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Patricia Handschiegel

Patricia Handschiegel

Posted: March 10, 2011 12:56 PM

The New Power Girls: Going After What You Want in Life


It's a sunny but chilly morning as I head down Beverly Boulevard in Los Angeles, my newly acquired iPhone Verizon phone on my lap as I talk business over speaker phone with a friend and fellow female founder. Like a lot of today's new modern women entrepreneurs and executives I've met and know, we're talking about partnering on some ancillary business to both of our startups. With so many of us bringing different skills, experience and companies to the table, it's a great way to close on business and make our companies money.

The city is busy as I make my way to the office. I'm wearing a long, black maxi skirt, black tank top, velour hooded jacket and Prada flip flops -- yes, to work. One of the best benefits of being an entrepreneur? You can wear whatever you want.

As one male investor had put it over e-mail recently, the way to look as if you can handle a million dollar check from an investor is to "be yourself, however that might look. For better or worse, we all live in a Mark Zuckerberg world now."

It's among the many little perks that more and more women (and men!) find as they take the jump and launch their own businesses -- either to replace former careers or to supplement current income. Entrepreneurship is not easy and can be far more taxing than employment, but the benefits it can have are enormous: greater control of your destiny, time and experience. In a world where the pink slip looms over virtually everybody's head, many are flocking to launching their own companies. After all, if work and life are hard no matter what work and life you have, so you might as well be the one calling the shots.

What's great is that taking that giant step can happen at any time, any age and by any gender. There are no limits to what you can do when you alone are the boss. It doesn't just apply to entrepreneurship, but every area of life.

We live in a world that puts an emphasis on being young, in part due to the fact that the youngest consumers are typically the easiest to motivate to spend money and buy. But that doesn't mean that life and opportunity stop once you've past the younger years. The founder of the McDonald's fast food chain was 52 years old when he launched the company. Arianna Huffington was 54 when she started the very site this blog sits on, which she's recently sold to AOL.

In fact, many studies have shown that older entrepreneurs have more successful outcomes than younger ones.

It's something that came to mind as I watch my mom, who is in her 60s, continue to go after what she wants in life. Today, it's to become more fit. Not long ago, she ran for office -- and won -- in her town. Life is full of opportunity, every day and at every age. There is absolutely no reason why you can't go after what you want -- regardless of what age you are. It's incredibly inspiring.

Just the same, a big life can be had even by the very young. I'm not just talking about 20-something "wunderkinds." An informal study of New Power Girls readers showed that the majority started businesses at a very young age -- many of us at 10 and 11 (including myself). Everybody can benefit from going after their life's dreams and ambitions, no matter what age they are. In fact, I believe the babysitting and other "mini-empires" I built as a child, teenager and later young adult were the very reason I do what I do and have the life I have now.

It doesn't just stop at age. Going after what you want knows no gender, race, religion, origin or background. It's just plain old ambition, and lots of it.

It's a conversation I had with one of the most inspiring women founders I know, Jessica Mah, who had elbowed her way into the Silicon Valley and internet business while still in high school. Not only had Jessica completed the feat at a young age, but in an industry (high tech) that doesn't see a lot of women. I'm not talking about the internet business, or even technology -- both of those industries have a ton of women -- but in coding and development, where very few women are found.

"I think having more women in tech just makes business more exciting!" Mah shared over e-mail, as we talked shop. Now the founder of InDinero, a financial solution for small businesses, she's one of three female team members. Like many of the women founders I know, not one has ever thought twice or worried about being a woman in a male-dominated field. They just went after what they want.

No matter who you are, what your age is, what you want to do or whatever you've got going on, life's yours for the taking every day. Power Girls, take the jump!

 
It's a sunny but chilly morning as I head down Beverly Boulevard in Los Angeles, my newly acquired iPhone Verizon phone on my lap as I talk business over speaker phone with a friend and fellow female ...
It's a sunny but chilly morning as I head down Beverly Boulevard in Los Angeles, my newly acquired iPhone Verizon phone on my lap as I talk business over speaker phone with a friend and fellow female ...
 
 
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02:07 AM on 03/14/2011
Yay for this article. I'm in my forties and in college. I am a junior with one year of prep and two years down. I am ambitious. There is nothing else to say about it. I'm tired of working for companies that say they can offer me a good job and then find out that it's run like a fast food restaurant. There is no education of management anymore, it's done all on "how much do I like you." They seem to continually pick the people who are the worst for the job. Hopefully, one day I will own a business that people actually like to work for. I face the let-down every day of the overwhelming favoritism shown towards the boys in my industry. I"m tired of it and want to do something positive. Like provide a great place to work for both genders.
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Patricia Handschiegel
02:55 PM on 03/14/2011
I agree that the corporate hiring structure is flawed. My sister works in HR and says that they basically screen for specific stuff, without ever really looking into a candidate, etc.

Maybe that's why corporate America is falling apart :)

Good for you to go out and make the world you want -- that's what this article was all about last week! :)
04:15 PM on 03/12/2011
60+ year old Power Girls give us 40+ers something to look forward to. :)
04:03 PM on 03/12/2011
Power Girls rule at any age!
01:26 PM on 03/11/2011
I can appreciate the article if its a fluff chearleading piece but considering Ms Handschiegel's pursuits I'd have to say it's probably not.

I'm not a real fan of reach for the stars articles, I'm too mired in reality to get past the lofty carefree investment of a person's time. I think it comes from my humble beginnings.

This like alot of articles are mostly directed to college graduate level people who have a sound higher than average financial support group. This allows them the walk economic tightropes with their professional time without the fear of living under a freeway. For the working woman she'll quickly find out that she'll need college education + a fat business loan and be willing to setup her endeavor after she's put in 8+ hours at work.

I don't know about you but banks aren't exactly lining up to hand out money to "entrepeneurs" without a symbiotic relationship with Mark Zuckerberg.

I see the website race looks alot Oklahoma land rush but I'm not sure women are eager to share what they look like with other women til they map out their desired assemble. I see the potential for profit margin if the site goes big, every retailer and designer in the world would want to be a scrolling ad ($$$$$$$).

I guess I'm just saying Pat, is get working women into a support system where they don't need family or a CEO business partner to succeed, then you have my attention.
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Patricia Handschiegel
02:09 PM on 03/11/2011
Totally untrue! Some of the best entrepreneurs I've met and know are people who came from humble backgrounds including relatives, friends, etc. There are tons of success stories all over the world. And now more than ever, the cost to start a business is less expensive. Lots of entrepreneurs I know grew their own businesses part time while working at regular jobs (myself included). No investment capital or needing to be born with a silver spoon required.

There are a ton of organizations dedicated to support systems that we've written about here, like Women 2.0, Make Mine A Million, etc. and many women who have achieved great things in business without any support, etc. Definitely check it out!
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Shawn de Montaigne
http://thepiertoforever.webs.com
12:25 AM on 03/11/2011
Because being a shallow corporatist golddigging shrew and raping the planet like your male counterparts is really, really cool.
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Patricia Handschiegel
11:30 AM on 03/11/2011
On the contrary, women entrepreneurs are said to be 60% more focused on social change, donate more of their profits to charities and causes, and are more likely to start businesses that have an impact.
10:51 PM on 03/10/2011
The best professional advice I ever received was from my mentor, about 25 years my senior. She told me to not worry about the small stuff (meetings going array, email not working)– life is too important. My mentor is an amazing woman, raised two children, and then told her husband she wanted a career. Her community did not support her, so she packed up her Honda Civic and drove to California at the age of 45. She was starting over and doing it her way. Twenty years later, she owns two homes, a Mercedes, and is newly married. She is the ultimate Power Woman and I adore her determination. She is proof that it is never too late to start a new life – it is never too late to find your passion.
03:25 PM on 03/11/2011
What a truly wonderful lady and a role model!
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Jeanne Ball
Teacher of meditation, David Lynch Foundation
08:01 PM on 03/10/2011
Thanks for inspiring us to find success at any age. Fueling that success can be a challenge for many women who are balancing career, family and home— and find they are running on empty. Plugging into our inner source of energy and creativity through meditation helps us stay alert, steady and powerful while we reinvent our selves and pursue our ambitions.
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Robin Feltner
Founder/CEO Supernatural Botanicals, Editor/Publis
04:54 PM on 03/10/2011
Not only do I adore this concept...I live it. Great article!
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himaui
12:15 AM on 03/11/2011
it is very refreshing...i'm a stay at home mom, i'm writing a few books and sometimes i feel like it's groundhog's day. this article brightened my day so much. i believe.