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Nour Akkad

Nour Akkad

Posted: May 18, 2010 11:47 AM

Congrats to Miss USA But Here are the Arab American Women I Look Up To

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Yaaaaay! Rima Fakih, an Arab-American, has won the crown of Miss USA. Now young Arab American girls everywhere have something to aspire to: strutting in skimpy bikinis and winning pole-dancing contests.

I'm not denying that many Arabs, including myself, thought it was really cool that an Arab American won the Miss USA pageant. But should this really be looked at as a groundbreaking moment? I even saw one facebook post equate Rima Fakih's win to Barack Obama becoming the first African American President. If a beauty pageant win is our breakthrough moment, we are in a lot of trouble.

I don't recall Arab Americans being this excited about the success of other American women from Arab descent. Why can't we get this excited over women such as Diane Rehm, the exceptional and adored public radio host that has over two million listeners across the country. Broadcasting five times a week, Rehm hosts some of the most engaging and fruitful discussions among the nation's most prominent politicians, policy makers, and analysts.

Or what about the architect, Iraqi born Zaha Hadid? She was one of the first women to design a major American art museum, The Contemporary Arts Center in Cincinnati.

And how can we forget about the most famous White House Press Corps. member, Helen Thomas? Helen Thomas, who is of Lebanese descent, has covered the White House under every President since John F. Kennedy. She's actually one of the few that still does the job of a White House Press reporter--she holds the feet of all administrations to the fire.

Below is a slideshow of some American women of Arab origin that I look up to.

These are the kind of women we should be proud of and go crazy over on facebook. These are the kind of women our children should aspire to be.

Congratulations to Rima Fakih on accomplishing her goal. And I hope she uses her success to make a real difference in this world. But until she does, let's keep things in perspective. We, in the Arab-American community have a great deal of work to do.

 
 
 
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Faiza Waseem
03:48 PM on 06/30/2010
http://www.muslimsforpeace.org/
07:30 AM on 06/23/2010
I am also glad that Rima won the beauty contest. And I hope that young Americans learn more about her views and intelligent opinions. Helen Thomas is a good role model......but I definitely would rather see Rima pole dance than Helen Thomas.
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AhnessofThings
03:19 PM on 06/07/2010
Zaha Hadid is a goddess with a blessed beautiful mind. And such a strong woman
An inspiration for me
07:47 PM on 05/23/2010
Whatever. After all the years of complaints that American beauty was only represented as having blonde hair and blue eyes, we have this. It's a beauty pagent, for cryin' out loud. More people buy People magazine than Architectural Digest, I wouldn't take it as an affront. Pageant winners always get pushed in the press, the pageants need the publicity. Vanessa Williams has managed very nicely in the long run. Besides, it's always interesting to see something new, and within beauty-pageant-land, it actually is groundbreaking, and she's not from Texas (sorry, Texans, your ladies win often enough). PS - Isn't Zaha Hadid based in London?
11:34 AM on 05/22/2010
i'm sorry but wasn't the Miss USA born and raised in Michigan?? if so i see no reason for anyone to be getting upset over some pictures and her ethnic background if she was never raised in arab then she is not arabic...i have irish and german in me but i'm not considered an Irish American or Britsh American...this is all getting too far, and as far as her dirty pictures just now coming out...who cares it's not like they don't look trashy on stage as it is....
07:58 PM on 05/23/2010
In the North-east, people do tend to have some interest in their ethnic descent, as a matter of curiosity. When I was in school, I noticed a lot of the kids from the South and Mid-west didn't know, and had no interest. In New York, I'm often asked (mostly by foreigners) whether I'm French, Polish, or Russian, to which I respond, "No, American, of Irish descent." People are just curious about eachother's origins, no biggie.
12:34 PM on 05/21/2010
A good article for sure. There is a clash of two cultures and religious ideology. Winning Miss America is not going to win points generally in the Muslim world since she done it in a harm (forbidden) fashion. Many American woman cannot fathom that beauty is from their nakedness and a Muslim woman, who is following the guidance and sunnah of Islam is somehow, stupid, dumb and the alike. Since she exposed herself, her natural beauty, there are many applauding thinking that they this is going to bring the Muslimah in the Muslim world to sheer nakedness of Western sister! Not hardly! Regardless of the uncouth, ignorant of Islam comments, Islam is striving and the Muslimah is the caretaker, teacher and symbol of Islam, a model for other women who have been misguided into thinking that nakedness is freedom and beauty; and yet, American woman are not respected for her nakedness in the American landscape and abroad!
11:06 AM on 05/21/2010
Yet again a writer who goes from expressing personal likes: "these are the Arab women I look up to" to preaching: "These are the kind of women we should be proud of and go crazy over on facebook. These are the kind of women our children should aspire to be."

It's as if many who blog think that their viewpoint is somehow graced with being *the* valid viewpoint rather than *a* valid viewpoint. And then they roll out the oh so tiresome "we should be"

IMO Fakih's win is significant because one strong perception of Arab women in the Western media is of very conservative women who play down any potential attractiveness. The fact that some sought out way to attempt to invalidate her win seems to suggest the significance is tangible.
12:40 PM on 05/21/2010
Please understand, the are major differences in Islamic culture and Western culture. Americans and other Westerners build their life for the worldly pleasures and not for the hereafter. The Muslimah is following the guidance of her ancestral sister which is from the sunnah of the prophet sws. In Islam, a woman is required to dress conservatively and not to expose her beauty to strange men, this is a condition that leads to the hereafter. You cannot convince the Muslim world that a Muslimah, going about in nakedness is an honor of respect, well it is not in the Muslim world! And generally, those in the Muslim world that exposes herself is looked down upon. I would have loved to see her win in Islamic attire, not in nakedness!
04:50 PM on 05/20/2010
Nour, love the condescending tone in your article.
"now young arab girls everywhere have something to aspire to" ... get off your high horse. some arab girls WANT to win pole-dancing contests in skimpy bikinis ... do you have a problem with that?

thank you! thank you for reminding me that arabs just can never be happy for other arabs' success.
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LizFree
09:10 AM on 05/24/2010
I don't see a high horse and suggesting the article is about arabs what can't be happy for another arab's success is sooo lame.

The author was clearly making a point that Arab girls have MANY other role models who don't rely on prancing around half naked to make money. Unfortunately, women who are willing to be sexually objectified and merely valued for their beauty are pushed into the limelight. I think the author's point is well taken and it's that Arab Americans should be excited about the full spectrum of women doing amazing things and beauty is rather superficial and says nothing about one's contribution to the world.
01:52 PM on 05/19/2010
What about the famous Huffington Post journalist Nour Akkad?!
10:52 AM on 05/21/2010
What about the mother that helped Nour Akkad speak her mind as an Arab American. Lets not forget all these aspiring moms who took it upon themselves to bring up girls whos voices can be heard.
09:30 AM on 05/19/2010
I agree with Noor, except that I would not limit those remarks to Arab-Americans. When we, as a society, begin valuing achievements over looks and negative behavior we will begin seeing that reflected in the media. In the end, it's up to us to politely, reasonably and persistently hammer home our values until they are heard.

And don't forget Huma Abedin.
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A dean89
08:13 AM on 05/19/2010
Don't be to stereotypical guys, not all Arabs are muslims, Rima could be a Christian. Moreover, most of Lebanese are menonites or probably Eastern Orthodox. Know your facts.
07:27 PM on 05/19/2010
Maronites, not mennonites.
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A dean89
07:35 AM on 05/20/2010
Yupp, i misspelled.
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uansari1
02:15 AM on 05/20/2010
Um... you should know your facts. The majority of Lebanon is Muslim, though Maronite Christians are a close second.
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A dean89
07:39 AM on 05/20/2010
It doesn't matter, Most of whom i known are Christians. The only muslim i heard is Hezbollah(Shia')
10:43 AM on 05/20/2010
Yes, but the maronites are definitely a force to reckon with in Lebanon. The majority of Lebanon is Muslim, but they are divided b/w Sunni and Shi'a almost equally(shi'ite a little more). That makes them all a relatively similar percentage if you divide them b/w sunni, shia, and christian.
06:32 AM on 05/19/2010
"Should Rima Fakih's victory really be looked at as groundbreaking?"

No.
08:16 AM on 05/19/2010
Hmmmm, such interesting comments. I for one am glad that we are talking about this beautiful young woman. However, no one seems to have noticed that on the same day that she bacame Miss USA another young woman from the Middle East won the Madrid Open. Aravane Rezai soundly beat the American Icon Venus Williams in an amazing show of strength and style and all while wearing a gold lame' and black outfit. Her family emigrated to France and it is there that she developed into a strong and bold and self-assured young woman. If any of you think that her
performance was not being watched by thousands of Persian and Arab women (via satellite) you are sadly mistaken.
Soooo, why do these young women matter? First they matter because they are each amazing in their own rights. They have fought hard to gain whatever accomplishments they have achieved.
Second, they matter because they show that in some cultures that women of any background can
move to the highest levels of their endeavors. Could she have risen to this level in Iran? NO Would she have been on the streets protesting the government. Probably Will she do more for all women as a bold and strong tennis player from France. YES
Please let us not take away from the success and lovliness of both of these women. Let us also compliment the cultures that allowed them shelter so that they could flourish.
01:45 AM on 05/19/2010
Good article. However Zaha Hadid is not an American.
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11:39 PM on 05/18/2010
"""And I hope she uses her success to make a real difference in this world.""" ....... well ....... she has made many drool over her images .......

maybe a few of them are red blooded rah rah americans that normally would vote for the republican advocating more death in the middle east....

and now maybe some americans will think twice when a rightie politician gets on tv and says he wants to nuke all middle easterners

not exactly an intellectual understanding, but i'll take anything that helps avoid death for innocent people

eitherway, she has done nothing wrong. she never claimed a philosophical leadership position. she doesn't have to do anything (other than continue to be gorgeous)
10:54 PM on 05/18/2010
thank you for your comment. however, i am an arab and RIMA is no obama. why? because obama got to a position blacks were aspiring to for 400 years. and his skin and name could've still held him back. and if it weren't for the recession and the implosion of the mccain campaign, who knows? mccain was up in polls after palin till that happened. meanwhile, rima had no skin (white) or name problem and she won a title arab women REJECT coz they see paegants as demeaning to women which explains why lebanon is the only arab country that holds them and only christian girls like rima take part. nevertheless, as an arab woman i was happy for rima until the pole dancing photo came out and now i'm appalled and disgusted that she's representing me.
05:20 AM on 05/19/2010
Good, refreshing impression straight from the source.
09:43 AM on 05/19/2010
Rima is not a Christian, she is a Muslim. And the Pole dancing photos were more kosher than the actual Miss USA photos.