annoyed at being challenged and I told him: "Werner, you make up the rules in the room, not the law in the universe." Sadly George W. Bush makes up the rules in the room as well as in the universe.
I am not exactly sure how this is relevant, but I've always wanted to relate the story.
And by the way Michael Kinsley, it was you who was wrong!
Norman Horowitz
Posted May 3, 2008 | 09:16 AM (EST)