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Barack Obama: The Audacity Of Being Human


Hillary Clinton and John McCain should be careful what they ask for from the Rev. Wright controversy. Surrogates for their campaigns are still, even after Barack Obama's clear denunciation of Rev. Wright on Tuesday, accusing him of bad judgment for not doing it sooner, and, implicitly, of doing it out of political calculation. His opponents see hypocrisy in the contradiction between that calculation and Obama's call for a new kind of politics, but in the process they are inviting a kind of examination of their own campaigns that Obama's is better prepared to withstand.

Contrary to the popular image painted of him in the media, Obama actually seems to be the only one of the three Presidential candidates who does not defiantly hold himself above moral imperfection, and who, ironically, likely seems aloof to his critics precisely because he is the most at peace with his own flawed humanity.

Just before the Pennsylvania primary, John Stewart asked Barack Obama where he stood in the state polls, and he said, "We're down about seven or eight percent," which was exactly what the pollsters had been reporting. It was a tiny example, but still after all this time, an astonishing one to me, of Obama's comfortableness with honesty, and a reminder of how uncomfortable that seems to make his opponents. Obama had this to say about his own negative campaigning:

"This campaign isn't perfect, I'm not perfect. People start throwing elbows at you and you've got to throw an elbow back. I know this happened the last several weeks, I told this to my team, 'We are starting to sound like the other folks.'"

Obama is doing something the other candidates seem to never do, something that is at the heart of his appeal to so many people, and of the unsettling effect he has on others-- admitting a moral failure.

He didn't blame his mistakes on lack of sleep. He didn't deny he'd said something he'd said. Commentators have fallen into the habit of describing Obama as being in a predicament of his own making, trapped between impossible-to-meet, self-imposed standards of moral purity on the one hand and the demands of rough-and-tumble politics on the other. But they are making a mistake of perception born of the very habits that are the object Obama's true critique, and completely misreading the source of his popularity. Obama's supporters aren't excited by the possibility of a future when, as Hillary mockingly put it, "The heavens will open and everything will be perfect." They are optimistic about a future when specious, insincere, sentimental ideals might be nudged out of our politics a little bit by a politician brave enough to sometimes concern himself with not just moralism, but morality. Sometimes even his own.

Yet, while his opponents respond to criticism with high dudgeon and desperate evasion, and he routinely cops to his own failings, Obama is the candidate people most often see as being "above it all." This is not entirely a misperception. It's just that what Obama is trying to hold himself above isn't moral imperfection but moral pretense, which can be confusing at a time when politics is all about shot-and-a-beer charades and flags-of-our-father's puffery.

The ethical gulf between Hillary Clinton's decision to vote for an inexcusable and horrific war and Obama's decision to attend a church run by an at times angry and buffoonish pastor is enormous, yet Obama reflected thoughtfully and authentically on his own mistakes (as well as Rev. Wright's,) in his Philadelphia speech, and forcefully denounced Wright's offensive statements. Even more impressively, with little political gain to be had, and at a moment of great political pressure, he stayed true to his own sense of morality and refused to repudiate Rev. Wright himself. And now, weeks later, he's been forced to completely reject his former pastor, and has done so with clarity and real feeling.

Meanwhile, Clinton has yet to address her vote on the war in any meaningful way, let alone show signs of examining it or learning from it. Instead she's lectured her critics and opponents, waving campaign leaflets the way her husband wags his finger, with hectoring calls for Obama, the one who's supposed to be so full of moral superiority, to be "ashamed of himself."

But it is precisely Obama's resistance to the screeching demands of our inflated and hysterical political culture, and his struggle to stay as true to himself as he can while doing so, that has captured the hearts of so many people. The other candidates, and many journalists, seem to think that Obama has gotten himself in trouble because he's not doing what he should to "win," that he isn't "fighting" enough, but they don't see that he isn't trying to win the same thing they are, and that he's fighting on a different front. What really bothers them about Barack Obama isn't that he doesn't care about winning, it's that he's willing to lose. While Hillary Clinton has kept as her motto her husband's triangulationist admonishment, "First you have to win elections," one gets the sense that Obama might be more inclined to heed Abraham Lincoln's advice, "My great concern is not whether you have failed, but whether you are content with your failure."

I can only imagine what goes through Hillary Clinton's mind as she watches Obama not allow himself to be shamed into wearing an American flag pin. "What, is he crazy? He has nothing to lose by wearing a pin! What an idiot! I sponsored an anti-flag burning bill, for God sake! It's a no-brainer!" Clinton and her husband long ago cultivated an image of themselves as tenacious warriors willing to meet the enemy with inexhaustible ferocity. But it's become clear to many of their former supporters during this campaign that their enemy isn't who we thought it was, that it is in fact anyone and anything that gets in the way of The Clintons.

The only thing Hillary Clinton, or John McCain for that matter, ever seems to worry about being true to is their ambitions. I've yet to see either of them respond to any challenge with the politically inexpedient, centered, self-knowledge Obama displays in even something as small the flag pin question. Hillary responded to campaign director Mark Penn's paid advocacy of trade with Colombia and support of questionable military efforts there by "firing" him without firing him, and with obfuscation far more worthy of the accusations of arrogance she routinely aims at Obama. Yet Reverend Wright, who has been completely shut out of the Obama campaign from the beginning, is still a hot-button issue and somehow Mark Penn, still employed by the Clinton campaign, is not. Obama seems genuinely troubled by Wright's words, and the course their relationship has taken, while Clinton only seems bothered by Penn's clumsiness.

Hillary seems much more uncomfortable when challenged than Obama does (remember her complaints about being "ganged up on" by debate opponents, or her tantrum-like insistence in another debate that she "doesn't just want change, [she's] been working for change for thirty five years!") Yet she has accused Obama of not being able to "take the heat," because he pointed out the lack of substance in recent debate questions.

Her great strengths are supposed to be her experience and political acumen, but, more than a decade after letting her health care initiative be characterized as socialism, and trying to jam it down the throats of everyone in Washington, this supposedly super-savvy politician has returned to the battle with a plan whose centerpiece is government mandates. Her words. How in the world has she earned a reputation for political deftness? And if experience is her great virtue, why does she seem to take every slight personally, and lurch from one reactive extreme to another? What is experience for if not to temper us?

It seems to me that Barack Obama has been winning this campaign, and is sometimes in trouble, because he doesn't have the other candidate's habits of resistance to their own morally imperfect humanity. He's living and dying by his rejection of the rictus smiles and Stepford eyes (and yes, flag pins) of old-style politics. What he's above, in fact, is the Clinton style of "being above it all." The sneering and gloating, the thin-skinned over-reactions, the serrated nastiness of, "As far as I know" qualifications, bald-faced "Playing the race card" attacks, and red-faced, lying admonishments afterwards: these things are the stuff of being "above it all," of being above messy things like empathy, and friendship, and self-doubt.

There's nothing wrong with being above lying about war.

There's something very troubling, however, about the air both Clinton and McCain give off of being above responsibility to their own selves. Neither ever gives off a hint of genuinely wrestling with the demands of their own inner lives.

The Obama campaign will probably succeed, and it may fail, but I get the sense that it won't stop for a very long time. The seeking-the-Presidency part will have to end of course, one way or another. But from the beginning, Obama has campaigned, ironically enough, it must be said, at this very churchy moment of the process, in an almost Buddhist-like fashion. He has seemed to have a sense of how the way in which each of us, as individuals, responds to challenges in our lives makes the difference between perpetuating a culture of small-mindedness, recrimination and violence, or winning in the most important way. He is setting an example that helps others move toward a new political culture of self-awareness and compassion. Even if it's only by taking a couple of imperfect baby steps.

Obama seems to have an intuitive sense that the world will begin to change when each of us, one by one, begins to work for peace at the level of our own behavior, our own habits of thought and action. With all the yelling and screaming going on around him, Barack Obama seems peaceful, comfortable in his own skin, and not at all afraid to address his own habits of thought. That's why he has attracted supporters who are convinced of the necessity of taking a good honest look at how we treat ourselves, and how we treat others.

 
 
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09:36 PM on 05/05/2008
Peter,

When you say "Hillary Clinton's mind as she watches Obama not allow himself to be shamed into wearing an American flag pin. "What, is he crazy? He has nothing to lose by wearing a pin! What an idiot! I sponsored an anti-flag burning bill, for God sake!"

..When you say that, don't you realize that, though it's true that Clinton supported that bill, so did Obama? And that more than half the senate’s Democrats supported that bill, in June 2006. And, it was brought to the floor by Dick Durbin, Obama’s biggest Senate supporter?
12:16 AM on 05/06/2008
Sneener,

You're right, Obama did support the bill- but voting for an anti-flag-burning bill he knew wouldn't pass isn't the same as sponsoring the bill in the first place. And, like I said, he ain't perfect.

-Peter Birkenhead
12:42 PM on 05/04/2008
This is why I support Obama and even Ron Paul sees him as the best of the candidates. I am amazed the the Clinton supporters accuse Obama supporters of being fanatical. It has always seemed the opposite to me. I don't believe most Obama supporters are looking for a messiah and Obama's own statements reflect that. He refers to "We can try", while Hillary consistently speaks of how "I will do this" implying no effort or sacrifice on anyone else's part.
10:02 PM on 05/03/2008
excellent post. He'll be alright if the nomination is stolen from him but there will be tears and angry blogs from this mere human
09:22 PM on 05/03/2008
Mr. Birkenhead, Excellent analysis
04:39 PM on 05/03/2008
What makes Obama special is that he can come in contact with all kinds of people on the right and on the left and NOT have it taint him or change who he is. Because he is confident and strong in his values and his ideals. Thats whats real about him he doesnt go with polls or popularity he goes with his values. If you are waiting for some reveleation that he is not who he said he is that he is evil you are going to have a long wait. I suspect that it wont matter because they are NOT being honest as to why they dont like him so they look for conspiracy that he is up to no good.

Politics have taint politicians so badly that when someone is admitting imperfections and is telling us the truth and when we've never heard this person use the same langauge that Wright use. In fact people who went to school with Obama in Hawaii said that he is the same person he was then. THat means he was shaped by his MOMMA like most of us not Wright, Not Ayers, Not where he went to school but by his mother you want to understand him UNDERSTAND his mother a white anthropologist who believes in service to community treating peole the same way you want to be treated. I am my brother's keeper. Thats where he got it from.

Carol
04:33 PM on 05/03/2008
Barack Obama is REAL and part of what makes a person real is their IMPERFECTIONS. HIs assocation with Wright is part of that imperfection he goes to Chicago wanting to help communities and disadvantage people and that is what led him to Wright. Wright didnt find Obama on the street as someone lost and not sure of themselves. Obama found Wright because of who he is. He was someone who came to help a community that was devastated and it was this devastation that led him to WRight who for all his faults is NOT evil personified but is PART OF AMERICA. He has done GOOD in his community he has used religion for some good as oppose to those that use it to justify Segregation, slavery and why certain groups like gays and lesbians should be looked down upon. So of course someone like Obama would be drawn to Wright and his church because of what they do in the community. He can see the good he has done but NOT agree or support evrything Wright stands for. As far as Ayers Obama is a Progressive activist you dont think that in his career he is going to come in contact with people who is more on the left. When you are working in devastated communities you come in contact with ALL KINDS of people. I'm amazed at the inability of some to open their minds. Education has really FAILED the American people.

Carol
12:18 PM on 05/03/2008
On the Rev. Wright story:

The media has to sell newspapers and advertising, so a story like Rev. Wright's rants, will cause the media to follow and stay glued, just like stink on the rear end of a skunk!
09:07 PM on 05/03/2008
Unfortunately I think it is more than that. Sometimes conspiracy is real. The self same media has gotten you believing that conspiracy theories are like believing in Santa Claus. It is not true. Conspiracy means planning and executing the plan.

Someone ( or a group of people ) planned that the Rev Wright thing will be spun in the way in which it has been and that the Peter Paul and other things will not be heard. They executed the plan.
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01:46 PM on 05/04/2008
Wright made a conscious decision to allow himself to be portrayed as a clown by people who were more than happy to continue feeding the media. And the media circling like sharks couldn't resist. I hope Wright is satisfied with what he did. Because what he did can affect the entire future of this country.
11:40 AM on 05/03/2008
Senator Obama has completely gotten a free ride from MSM. His pastor is an extension of what he believes. His relationship only changed when it was exposed by wright himself. It is surprising to me that so many are in denial. We will be saying President McCain if he is the nominee. The GOP will pound him not only on his minister, but they have barely begun with his connections to ayers, his lack of voting record, etc. His relationship with ayers is not casual and it's going to make voters more nervous about him. I am a democrat and the more I learn the more nervous I am.
04:19 PM on 05/03/2008
And you know this how? Intelligent people don't believe everything they read on the Internet.
09:09 PM on 05/03/2008
Kcjc,
They have gotten you to think just the way they wanted. They have made you too scared to think for yourself. You need to not be brainwashed, but to think for yourself and to stop being terrified out of your skin by people who are deliberately trying to do that to you.

THINK!
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09:25 AM on 05/03/2008
Here is the problem with what you say. It is suggested that Obama has held himself above the frey and it denotes that the other candidates have not. I have proove that Obama was just as negative at the beginning and throughout this whole run for nomination as far back as when other candidates where still running. This so called negative campaign is a bunch of BS. It really is, and it is the only way that Obama could have win against her is by pointing his finger (as he does a lot) and trying to discredit her character. Well, what goes around comes around.
11:07 AM on 05/03/2008
Blinded by your determination to support Hillary/McCain at any cost, once again..you missed the point.
04:21 PM on 05/03/2008
Saying you have proof may make it so in Hillary world but it doesn't in the real world. So show us the "proove."
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11:50 PM on 05/02/2008
Thank you for an insightful post.

For those of you who do not see that Obama is different (StephenDedalus82, I'm talking to YOU!), consider the Hillary's recent "live fire at Bosnia" screw-up. The press covered it a bit, but you didn't hear Obama mention it, you didn't see it in commercials from Obama attacking Hillary's credibility. Obama's campaign did not try to stretch it into a week-long or longer headline grabber.

Do you for a moment believe that Hillary would have been as nice to Obama on something like this as he has been for her. His criticisms have focused on votes, lobbyist money, and traditional Washington politics -- in other words issues.

He is different, and we need what he brings.
12:36 AM on 05/03/2008
He is just a politician. If you don't believe me, then you can go ask his minister/mentor of 20 years. Politicians are people and people are flawed.
That is why we have a system of checks and balances. That is why we should never be united, because we need people to tell us when we are wrong.
President Bush's problem was that he had a Republican Congress and no one told him that he was wrong. If a democrat is elected president, then we need a republican congress. Otherwise, consider the consequences of an out of control single party government.
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01:51 AM on 05/03/2008
I think FDR and a highly Democratic Congress did pretty well in another time of crisis.

During WWII a Democratic senator named Truman was even able to investigate gouging on defense spending.

While checks and balances do have meeting, you can't overestimate the extent to which many of today's conservative Republicans are just bad people, and what they did when they had all branches of government under Bush was what bad people do when they get power.

As for Rev. Wright's comment on Obama's position just being politics, the feelings I saw on Obama's face on Tuesday when he denounced Wright's words told me that he found Wright's words hurtful, and it was clear that he was hurt and offended at being equated to typical politicians. He is trying to be different, and he is even able to speak honestly about it if he slip a little bit and has to get back on the higher ground -- which is the point of Peter's post.
09:20 PM on 05/03/2008
You actually said "That is why we should never be united,". They actually have you saying that! Have you thought about what you have said?

You should not have to be a democrat to tell President Bush that he is wrong. this is what Senator Obama is saying. We need to change the old type of politics. As it is now, the same oil companies and their lobbyists who funded and were telling Bush what to do, were also funding the Senators and Congressmen and telling the politicians what to do. They have both sides of the aisle working for them. Who is working for you???? This is Senator Obama's point.

He who pays the piper calls the tune. For most of the politicians (the President included), the person paying are the lobbyists and the corporations they work for. We must unite to address the people's issues. Black and white must unite because we share many of the same issues. Jews and Gentiles, Hispanics and Whites, Hispanics and Blacks, etc etc etc.
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11:25 PM on 05/02/2008
This piece and "4 Reasons Hoosiers Should Pass the Ball to Obama" by Mike Bonifer, are the best reads on HP in a long time. They give me hope.
08:46 PM on 05/02/2008
I find it disheartening how the Party did not don't look at the bigger picture, and allowed Hillary to essentially sabotage what would have been a unified and very strong platform for the Democrats.
Sen. Obama is the only presidential prospect in either party who as president would have the inspirational qualities to elevate the dangerously low esteem in which this country is now viewed throughout the world, will pursue a strong national security policy, and will restore the confidence of American consumers and investors in our economy and the confidence of young Americans in our government and political system. He speaks about the big issues bothering many Americans and does not merely go for the quick fix such as the holiday gasoline moratorium. Have we squandered the moment?
08:35 PM on 05/02/2008
I knew that Obama was a different politician when he was asked what his weakness was and he replied that he kept a messy desk. His opponents at the time chose to LIE through their teeth about some altruistic bs. I love that man! I feel blessed that I have lived to see that politicians can be different from the dirty, pandering, win-at-all-costs, lying windbags we have seen.
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10:24 PM on 05/02/2008
I remember that moment. And it struck me this is really an honest man.
Not easy to find in politics. You are probably 7 times more likely to be struck by lightning.
So we really have won the lottery if he is our President.
11:47 PM on 05/02/2008
Wow, an honest answer about one's weakness is a messy desk? That's like when you go out on a job interview and you are asked about your weaknesses. You can't say "I have a poor work ethic", or "I steal from my employers", but rather, the right answer, we're trained, is "I'm too much of a perfectionist", or "I have a tendancy to become a workaholic". Obama is equally trained to give an innocuous answer that says nothing.

Anyone who thinks this to be an honest and insightful answer is silly. Think. Harder. Plenty of his weaknesses are starting to surface publically. Honesty would be pointing to any one of them.
08:25 PM on 05/02/2008
I am bothered by the assumption that her husband's administration and accomplishments were her own because if that equation holds true, that the first spouse is an equal partner in the administration that set a dangerous precedent for the executive branch of government. Is there a constitutional issue embedded in there somewhere?
08:07 PM on 05/02/2008
Obama is really trying to change the political tenor of the nation, and the MSM doesn't know how to cover it. They, too, are stuck in the old paradigm of politics. They lack the foresight, ingenuity, and creativity to cover a different campaign in a new way in the age of information. The Obama really reminds me of Martin Luther King, when many people wanted him to use more militant tactics rather than civil disobedience. King was belittled for his lack militancy, but at the end of the day he achieved his objective. King, like Obama, tried to appeal to the best in Americans and hopes that we will seize the moment and bring about the needed change. But like King, some of Obama supporters find it a lot harder than to have his resolve.