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Pamela Dussault, creator of and founder of the REAP Healing method, is a spiritual teacher, mentor, counselor, author, soul mate relationship specialist

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Top New Year's Resolution for 2016: Being Happier

(0) Comments | Posted January 4, 2016 | 3:05 PM

As the creator of Passage To Inner Joy, an online center for healing and guidance, I believe I have integrated enough of what I have learned to know how to truly be happy. In fact, I chose the name Passage To Inner Joy to represent that being happy...

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Creating Richer Relationships: Exercises to Improve Intimacy

(0) Comments | Posted October 1, 2015 | 2:08 PM

Probably the number one block to a happier and more fulfilling union between two people who love and are committed to each other is lack of intimacy. Intimacy, while it can relate to sexuality, is much more than that. Intimacy also refers to openness and trust between two people. To...

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5 Great Reasons to Have a Love Affair... With Yourself

(1) Comments | Posted June 29, 2015 | 4:34 PM

Remember what it was like falling in love for the first time? Everything felt magical, easy and oh-so-happy! It was like floating on a cloud of pure joy. Sadly however, the feeling doesn't always last as long as you would like it to. But this is not necessarily bad. A...

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The First Building Block of Conscious Relationships

(0) Comments | Posted February 24, 2015 | 2:43 PM

The source of all creation is pure consciousness . . . pure potentiality seeking expression from the unmanifest to the manifest. And when we realize that our true Self is one of pure potentiality, we align with the power that manifests everything in nature. -- Deepak Chopra


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How to Stop Your Addiction to Your Ex

(1) Comments | Posted October 30, 2014 | 10:35 AM

"Letting go means to come to the realization that some people are a part of your history, but not a part of your destiny." ― Steve Maraboli

Ever since I once wrote an article on how to tell the difference between addictive love and genuine love,...

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Reverse the Curse: How to Stop Being a Victim in Your Relationships

(0) Comments | Posted June 3, 2014 | 11:59 AM

When I was a victim of emotional and verbal abuse, I used to believe it was all my fault -- that somehow I was deserving of the abuse. I believed I must have been seriously defective as a person. Why else would my ex-husband treat me this way? Finally, I...

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5 Essential Steps to a Happy, Enduring Relationship

(1) Comments | Posted May 1, 2014 | 5:35 PM

So you've found the perfect person you want to commit to? Congratulations! Haven't found them yet? No worries! The information I'm about to share will be priceless when the time comes (and it will!).

It's important to set goals for your relationship if you want a happy, long-lasting one...

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9 Steps to Overcoming Fear

(0) Comments | Posted March 10, 2014 | 2:24 PM

There are two basic motivating forces: fear and love. When we are afraid, we pull back from life. When we are in love, we open to all that life has to offer with passion, excitement, and acceptance. We need to learn to love ourselves first, in all our glory and...
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Healing Your Heart: 3 Ways to Cope With Loss and Grief

(0) Comments | Posted February 10, 2014 | 2:51 PM

Losing a loved one -- whether it's through separation, divorce or death -- is never easy. It is painful, sometimes so painful that it may feel much better to push the pain away rather than facing it head on. Unfortunately, that only prolongs the pain and allows it to manifest...

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Are You Vulnerable to Having an Emotional Affair? Take This Test and Find Out

(5) Comments | Posted January 16, 2014 | 4:15 PM

Affairs. Probably the most painful and detrimental thing that can happen in a relationship, second only to death. An affair is any intimate relationship that is shrouded in secrecy, deception, and betrayal. Sex may or may not be involved. The term "emotional affair" is used to describe an affair separate...

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Why It May Be So Hard For You To Let Go

(1) Comments | Posted November 20, 2013 | 1:38 PM

"All suffering is caused either by an attachment to a positive outcome or an avoidance of a negative one. " -- Jafree Oswald

There are many individual patterns that can interfere with our ability to truly let go of a partner. With the exception of genuine psychological/mental disorders, I have...

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How to Make Your Next Marriage the Best One (and the Last One)

(13) Comments | Posted September 19, 2013 | 5:41 PM

The ultimate marriage...what does that mean to you? Does it conjure up visions of romance and amazing sex? For many of my clients (and myself too) the definition of the ultimate marriage includes those things but mainly consists of two partners having a sense and presence of deep and enduring...

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How to Avoid Emotionally Abusive Relationships

(116) Comments | Posted July 22, 2013 | 12:41 PM

"It is said that if you place a frog in a pot of boiling water it will jump out. Place him in a pot of cold water and turn it up a little at a time, and he will stay until he is boiled to death." ~ Unknown

Emotionally abusive...

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Why Some Women Stray and How to Prevent It

(85) Comments | Posted June 5, 2013 | 12:13 PM

"The more connections you and your lover make, not just between your bodies but between your minds, your hearts and your souls, the more you will strengthen the fabric of your relationship" ~ Barbara de Angelis

Ms. de Angelis nailed it. Countless women (and men too) feel a yearning for...

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5 Unconscious Habits That Block Your Inner Peace

(0) Comments | Posted May 9, 2013 | 2:40 PM

There are many different ways to attain inner peace, tranquility and serenity. Practicing meditation, affirmations and breath work are a few good ones. However, sometimes hidden blockages exist that may prevent you from attaining that inner calm you seek. These hidden blockages are unconscious habits seated within your conditioning, patterns...

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How to Send Healing Energy to Those Affected By Tragedy

(0) Comments | Posted April 16, 2013 | 3:29 PM

We often find that in times of tragedy, disaster and major crisis, the best, most helpful people appear and step up to assist those affected. These rescuers are not limited to police, firefighters, doctors and nurses -- they are everyday people like you and me who simply don't to hesitate...

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Feeling Trapped And Powerless Over The Loss Of Your Ex? The Reason May Be Addiction

(44) Comments | Posted April 3, 2013 | 11:52 AM

"You know you're gonna have to face it you're addicted to love." -Robert Palmer

Most of us who know the song don't take the message seriously. But for some, this form of addiction is a serious matter. Whether you're addicted to a substance or a person, the effects of addiction...

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How to Discover and Embrace Your Ultimate Truth

(1) Comments | Posted March 18, 2013 | 4:09 PM

"Even if you are a minority of one, the truth is the truth" -- Mahatma Ghandi

Years ago I began a journey to find out who I really was and what I was made of. At that time I had no choice but to begin my self-discovery. In fact, you...

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5 Unconventional Ways To Cope With Divorce

(4) Comments | Posted March 5, 2013 | 1:03 PM

Despite all the anguish one is going through, divorce happens to be a catalyst for discovering who you really are. I know, I know -- the last thing on most people's minds is discovering who they really are when coping with divorce. However, I assure you that if you can...

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5 Reasons Why You Should Stop Blaming Your Ex

(11) Comments | Posted February 21, 2013 | 11:44 AM

When you blame another for your unhappiness and your pain -- no matter how much it appears to be directly caused by them -- you end up hurting yourself even more. By placing blame on others, you put the responsibility of resolving your negative emotions and healing your pain onto...

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