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Sex-friends après 50 ans... À faire ou pas?

(2) Comments | Posted April 8, 2013 | 11:04 AM

Surtout pas, même si c'est diablement tentant!

Que vous ayez 20 ou 60 ans, je crois fermement qu'une relation "amis-amants" ne peut pas fonctionner.

Quel que soit leur âge, la plupart des gens ne peuvent pas avoir des relations sexuelles sans sentiment.

2013-04-08-Oxytocin3d2.jpegPendant l'acte sexuel,...

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Friends With Benefits Over 50... A Do Or A Don't?

(36) Comments | Posted April 3, 2013 | 6:23 AM

Don't, no matter how temping it seems!

Whether you're 20 or 60, I'm a firm believer that a friends with benefits relationship doesn't work. Regardless of age, most people can't have emotionless sex. Your body produces oxytocin -- the lover hormone -- during intercourse, so removing sex from emotion...

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The Winter Dating Guide

(0) Comments | Posted February 14, 2013 | 6:29 AM

Planning a date night in the summer is easy. The sunshine elevates moods and the summer months bring outdoor concerts, festivals and parties. When the weather is warm and the options are plentiful, it is easy to fill your dance card.

Winter is a different dating animal altogether. Snow and...

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Sexy New Year's Resolutions

(37) Comments | Posted January 4, 2013 | 2:01 PM

Check your list of New Year's resolutions. I bet it includes something about being healthier, something about saving more money or getting out of debt and something about taking up a hobby. There is probably nothing on your list about sex.

Why not? Can you have too much sex?...

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Keeping Intimacy Alive During the Holidays

(2) Comments | Posted December 18, 2012 | 2:55 PM

The holidays are truly a joyous and magical time of year that represents so many things -- family, togetherness and giving, just to name a few. Unfortunately, it can also be a time where we find ourselves buried up to your eyeballs in plans! There are gifts to shop for,...

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Foreplay Over Fifty

(61) Comments | Posted December 6, 2012 | 6:32 AM

If you have ever seen a comedian perform, you know the value of a good opener. Even top comedians need someone to warm up the crowd and get the audience ready for laughs. That is the opening act's job -- to set the stage for the headliner.

When it comes...

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Like Fine Wine, Sex Gets Better With Age

(224) Comments | Posted October 1, 2012 | 9:45 AM

Like a fine bottle of wine, I truly believe that we become better, more robust and wiser as we age. Experience almost always trumps enthusiasm, and intimacy is no different. Through experience, older adults develop a more complete sexual road map than their younger counterparts. As we age, we acquire...

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