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Who Would You Rather Be, Marie Douglas-David or Jorge Munoz?

Posted: 03/20/09 02:42 PM ET

Each of us has a story.

My father, who passed away in 1999, was a dirt poor Lebanese kid who taught himself English, worked his way over to America (doing odd jobs including shining shoes), and got into Columbia's PhD program. He married my mother, a Barnard student, then quit the science and engineering track in the 60s to return to Lebanon, where he eventually devoted his life to organic farming and became well known in the Mideast as an environmentalist.

My grandfather, who passed away a half-decade after my father, was a dirt poor Jewish kid in Brooklyn, who worked his way up from having no shoes to building a multi-million dollar company. His daughter, my mother, raised six kids in a war zone, a Jewish-American married to a Christian-Lebanese living in Muslim West Beirut, forced to conceal her identity for fear of being slaughtered like so many others around her.

I've been a farmer in Lebanon, a military conscript at 15, a broke student in New York working two jobs, a musician struggling to make ends meet. And I've also been fortunate enough to enjoy financial success in music and then politics.

I say all this by means of an oblique introduction to the topic I'm writing about: excessive wealth and inherent personal value. My family and I have lived both sides of the money divide. Like many people, we've had good times and bad. But one thing I've always believed is that the moment you are on sound financial footing, it is incumbent upon you to devote a good portion of your time and resources to helping others who don't share that privilege. I've tried to do my small part the past decade as a progressive activist.

I fully appreciate that others may not agree with my personal directive and short of harming others, we all have a basic right to do whatever we want with our brief journey on earth. That said, now that the financial crisis has opened the floodgate of questions about wealth disparity, it is no longer verboten to ask why a CEO or a baseball player makes tens of millions of dollars a year, while a nurse or firefighter or teacher makes less in a year than the maintenance fees on some Manhattan apartments.

Two recent stories perfectly encapsulate the question of wealth, greed, and human value. They require no comment, so I'll simply juxtapose them:

MARIE:

A 36-year-old Swedish countess divorcing a former CEO says she cannot live on $43 million. Marie Douglas-David, a former investment banker, says she has no income and needs her 67-year-old husband, George David, to pay her more than $53,000 a week - more than most U.S. households make in a year - to cover her expenses.

JORGE:

Every day, unemployed men gather under the elevated 7 train in Jackson Heights, Queens. Many of them are homeless. All of them are hungry. At around 9:30 each night, relief comes in the form of Jorge Munoz's white pickup truck, filled with hot food, coffee and hot chocolate.

MARIE:

Douglas-David has filed court papers showing she has more than $53,800 in weekly expenses, including for maintaining a Park Avenue apartment and three residences in Sweden. Her weekly expenses also include $700 for limousine service, $4,500 for clothes, $1,000 for hair and skin treatments, $1,500 for restaurants and entertainment, and $8,000 for travel.

JORGE:

I thank God for touching that man's heart," says Eduardo, one of the regulars. Watching Munoz, 44, distribute meals and offer extra cups of coffee, it's clear he's passionate about bringing food to hungry people. For more than four years, Munoz and his family have been feeding those in need seven nights a week, 365 days a year. To date, he estimates he's served more than 70,000 meals.

MARIE:

In court papers, Douglas-David said she quit her job as an investment banker for Lazard Asset Management to travel and entertain with David, who still earns $1 million a year from United Technologies. While chief executive in 2007, David made nearly $27 million in salary and bonuses. [emphasis added]

JORGE:

Munoz was born in Colombia and his father died in an accident when he was young... Munoz began his unorthodox meal program -- now his nonprofit, An Angel in Queens -- in the summer of 2004. Friends told him about large amounts of food being thrown away at their jobs. At first, he collected leftovers from local businesses and handed out brown bag lunches to underprivileged men three nights a week. Within a few months, Munoz and his mother were preparing 20 home-cooked meals daily.

MARIE:

She's asking to be awarded about $100 million in cash and stock, plus $130,000 a month in alimony.

JORGE:

Munoz estimates that food and gas cost approximately $400 to 450 a week; he and his family are funding the operation through their savings and his weekly $700 paycheck.

Who would you rather be?


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03:46 PM on 03/21/2009
I read about this woman and could not believe she was human. This is true ugliness at its ugliest.
great blog!
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kellygrrrl
01:53 PM on 03/21/2009
Marie will make a fine Pin-Up Poster Girl for the "BankerGate Era"
11:30 PM on 03/21/2009
She probably justifies the $4,500 on clothes a week, by pointing out that where she shops that is just one article of clothing. I'm sure also that the $8,000 travel amounts only to 1 trip home to Sweden (first class, of course) every so often, averaged out. Amazing.
01:04 PM on 03/21/2009
That occured to me the first time I read the Marie Douglas article. It seems like there could be much better uses for 50,000 dollars a week than your horses, clothes, beauty products... If one is blessed to be given SO much money, the very least she could do is use the bulk of it to make the world a better place...
11:17 AM on 03/21/2009
I welcomed departure from the stupid politics surrounding BonusGate
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Fernando
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09:39 AM on 03/21/2009
Very nice article, and we'd be wise to remember that the differences may not stop there: good Jorge sounds like he has ego issues himself "... Munoz began his unorthodox meal program -- now his nonprofit, An Angel in Queens." Wow, a self-proclaimed "angel", really? He is obviously doing something constructive while Marie seems like a spoiled, self-centered, out-of-touch brat, and that's what this article is about -- but we should also get passed the knee-jerk reaction of judging people just based on this criteria.
08:24 AM on 03/21/2009
My father raised six kids all the while working two jobs. He saved for a rainy day, saved for retirement, saved for our education and gave all he could to help others in need. He always said that our rewards in life were not connected to spending money for things we wanted, but instead whether or not we used a portion of our money to help those in need. Two things I remember him saying as clear as if he were standing in front of me today: "How can you have respect for yourself if you see someone in trouble and walk away?" "Good things come to those with a good heart." I miss my father so much and wish I could to talk with him today. Since I can't I live my life the best I can, in his honor, by helping and showing respect to those that have less than I do.
Where are the men (and women) of my father's fabric today? They are in Jorge Munoz..... a true American Hero, a really BIG man!
07:19 AM on 03/21/2009
Wow! This is a great article. Thank you for writing it.
07:09 AM on 03/21/2009
The motives of the socialists, as of all human beings are mixed. They will generally admit to unselfish motives and may genuinely believe in what they say because it is convenient and easy for their conscience. The selfish and other motives are glossed over. If confronted with the selfish motives or the envy they get most indignant. However, the most important factor motivating socialists (particularly affluent activists) is envy (and maybe hatred) of those who are more affluent and successful than they are. Socialists must be challenged about this factor. They rarely are.

Many modern socialists (to varying extents) are imbued with hatred and envy of excellence, achievement and wealth. The individual striving for excellence and achievement (and the consequent creation of wealth) in a relatively free society (now no longer as free as it was) has been the main reason for the progress and development of Western civilisation. The socialists place emphasis on equality (an unattainable ideal i.e. the war on poverty) and are unwilling to tolerate excellence and achievement leading to wealth. This envy has been primarily directed against the achievements and wealth of private entrepreneurs and members of the professions (excluding socialist members of the professions who may amass wealth). Wealth accumulated by other categories such as entertainers, sportsmen, skilled persons in technical fields (airline pilots) and certain tradesmen is not under attack in the same way.
08:56 AM on 03/21/2009
So when you say socialist, you are referring to the Swedish woman, right?
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Fernando
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10:06 AM on 03/21/2009
Except that:
A) The word "socialist" (the new trigger word from the right) is not even mentioned in this article so yours is a straw-man argument.
B) If you have a problem with socialism start with Bush, who not only expanded the size of government but was also the one who "let the market run free".
C) Replace the word "socialist" which refers to a form of government in which the government has a larger ownership and regulatory participation of industry with a word like "altruist".
D) What Jorge is doing, according to Adam Smith (the patron saint of free markets), is a result of capitalism. Smith said that once you empower individuals by the creation of wealth, they would engage in altruistic activities which the government would otherwise be called to resolve. Read.
E) I agree with one of your points, the original article on which this blog is based is rather manipulative, making "Marie" look like a Dickensian bad character. Jorge sounds like he has ego issues himself (calling himself "an angel"). Reality is never that simple but for the purposes of this blog, those marked differences illustrate a good point.
F) Envy and greed are not the sole property of "socialists". Envy and greed run amok got us into this financial mess which, guess who has to fix, so we don't fall into an even worse economic situation. Aggressive socialism is not the best answer but obviously, neither is free and unregulated markets.
06:50 AM on 03/21/2009
a fine story.

can't the gov't DO something about that

liberal/socialist solution: yes, make our benevolent gov't take 90% of all peoples property (real and intellectual), cash, retirement funds put it in a pot and SHARE it.

“You cannot strengthen the weak by weakening the strong. You cannot help the wage earner by pulling down the wage payer. You cannot help the poor by destroying the rich. You cannot help men permanently by doing for them what they could and should do for themselves.”
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henrywolff
10:30 PM on 03/20/2009
Hear, hear. Well said.
09:24 PM on 03/20/2009
I'm not suggesting that Marie is a good person, but surely Mr. David should be up for ridicule as well? After all, he is earning $1 million a year whilst not actually working for the company.
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Peter Daou
10:02 PM on 03/20/2009
Marie is just one egregious example but she is emblematic of many others who occupy a world disconnected from the lives of the overwhelming majority of people.

Not to say that extreme wealth is a bad thing in and of itself (witness the Gates Foundation), but that at a certain point, we have to question a world in which greedy, vastly overcompensated individuals spend tens of millions of dollars just to impress other wealthy individuals. Meanwhile countless others suffer hunger, poverty, violence, diseases they can't afford to treat, and on and on.

The pain this economic crisis has wrought is a terrible thing, but I for one welcome the new focus on outrageous disparities in income, and on the money, unimaginable to most, that some people spend trying to prove their intrinsic worth.
03:22 PM on 03/21/2009
If you are talking about tens of millions spent to impress friends, then you are referring to such a small slice of the population it's irrelevant.

This crises overwhelming shows us that trickle down economics is indeed very real. 20/20 did a story last night on a guy that was making $700K that is now delivering pizzas. Those that had hundreds of thousands in discretionary cash each year no longer have it. If they are lucky, they still have their job. But the folks that they employed are now jobless.

If you look at the income of the top 20% and bottom 20%, and if you adjust it for the number of hours worked and household size and social programs, you'll find the top 20% in this country make about $2.90 for each dollar the bottom 20% make. That is not outrageous when you consider the top 20% include those that spent 8 years getting a masters and PhD, and that the bottom 20% include those that dropped out of school in the 8th grade, have 6 kids, and smoke meth all day.

The top 20% make 45% of the income, but they do 39% of the labor in this country.
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09:09 PM on 03/20/2009
I would love to know how someone in the situation of Marie Douglas-David would answer this, changing the names perhaps or some of the situation. Narcissists, however, rarely can relate to anyone but themselves and if they're rich could be a real problem for them to understand the rest of the world, especially if it suddenly turns violent or the wealth vanishes.
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08:44 PM on 03/20/2009
Really nice article.
07:36 PM on 03/20/2009
Prediction, Marie Davis-Douglas doesn't get one penny more than the amount she is entitled to under her post-nuptial agreement, which is about $23M more than she deserves. She should be ashamed of herself for the outrageous numbers she is claiming as "necessary" living expenses. She should just get a one-way ticket back to Sweden and get a job.
06:31 PM on 03/20/2009
I'd like to be Marie Douglas-David, that way I could donate generously to Jorge Munoz.