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Peter Daou

Posted February 2, 2009 | 12:14 PM (EST)

Beltway Buddies (Don't Mistake Friendship for Bipartisanship)


The Washington Post looks at the meaning of bipartisanship in the Obama era:

The uncertainty over just how the new president defines bipartisanship traces back to the campaign trail. When Obama called for an end to "broken and divided politics," his Republican opponent, Sen. John McCain (Ariz.), and others contended that there were few instances in Obama's career when he had made major concessions that upset fellow Democrats to reach agreement with Republicans.


But this, said some who have worked with Obama, overlooked his intent. To Obama, they said, fixing "broken politics" is less about making concessions just for the sake of finding common ground and more about elevating the debate -- replacing cynical gamesmanship and immature name-calling with intellectually honest arguments and respect for the other side's motives. In his book "The Audacity of Hope," Obama waxes nostalgic about the fellowship and vigorous debate of Congress's halcyon days in the mid-20th century more than about the centrist deals the era produced.

This is a laudable aim: disagreeing forcefully but respectfully rather than forcefully and disrespectfully is certainly a welcome change. But I wonder if there's some confusion in the debate about bipartisanship stemming from the oddly chummy atmosphere inside the Beltway, something that took me a while to get accustomed to during my two extended stints in DC - John Kerry's presidential campaign in '04, Hillary Clinton's in '08. For a progressive NY-based blogger, familiarity with DC culture didn't come easily, especially since my driving purpose was to defeat George W. Bush and to delegitimize his policies, not to strike up friendships with operatives of other political persuasions.

When I crossed over from activist/observer to political consultant in 2003, I shared the widespread disdain among the netroots for the notion that what was missing in DC was 'bipartisanship'. What was missing, I believed, was partisanship on the part of Democrats - a fierce advocacy for core Democratic principles lacking among too many Democratic officials.

My view about bipartisanship for its own sake hasn't changed - I'd rather political leaders stand up for their beliefs instead of yearning for a hazy notion of cooperation with opponents. I believe that it is more likely to lead to mutual respect than simply hoping for it. I'd like to think that's where Barack Obama is coming from. In a way, I see the point through a shared obsession with pick-up basketball, a game where you compete aggressively on the court with people who are often your best friends.

On a similar but more serious note, I lived through a conflict where lifelong friends and neighbors and even family members were pitted against one another in a life or death struggle. And where peace, albeit fragile, returned. From these experiences in Beirut and the Beltway I've learned that you can do battle with someone and be - or become - their friend.

The point I'm getting at is not that "cooperation, agreement, and compromise between two major political parties" is something to be shunned, certainly not when it can lead to policies that improve people's lives, but that we shouldn't confuse it with the collegial atmosphere in DC's political circles.

Considering how intensely I felt about defeating Bush-Cheney during the 2004 election, and how reprehensible the attacks on John Kerry's service during that campaign, it feels a bit strange to have made the friendly acquaintance of several Bush '04 staffers and advisers, including Mark McKinnon, Chuck DeFeo, Mindy Finn, and Patrick Ruffini. And it's even more bizarre to see Karl Rove following me on Twitter. Still, I wouldn't pursue bipartisan cooperation with them as an end itself, nor does our comity signify that we are suddenly 'bipartisan'. I am just as dedicated as I was then to erasing or reversing every last vestige of Bush's radical excesses. In that regard, the first week of Obama's presidency was as surreal as the first week of Bush's, one for the departure from sanity, the other for the return to it.

Progressive bloggers are often mystified by the behavior of Democratic and Republican insiders who wine and dine together and who work in tandem at big consulting firms. But that's just the way it is in DC. And the same goes for many reporters, whose job often involves buddying up to one another and to politicians. But again, this has little to do with the much-heralded concept of bipartisanship - it's simply cordiality, real or fabricated.

To illustrate the point, one of my friends is Patrick Hynes, who advised the McCain campaign and ran a popular anti-Kerry blog in 2004. He was my nemesis back then but I've come to know a decent, hard-working man with a beautiful family. We are nearly polar opposites on ideology, but we've developed a healthy respect and admiration for one another. In my consulting business, Patrick is a joint adviser to one of my clients. We've appeared on panels together and are about to launch a joint project.

And yet, when it comes down to it, I would never compromise my progressive principles and values just for the purpose of cooperation with Patrick - I'd cooperate with him for the purpose of promoting my progressive principles and values. And he'd do the same.

So when we hear the endless drumbeat about bipartisanship, we should distinguish between working together for the common good and simply "palling around" with peers.

 
 
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09:33 AM on 02/03/2009
Has Joe Lieberman demonstrated to all of us what bi-partisanship truly is: Selling oneself to the highest bidder.
02:27 AM on 02/03/2009
I think "bipartisanship" has become a code word for don't argue with us. It's an anti-intellectual ploy the effect, and probably the purpose, of which is to kill substansive debate. Bipartisanship should come by way of resolution rather than capitulation which is rarely mutual. I think we hear that cry because the one side has little more than an emotional investment in their argument where the dominant emotion is fear or anger or hate. The intellect need not apply.
03:31 PM on 02/02/2009
I'm sorry, Mr. Daou,
but I do not understand you,
or people like you, at all.

Anyone who holds beliefs
that are opposed to mine
is a threat to me.

And to the extent that
such a person succeeds
in implementing his beliefs --
politically, economically, religiously --
he or she causes me actual harm.

How can I possibly be "friendly"
with someone who wishes to harm me?

How can anyone do that?

How can you?
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02:02 PM on 02/02/2009
I do so welcome your comments about partisan as a "good thing", and remember during the primaries the talk coming from Obama's campaign and from some of the so-called issue oriented groups like MoveOn and TrueMajority talking about ending partisan bickering; think there are lot of sites, and maybe this one, who prefer bland to critical. As a life long Democrat I respect many Republicans and their right to their views but that certainly doesn't mean I am going to give up a relatively critical approach so as not to argue or debate. What I have found is that Republicans who advocate no debate, no criticism, are really hung up on one or two issues and would themselves give any slack to anyone who argues, especially if you are a woman. Republicans seem to view their point of view as the only one. The problem is that most Americans have more or less adopted that bland attitude, think politics are ridiculous and politicians useless. Some of that may come from the tv sets we all have now. Seeking unity seems the only task of government; forget about the real problems and issues.
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01:54 PM on 02/02/2009
"What was missing, I believed, was partisanship on the part of Democrats - a fierce advocacy for core Democratic principles lacking among too many Democratic officials. "

EXACTLY.

You can thank that Clintonian oxymoron, the Democratic 'LEADERSHIP' Council for directly for this.

BUSINESS FIRST.......

That has GOT to change.
06:29 PM on 02/02/2009
Actually spinelessness existed for a long time in Democratic circles. It began when the DC Democrats refused to support Carter. Then they sucked up to Reagan/Bush for 12 years. Then they refused to support Clinton when he sought a more progressive platform. When they didn't support, they undermined, or were so apathetic that they didn't care if progressive policies passed. We in the netroots have changed that. But we have to make up for a long period of our values being ignored.
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01:23 PM on 02/02/2009
To "the BluestateguyinTX," you really hit my funny bone with that remark. You're right, we're the rubes in the audience clapping and shouting, and thinking it's all real. These politicians are in the backroom, counting the money and laughing at us for falling for their antics. Thanks, Peter, for spilling your trade secrets.
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01:02 PM on 02/02/2009
"Progressive bloggers are often mystified by the behavior of Democratic and Republican insiders who wine and dine together and who work in tandem at big consulting firms. But that's just the way it is in DC."

That may be "the way it is in DC," but it is also why things won't really change until we get rid of those insiders. As the great Chuck Berry said, "too much monkey business." And the press being cozied up to those insiders doesn't help either.
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12:38 PM on 02/02/2009
It occurs to me that the metaphor that best describes this whole Beltway culture is found in "The Wrestler". Remember how back stage in the locker room the guys are all friends just playing a role for the fans? I get the same impression of our so called "leadership" in Washington. They bluster and hit each other with breakaway chairs when they are in the ring but backstage in the Senate locker room they are all just buddies cooperating to give the rubes in the bleachers a good show.

And just like the wrestler this current crop of "leaders" will keep doing what they do because that is all they are qualified to do.