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Patrick Sauer

Patrick Sauer

Posted: April 1, 2010 11:08 PM

"Marine Wedding" Brings the War Home

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No matter what new technologies develop, singular photos always seem to provide the lasting images that sum up wars on the whole. Matthew Brady's shots at Antietam brought the horror and carnage of the Civil War home, the V-J Day "Kiss" captured the euphoria and relief of the end of the "good war," and the terrifying "Napalm Girl" displayed the barbarity of modern weaponry unleashed on a civilian populace.

The most iconic photo of the Iraq War -- and by extension the war in Afghanistan -- is the "Marlboro Marine" shot. It's the now iconic 2004 still of a grubby, weary soldier named James Blake Miller taking a smoke break during the brutal assault on Fallujah. It's an amazing image, a young man caked in blood and dirt, dazed, but thankful to be alive. The one thing about the "Marlboro Marine" though, to me at least, it that it's more about the grit, determination heroism and fear of soldiers of all wars, not just the current conflicts. It will live on forever, but it just as easily represents Marne, Guadalcanal or Gettysburg.

Last week, the wife and I went to check out the Whitney Biennial, the 75th installment of the latest in contemporary art. Typically, it featured the sublime, the ridiculous and the generally inexplicable.

One exhibit, however, stood apart from the rest and made the entire Biennial seem small and unimportant by comparison. Nina Berman's photo essay "Marine Wedding" is a series of unstaged photos of sergeant Ty Ziegel, then 24, back home as he prepares for his wedding to his high school sweetheart Renee Klein, then 21. Ziegel survived a suicide bomber attack in Iraq, but was severely disfigured and needed 50 reconstructive operations. The exhibit's notes are few, but it does explain that, "A plastic dome, with holes where his ears and nose used to be, replaced his shattered skull."

The entire collection is gut wrenching, and the wedding portrait in particular is heart-breaking almost beyond description. Some of the photos show Ziegel adapting to his new reality in a way that at least gives us hope, but the wedding picture says otherwise. In it, Ziegel's decked out in his Marine best, looking down upon his beautiful bride, but Klein's gaze tells us her mind is elsewhere. It should be the one of the happiest days of his life, but all I could see was sadness.

It pains me to say this, and I sincerely mean no disrespect, but there is no way to look at the photo without wishing it to be some sort of Beauty & the Beast fantasy come to life. But life isn't like the movies; happy endings are few and far between where war is concerned. The wounded marine's living nightmare doesn't even offer the cathartic Grand Guignol release of an Eli Roth splatter film or a Goya painting.

This is Ty Ziegel's life. He and Renee separated after a few months and are now divorced.

Perhaps the harshest reality of Berman's incredible photo exhibit is knowing that Ziegel probably wouldn't have survived any of America's previous conflicts. The incredible advancements in battlefield medicine have given our soldiers an incredible survival rate of over 90 percent. And in what is either a gift from God, or the cruelest joke of the Devil, Ziegel's body below the neck (and minus a left arm) seems to be in working order. The collection gives the appearance that he will live for a long time.

A week later, staring at the photo gives me pangs of guilt about my own happy wedding memories. Unfounded, yes, but once a Catholic always a Catholic. Tomorrow is Good Friday and although I no longer believe in much these days, Berman's essay had me thinking about what this life on Earth means. As a kid, I always terrified by nails through hands and feet, a bloody crown of thorns, and the torturous death of the man on the cross. The hope and joy of the resurrection never washed away the pain and agony of the crucifixion... in my mind anyway.

If you can't get to New York City, I would ask that you take a few minutes to look through "Marine Wedding." If nothing else, it's a stark reminder that these wars have consequences and many of our sons and daughters are having their lives permanently altered in faraway lands.

It's not like the words of some silly blogger matter a whit -- nor do I assume anything about the man's life -- but for what it's worth, these photos will haunt me for a long time. To our troops, their families, Renee Klein, and Marine sergeant Ty Ziegel, I would like to offer one thing this Easter weekend:

Peace be with you.

(Ed Note: Anyone seeking to help seriously wounded veterans should contact Fisherhouse.org, which provided the Ziegels with housing support.)


 
 
 
 
 
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Halsey
"There is a price to pay for speaking the truth. T
02:05 PM on 04/04/2010
Ty's suffering...too much..and we are all to blame..ever us "liberals"...who ketch and bitch...but..won't risk arrest by massive sit-ins, etc... for every Ty,,,there are thousands of Afghanies and Iraqis...also burned beyond recognition...my guess...most do not live..(for me...that would be a gift...but I'm not brave)....and the same goes for, yes Viet Nam...where our Agent Orange still causes birth defects and death.

War is good for business; empire-building by its very nature. Short of actual invasion (and I don't mean..terrorists)..I mean...Invasion...by a brutal force..there is no excuse...except...money...
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checkmoot
We have met the enemy and he is us.
11:18 AM on 04/04/2010
I wonder if he voted Republcan in the last election. If Bush and Cheney can sleep knowing they have caused this, to so many people, for no good reason, they are true sociopaths
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faith
peace-love-brotherhood
11:29 AM on 04/04/2010
The sick tragedy is that very little coverage in media presents any of this. You will rarely find this type article in the LAT or NYT, or in magazines, or on ABC, NBC, etc. Although HuffPo has lots of readers, there are millions who do not, but they watch the local news channels and see very little except what is happening with popular tv shows. The fact that President Obama is continuing the horrific wars in the middle east has squarely placed him on the side of Bush and Cheney and Rumsfeld concerning the matter. There is no good reason not to bring our troops home. This is truly a tragic time in America's history.
07:07 PM on 04/03/2010
George Bush, Dick Cheney et al should not just be convicted of war crimes . . .

Every inch of the walls and ceilings of their prison cells should be covered with photos of veterans like Ty.
04:07 PM on 04/03/2010
Yes it is heart wrenching.
So sad
But here is the reality
Not one person has been forced in any way to sign up for the military since the draft was eliminated.
The true hero's that will get my support are those who raise their middle finger to the war mongers and say "Look me up when there is a real threat to this country and I'll serve. Otherwise take a hike"!
I can think of one massive war of choice where this statement could have worked wonders if done as a group effort. The country attacked was Poland,the year was 1939, there was no justification for the death and destruction, it was a crime against humanity and those warriors were no more hero's better than our modern day warriors of choice.
05:54 PM on 04/03/2010
Kinda harsh. Most who sign up believe the lies that the recruiters feed them and join to get a leg up out of poverty. The poor are fighting our wars for the rest of us.
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faith
peace-love-brotherhood
11:40 AM on 04/04/2010
merckx61 you are right, but I add that there are a group of truly brilliant, upper middle class men and women who joined because they honestly thought they were helping their country and protecting their nation with their service. Some became combat medics instead of going off to med school. Many are college grads in the hard sciences and they entered the military as enlisted so that they could be on the front lines helping. I They were idealistic and believed in helping their country. No one believed at the time that our nation was being managed by such a cynical, hypocritical, greedy group of politicians.

galaxyhiker, your comment that no one was forced to sign up, is so egregious I just don't know what to say. I think you have missed the fundamental issues concerning this particular blog. As I see it, the topic here is two-fold: modern science can save lives, and the results from the Iraq/Afghan conflicts as to U.S. troops. As iterated above, many of our military entered for idealistic reasons and others to improve their life situations. Both are honorable. Personally, I think if the U.S. wishes to pursue and engage in wars there should be a draft so that all families participate. Your, Cheneyesque comment, no one had to volunteer is shallow.
04:06 PM on 04/03/2010
Heartbroken to learn that their marriage didn't last.
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rextrek
50yr old, Moderate-liberal in S.NJ/Phila
03:20 PM on 04/03/2010
What a wrenching story.....My Thoughts are with him, his family,and a Happy Future.
.....Now, Imagine if that soldier was "gay", in the military, left his partner and family/children behind...and something like that happened to him?
1) his partner/kids at home would be the LAST persons notified of his Life threatening Injuries.
cause just knowing the ID of his partner would be "Telling"under DADT
2) his partner and children would NOT benefit from the Militarys Program bestowed on any straight Military personel husband/wife & children.
..and this would just be the beginning of lack of equal treatment to lesbian/gay service members & thier families....now Imagine if that person had died......my best to this man and his family....end DADT NOW!
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Mike Kopac
02:38 PM on 04/03/2010
Here is a new song that speaks to an Army couple's struggle during this time of war

It's called ARMY OF ONE by Marco Kopac... you can hear it by linking to.....

http://www.myspace.com/marcokopac

Enjoy and let me know what you think
01:04 PM on 04/03/2010
as a non volunteer vet and having lived a while on this earth, I feel very much for these young veterans who are forced to make multiple tours of the worst places on earth, the other side of the coin is that most of these young vets and their family's voted for and supported these wars, a lot of them were too un-interested in politics to know what they were being led into, a lot of this grief can be laid on their parents who did not instill knowledge or awareness in their beloved children. these wars are as senseless as viet nam ever was, wait till they all come back to no decent jobs and a health care system that is based on the same thing as the wars. . .greed.
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NoMoFearNoMoHate
01:26 PM on 04/03/2010
Exactly. We should ban profiting from war in any way, shape or form. Then let's see how many wars are waged.
05:55 PM on 04/03/2010
To my way of thinking, war profiteers are traitors.
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SPAIN62
“Solidarity is the tenderness of the people.”
02:52 PM on 04/03/2010
Well said, and thanks for your service. Fanned!
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patches12
12:38 PM on 04/03/2010
Courage... Courage, Courage... my eyes are welling up thinking about his sacrifice!!
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11:11 AM on 04/03/2010
As long as I live I'll never understand how anyone can find it acceptable for a nation to send people to war and pay a price like that while the rest of the country carries on with no interruption and significant parts of it are living high on the hog from the profits its generated.
09:02 AM on 04/03/2010
Sad. Sad.

Bring troops home now. Just as in Vietnam, the corporations get richer. The not-well-off are now, and have always been the ones to do the fighting, from the Civil War, to WWI, just to make a living. They have been brainwashed by the system into thinking that what they do is right.

No more killing. No more torture. No more dead, wounded, paralyzed, blind, crippled, maimed for life, on any side-U.S. or all their supposed enemies around the globe.

Obama, as his predecessors, now has his eye on Iraq, just to continue the madness. Stop them now.
08:54 AM on 04/03/2010
Thank you Patrick for telling Ty's story and further exposing Nina Berman's poignant photo essay. I think too often we hear about our brave soldiers and Marines who have paid the 'ultimate price' for our freedom without stopping to think about what that entails. We naturally focus on those who have fallen in the line of duty, but rarely do we think about those like Sgt. Zieglel who survive their injuries, often with horrific, disfiguring consequences. I'd suggest that Sgt. Ziegel has paid more than the ultimate price; he did not earn death's final respite, but rather lives everyday with the reminder of who he used to be and the things he used to be able to do. That he does so with courage and honor chokes me up a bit and brings tears to my eyes. As someone who served for a decade with the Navy and Marines (corpsman) and spent lots of time in the sandbox, I can say that Sgt. Ziegel further reinforces what I already know about the selflessness, courage and bravery of those men and women who have served or currently serve in our armed forces.

I wish Ty fair winds and following seas. Semper Fi, devil dog, continue to act with the courage and bravery you have shown thus far. It does not go unnoticed...
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Rosanneofpgh
some days youre the dog;others the hydrant
01:26 AM on 04/03/2010
As if the poor man's life wasnt screwed enough, his "loving" wife bailed on him. Why did she even marry him if she wasnt planning to stay with him?
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greymom
02:25 AM on 04/03/2010
Don't be too hard on her. I think it is admirable that she went ahead and married him. Who knows what goes on. I have nothing but pity for this man and this woman. Her expression reminded me of the famous depression era dust bowl woman, looking into space, disconnected from reality because reality it just too hard to bear.
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Rosanneofpgh
some days youre the dog;others the hydrant
03:39 PM on 04/05/2010
If his wife had "that look" on her wedding picture, she must have known that she couldnt handle the stress of being married to the poor guy. It takes a very special woman to love a man with so many physical problems. It would have been kinder if she had just not shown up at the church. Its not my place to condemn her; I just think she should have realized her limitations before the wedding and not married him at all. Breaking off an engagement is kinder than breaking off a marriage after only a few months.
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mdbmama
Southern liberal, lonely here
09:03 PM on 04/04/2010
I'm the mother of a vet - 100% disabled in this "war". He suffers from constant pain as well as PTSD. He and his wife and 4 kids live with me and my husband. The stress is overwhelming. I've already had three heart attacks and I'm 54. I'm the daughter of a former German POW. I thought I knew stress since I've lived with it my entire life. Let me tell you - I didn't know stress. The things these men and women saw, did, and heard about along with what was done to them by the previous administration is awful - and I don't even know the whole story yet, two and one half years later. If I thought I could get away from my own house and my responsibilities and start over again - I would.
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PatA
Juan Martinez! Rock Star!
01:12 AM on 04/03/2010
Ty Ziegel, I'm glad you are home.
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SueMVetforObama2
With Liberty and justice for all
05:32 PM on 04/03/2010
Fanned.
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dadw5boys
Disabled Vietnam Vet
10:39 PM on 04/02/2010
100 % disabled Veterans pay allows them to hover just above the Proverty Level.

Of course that must be all they deserve since the USA always takes care of it Veteran as well as they pay KBR , Halibourton and all the other Military Contractors.

Just one years worth of the cost over runs and illegal billing payments would allow Veterans a pay increae of 30 % easy.
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Gidster
Not so much Liberal as I am anti evil.
11:22 PM on 04/02/2010
When I was approached by a private security contractor, they offered me $20K per month, which is about the average pay of a E-3 per year......