Peggy Drexler, author of "Our Fathers, Ourselves: Daughters, Fathers, and the Changing American Family"
Back when we were living in San Francisco, both my son and daughter went to a "progressive" school that taught grades K through 8. The school had a very clear motto, one that was repeated to the kids and their parents again and again: "Everyone at [Our School] is a Winner!"
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