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Real-World Change Can Come From Within

Posted: 01/ 3/2012 11:49 am

"...the salvation of this human world lies nowhere else than in the human heart, in the human power to reflect, in human meekness and in human responsibility. Without a global revolution in the sphere of human consciousness, nothing will change for the better..."

Folks who fancy themselves political realists often dismiss that kind of "heart talk" as irrelevant to the rough-and-tumble world of power. Proposing inner-life solutions to our political and economic catastrophes is something done, say the critics, only by people who've spent more time in la-la land than in the "real world." In fact, it's dangerous to promote the illusion that social change can be animated by inner work, which is more likely to lead to narcissistic escape than to political engagement. People swept up in some New Age version of The Rapture are of no earthly use.

Some political realists are so certain that heart talk is nonsense they use rhetoric rather than reason to blow it off: "wishful thinking," "touchy-feely," "pipe dream," "spiritual mumbo-jumbo." Unless you are a therapist or pastor, they say, forget about individuals and their inner lives. People who care about politics must focus on real problems: unjust structures and systems; the movement of big money and military might; long-term cultural and historical trends that shape our lives as inexorably as glaciers shaped our land.

But the words at the head of this post are from a man who had some bragging rights when it comes to political realism -- the late Vaclav Havel, who led a "revolution in the sphere of human consciousness" that helped topple the Czech Communist Party. The quote can be found in his 1990 address to a joint session of the U.S. Congress, delivered a few months after the denouement of the Velvet Revolution. Havel's political philosophy and accomplishments put him in a league with Gandhi, King, Mandela and other practitioners and advocates of the inner life whose real-world political impact makes one wonder if the "political realists" are in touch with reality.

The notion that social change can be sparked by an inner revolution is not only realistic. It also gives us a gift that conventional "realism" withholds -- a chance to do something that might make a difference. What passes for political realism may make for lively academic debates. But it often functions, ironically, as a tool of social control, rendering us passive with an analysis that overwhelms and paralyzes us. If massive structures, complex systems, big money, military might and long-term cultural-historical trends are where all the action is, how do you and I become part of the action? The inner life agenda, however, is always actionable, even when we are isolated -- as Nelson Mandela was as he spent 27 years in prison preparing inwardly to lead the anti-apartheid movement.

Yes, of course, structures and systems must be transformed. Yes, of course, we must redeploy money and might. Yes, of course, we must understand the historical and cultural forces that deform us so we can resist them. But we cannot help any of that happen until we understand how political reality is co-created by inner and outer powers, and learn in practical terms how to participate in that co-creation. These are the deep demands made upon us by Gandhi's famous exhortation, "Be the change you want to see in the world" -- demands that we evade when we chant that phrase as an incantation, as if saying it makes it so.

The clearest example of co-creation in real-world politics, and of how we can join the action, is found in social movements. From the Velvet Revolution to the struggle against apartheid, from the campaign to defend American democracy against an oligarchy of wealth to the fight for LGBT rights, every social movement I've studied has unfolded through four stages. And every stage offers human-scale ways in which we can join the struggle:

The Decision To Live Divided No More

Movements begin when oppressed people make -- and keep remaking -- a deeply inward decision to stop consenting to external demands that contradict a critical inner truth, the truth that they are worthy of respect. I call this "the Rosa Parks decision," a decision to act on the heart's imperatives against all that diminishes us and what we value. People who make this decision are willing to suffer punishment because they come to understand that no external punishment can possibly be greater than the one we impose on ourselves by conspiring in our own diminishment.

The Formation Of Communities Of Congruence

As people start living undivided lives, they discover others who are on the same path, and come together in communities that offer three forms of support: (1) sustaining their sanity in a culture that regards the divided life as safe and sane; (2) practicing a private and fragile language of identity, integrity and meaning until it becomes muscular enough to enter the public realm; (3) developing skills and disciplines of social change that help people implement the heart's imperatives in the external world.

The Process Of Going Public

As people gain the tools to work for social change -- and find the courage to go public within and between themselves -- two things happen: (1) they spread their message to others who are on the same path without knowing it, growing the community of congruence toward critical mass; (2) they attract critics who help and even compel them to check and correct themselves, purging the movement of distortions and making its message clearer and more compelling. This is one of the points at which democratic and fascist movements diverge. Fascist movements kill off their critics, literally or metaphorically, while democratic movements value, invite and even welcome criticism.

The Emergence Of Alternative Rewards

Institutions exercise oppression by maintaining systems of punishment and reward that favor the oppressor over the oppressed. As a movement expands, it creates new institutions that reward people for ideas and actions that challenge the status quo. Once-marginalized people find themselves at the center of new sources of power which they can use to gain leverage for change on the larger system. As this happens, participants find new inner resolve as they come to understand that no reward can possibly be greater than the one we give ourselves by acting on our own sense of identity, integrity and meaning.

Of course, no movement unfolds as neatly and tidily as things do in this model. In real life, the stages overlap, cycle back and intertwine with each other. But teasing these threads out of the tangle of history helps us see how co-creation happens, how we might play a role in it and what we might do today to help it along. Is this a day when I need to renew my decision to live divided no more? Or join with others in a community of congruence to help me deepen and enact that decision? Or find the courage to go public with my convictions, adding my words and actions to the larger story? Or celebrate the reward that comes from knowing that I can live and, some day, die confident that I did my best to be faithful to my inner truth?

In a piece written two days after Vaclav Havel's death on Dec. 18, Paul Begala says that Havel had "an almost mystical faith in democracy," even when the going got rough. Havel's brand of mysticism took him into the world, not out of it. His faith gave him the courage to stand among the hard realities of politics with an open and transformed heart. The result? A life-giving political legacy that challenges all of us to "live divided no more."

Portions of this post are adapted from Parker J. Palmer, 'Healing the Heart of Democracy: The Courage to Create a Politics Worthy of the Human Spirit.'

 
 
 
 
 
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OtayPanky
You're welcome
07:08 PM on 01/08/2012
Blugger: The notion that social change can be sparked by an inner revolution is not only realistic. It also gives us a gift that conventional "realism" withholds -- a chance to do something that might make a difference.

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I'm grateful that our founding fathers, Abraham Lincoln and FDR weren't of your opinion.
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Billy Fritts
I love the Lord Jesus Christ
07:49 PM on 01/06/2012
The Only change we need is to turn back to God--Jesus Christ said he would forgive our sins and make us Sons Of God--The reason the United States is in the shape its in is because we have strayed away from God--Honestly--Call upon the name of Jesus Christ and be saved--That is the whole change we need--I love you Jesus--
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JayMonaco
02:55 PM on 01/05/2012
I feel like I'm missing something, because I generally agree wholeheartedly with the premise of the article, I'm just not sure how we define "living divided."
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GoogleAlphaPublishing
nothing, nobody, not a representative
11:45 AM on 01/05/2012
Pratitya, your comment emboldens me to say what I want to about this.

To me the whole point to government is perpetuating dishonesty. Any leader could choose to openly support the information I keep pointing to, and in so doing break the dishonesty wide open. The fact that they don't proves they are dishonest. I want no part of that.

Why do people need laws and others governing them except for widespread dishonesty? The need creates the opportunity to take advantage of the need. No one should want to perpetuate that.

I don't know if the author was making the point that talking about political goings on is little different from participating in them. Most of it is implied support.
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Joanne Boyer
Author and Editor of Wisdom of Progressive Voices.
10:43 AM on 01/05/2012
I have had the pleasure of meeting and interviewing Parker J. Palmer...for those of you who may want to learn more, here's my profile from last August:

http://wisdomvoices.com/reclaiming-democracy-for-we-the-people/

And one of the quotes from the interview:

“When we generate utopian visions and hope to make them happen soon – when we elect Barack Obama and expect all our problems to be solved, and solved quickly, by his presidency – the outcome is both predictable and tragic. That is not the way to engage social change in a democracy. And it is not the way to help democracy itself survive and thrive. Democracy is a non-stop experiment. Each generation must help sustain it, which means being in it day-by-day for the long haul.”

When I first listened to what he said, I wanted to put in a lot of "Yeah, but...." and then when you stop and spend some time analyzing and thinking about what he is saying, you end up saying..."he's right."

A true light in the world today is Mr. Palmer.
08:15 PM on 01/04/2012
And the dance continues. . .

The filtered noise of people attempting to create a political praxis becomes white noise -- a veritable cacophony of sound canceling their voices. Some will dominate corrupted by their rise or they will be carried by a sea of voices into the bastions of authority and become the architects of their Thermidor. And the drama plays on while the defeated thespians obediently leave the stage to be replaced by another cast of performers their traces become the scratches of history books whose students will ponder the questions of what went wrong and why.

So much for change . . .
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methodman
05:27 PM on 01/04/2012
this is tricky. I would explain I think you mean according to your religious background you convert your influences to broaden into acedemic and spiritual ideas. I am doing just that. However I would not be suitable to take a class with because A my ideas are independent and tied to ciricuulums that I am not good at although I chew a piece off at a time and the pandering pastors and priests don't like that at all. So you don't get grace points for personalizing Bible scriptures. they eschew you and ban you from their Bible studies. That is why the Churches are declining except for the hardcore Righties. The outside extensions require academic attempts to understand causes and origins. It is amazing how clear complex things are explained and yet the pastors are not finding any of this interesting Theology into their Church services. Religion is dying and only becoming for the truly stupid. Especially since there is a lot of sincere Religious thought put into examining Theorms and proofs and the academic ciricuulum includes many Bible words but not with the tomfoolery the pandering Clergy, pastors and priests are using.
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Sanity Inspector
He who laughs, lasts.
04:06 PM on 01/04/2012
Change is obviously inevitable, and just as obviously it can be for the better or for the worse. I don't trust people who talk about "change" as if it had some value in itself.

"The study of history is a powerful antidote to contemporary arrogance. It is humbling to discover how many of our glib assumptions, which seem to us novel and plausible, have been tested before, not once but many times and in innumerable guises; and discovered to be, at great human cost, wholly false."
--Paul Johnson
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soma77
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03:44 PM on 01/04/2012
When rules and regulations externally and not the joy and beauty internally happened, a shift from the vitality of life to fear, pride, prejudice arrogance, and greed became prevalent in our society. We can shift back and are doing so gradually with change. http://thinkunity.com
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humanbeing-rick
Born in the USA 1947
09:48 AM on 01/04/2012
This is one of the most profound and thought provoking articles I have read in a long time. Bravo!
And so very true. I loved these two quotes:
"no external punishment can possibly be greater than the one we impose on ourselves by conspiring in our own diminishment"
and it's obverse:
"no reward can possibly be greater than the one we give ourselves by acting on our own sense of identity, integrity and meaning"
There can be no excuse for apathy and defeat. We can "Be the change you want to see in the world".
08:49 PM on 01/03/2012
Every new day brings forth a new world, and every choice that we make and every action that we take will, for good or ill, alter that world. We must daily choose whether to wield the axe or splint the broken bough, to quench the flames of hate or be consumed by the same, to help or to hurt, to heal or to wound, to sit on the sidelines of life as the band plays on or to get up and dance.
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JayMonaco
02:58 PM on 01/05/2012
Quite well said, Friendly Atheist. F&F.
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06:20 PM on 01/03/2012
the article did not reveal what I thought the title suggested.

once change occurs from within then the world to us changes. understanding reveals compassion for all even those that oppress others.

our view of reality changes when we change.

the world gives us perfect feedback; what we do with that feedback determines society's future.

capitalism in america is creating a very hostile and selfish society, but in a individualist culture like america we blame individuals for systemic problems.

one would think with all the evidence of the self destruction in america that americans would begin to awaken to an economic ideology system of profits over people is prone to self destructing attributes. one would be wrong.

the universal law of cause and effect plays no favorites in spite of what the religous folks think.
02:37 PM on 01/03/2012
I completely agree that real change must come from within, but still the question of how to positively affect the outer world of economics and politics remains completely relevant in the meantime. Why not work on inner change and outer change at the same time? How can the two be separated really? With increased consciousness comes increased compassion in action.

The imagery in the following comment will probably be censored, but I can think of no better analogy for the degenerate state of economics and politics than wholesale "prostitution". This is the lay of the land and this is how the game must be played at present. Instead of waiting for the system to change, why not hire our own "prostitutes", the best that money can buy, to do the bidding of the people instead of the bidding of corporations and banks?

Mark Zukerberg has shown the way. A popular internet phenomenon can spread literally at the speed of light. What if that phenomenon were a union of millions of ordinary citizens who were fed up with the current state of affairs, who were willing to hire their own lobbyists (the best that money can buy) and fund the campaigns of their own political candidates (again, the best that money can buy)?

As the Japanese admiral Yamamoto said after Pearl Harbor, " I'm afraid we have only awakened a sleeping giant." We are the sleeping giant and we need to wake up!
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solitude1951
06:19 PM on 01/03/2012
I'll be a union man.
02:00 PM on 01/03/2012
Yes! Parker Palmer is keeping hope in democracy alive, and it's up to the rest of us to open our hearts and use our best thinking to fan the flames. Thanks for pointing the way by pointing to actual people and historical events. We need more Vaclav Havels, Rosa Parkses -- and Parker Palmers.