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The Jewish American Gut-Check

Posted: 12/15/2011 2:43 pm

A fascinating thing has transpired in the 63-year-old relationship between the Israeli Jewish population and their brethren in the American diaspora. The latter have just realized that their days are numbered -- not as a result of the encroaching existential dangers of the sort that Israel faces day in and day out -- but rather as the result of a slow implosion borne on the back of apathy, cultural acceptance and assimilation.

Ironically, no nation has been as embracing and tolerant of the Jewish people as the United States. One need only to read President Washington's remarkable letter to the Hebrew Congregation at Newport: "May the children of the stock of Abraham who dwell in this land continue to merit and enjoy the good will of the other inhabitants -- while everyone shall sit in safety under his own vine and fig tree and there shall be none to make him afraid."

Sadly, the American Jewish community has used this unprecedented opportunity unwisely. Instead of educating our children in the beautiful system of ethics, logic, personal growth and spirituality that is the Torah, they sought mainly to fit in with the population at large. Rather than instruct them in the miraculous and heroic history of the ancient people to whom they belong, they provided anemic and mind-numbing Hebrew School experiences and focused on making sure that they had competitive SAT scores and college-worthy extra-curricular activities. The result has been a cascading abandonment of true Judaic thought and practice and a collective spiritual ignorance that is unprecedented in our 3,000+ year project in this world. As a whole, based on the standard demographic measurements of affiliation, the American Jewish community appears terminal, and the effects are manifesting themselves now. In the words of Reform Rabbi Lance J. Sussman from 2010, "With the exception of a number of Orthodox communities and a few other bright spots in or just off the mainstream of Jewish religious life, American Judaism is in precipitous decline ... the reform movement has probably contracted by a full third in the last ten years!"

When contrasted with the continuity performance of the Israeli Jewish community, it's hard not to be shocked at the gap. Despite their highly publicized problems, the Israeli Jewish world is thriving. Among other facts, the Jewish birth rate there is the highest in the industrial world at about three children per woman. The entire population is obviously fluent in Hebrew and even the public school students get 12 years of biblical study -- both of which deeply enhance their sense of connectedness to their "Jewishness." It is commonly believed that most Israelis are secular but the truth is that in practice most Israelis are a hybrid -- incorporating many elements of Judaic practice such as having a Passover Seder, building a sukkah or lighting Shabbat candles -- without taking on the entire discipline (Hat tip: David Goldman). They also marry Jews, unlike more than 50 percent of their American counterparts. As the products of inter-marriage are statistically unlikely to be raised with any lasting Jewish knowledge or commitment and given their low birth-rates, it is simply a matter of time until the bulk of the community in America destroys itself.

This is the reason for the surprisingly antagonistic responses by secular American Jews to the Israeli government's recent ads prodding their expatriates to come home. The Atlantic's Jeffrey Goldberg says that "I don't think I have ever seen a demonstration of Israeli contempt for American Jews as obvious as these ads." He also states that in his view intermarriage "can also be understood as an opportunity."

An opportunity for what? For inter-denominational understanding yes, but as a means of preserving the Jewish nation it fails utterly -- as it always has. It's the reason that the Reform and Conservative populations are now vanishing. Any student of Jewish history knows that there have periodically arisen great new Jewish movements that deviated from the mainstream, temporarily flourished and then collapsed and disappeared. It's the reason why the once great Karaite and Sadducee communities are irrelevant or non-existent, respectively. We are witnessing the latest iteration of that ancient cycle currently and it disturbs those who are standing on the wrong side of history. Israel is once again the epicenter of Jewish life and more and more we will see religiously committed leaders taking authority over Jewish matters -- both at home and in the diaspora. Even the once spiritually bereft IDF has begun contending with the need to accommodate the recent influx and promotion of religious soldiers in its ranks.

America has indeed been an important safe-haven for the remnants of the European destruction. We have flourished materially and been granted opportunities undreamt of by our ancestors. It has been good. But now the ground has shifted, and each Jew must make his or her choice -- to continue to allow themselves to be distanced from their Judaism and their connection to the land, or to explore and (hopefully) embrace them. Israel (and traditional observance), as was foretold by the Torah and the prophets thousands of years ago, is the future: "And He will return and gather you from among all of the nations where he has dispersed you. If your dispersed ones will be even at the ends of the heavens, from there God Almighty will gather you and from there He will take you. And God your Lord will bring you to the land that your fathers inherited and you shall inherit it and He will do good for you and make you more numerous than your forefathers." (Deuteronomy 30:1-5)

That this decline will occur seems a foregone conclusion, but it does not mean that we should casually resign ourselves to it. There is a Talmudic dictum that says that "all Jews are guarantors for one another." On a practical level this means that each one of us is responsible for the physical, emotional and spiritual well-being of all the others. I cannot sequester myself in my religious enclave and spiritually satisfy myself while the vast majority of my nation cannot read two letters of their own alphabet let alone navigate the finer points of our legal, ethical and philosophical texts. All Jews must take the time and the responsibility to reach out and -- at the very least offer to -- help educate their fellow Jew. Otherwise, soon enough we won't even know who to reach out to.

 

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06:55 PM on 02/12/2012
Dude, I guess you haven't been to Lakewood lately- no decline in population explosion of Observant families there. Here's a word for the day: exponential.
12:00 AM on 12/20/2011
Rabbi j if you do not consider your American heritage more important that your old religion.
You belong in Israel.
What you are fighting against is love decency and decent marriage across religious and racial lines.
I have news for you this is what our country is all about.
Every national ethnic and religious group is being demolished by intermarriage.
This is a wonderful thing. The greatest strength of our country. The last thing we need is go back to old world racism.
11:13 PM on 12/19/2011
Basically a highly prejudice rant against freedom to marry the one that you love.
06:36 AM on 12/19/2011
The thing I find disturbing about this is that I can help imagining the reactions if a "white" preacher made similar comments about marrying out. No I don´t think that the piece is at core racist, although it does seem to dismiss any tradition that isn´t the Jewish one a little too easily, but it sure is getting close to xenophobia. So American Jews think that getting on with their lives and having succefull accepted children is more important than tenuous ties to some Iron Age tri
10:51 PM on 12/18/2011
Amen.
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Allan Richter
06:37 PM on 12/18/2011
"With the exception of …Orthodox … American Judaism is in precipitous decline ...
(T)he Israeli Jewish world is thriving. … the Jewish birth rate is the highest in the industrial world…The entire population is …fluent in Hebrew, … public school students get 12 years of biblical study….(M)ost Israelis are (not) secular … in practice most Israelis (Incorporate) many elements of Judaic practice -- without taking on the entire discipline. … They also marry Jews….This is the reason for the surprisingly antagonistic responses by secular.” (Jacobs).

This is a candid article but politically incorrect among “secular Jews” and intermarried Jews. The decline of American Judaism became a major issue in the 1990’s with the publication of the “Jewish Population Study.” Jewish outreach and continuity became the buzzwords. Today large segments of of the "self identified" Jewish American population are not Jews by traditional standards that were universal not that many years ago. This does not mean they are not "good people" they are just not recognized by the traditional as Jews. Traditional Jews don't make an issue of it. However, intermarriage with many liberal Jews would require that the secular or liberal Jew "convert" or alternatively the traditional partner "marry out".

In the United States anyone can identify however they desire and call themselves what ever they please. There are no generally recognized standards in the United States.
06:52 PM on 12/19/2011
If as you say, "Traditional Jews don't make an issue of it..." why did the Rabbi feel the need to write this article, if not to make an issue of it. His article, your comments and the Israel ad campaign made an issue of it.
11:17 PM on 12/19/2011
If the rabbis piece of demagogy was accepted there would be no Jewish Einstein.
08:28 PM on 12/17/2011
whats the alternative? I'd be nihilist before i was blackhat
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mommadona
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04:38 PM on 12/17/2011
Hmmm ~ really. You're that insecure in the faith? Change is inevitable; growth, optional. I do not agree.
12:56 PM on 12/16/2011
Obviously it is a sad thing that American Jews are mixing what they see as the best ideas of Jewish cultural with the best ideas of non-Jewish culture while focusing on learning about the world. Obviously tribal identity is more important than learning from people outside of one's tribe.

Of course the days of those American Jews are no more numbered than are the days of the Israeli Jews. Their life expectancies are comparable. Nor, are the lives of their children or grandchildren, or great grandchildren, etc.

Like everybody else, American Jews make decisions about what is important to them. In the article above, Jacobs has little more than the appeal to tribal identity to suggest that the decisions by the American Jews are in any way bad ones.
05:09 PM on 12/18/2011
I like this response!
09:50 AM on 12/19/2011
Jacobs is addressing those Jews for whom the continued existence of the Jewish people is a goal. Apparently you are not part of that group. Gezunteheight.
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bklynsparrow
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12:09 PM on 12/19/2011
You mean addressing only those Jews who agree with him. Apparently you are part of that group. If he were only speaking to one faction, tell him not to put it on HP where everyone can read it. Send a nice brochure to his mailing list instead .
12:05 PM on 12/16/2011
In two generations there will no longer be any practicing non Orthodox Jews in America. That's a given. At best those people will claim some form of Jewish ancestry of 2 or 3 grandparents. Masorti/Conservative has even less time because it tries to split the difference between observance and non observance. Reform for its part is atheist or Unitarian or Buddhist as much as it's "Jewish".

Non of which worries me. One need only peruse this tab on HuffPo to see how "Judaism" is little more than politics, unassailable platitudes and recipes. If that means the whole thing collapsed in 20 years, good.
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Ohalos
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02:34 PM on 12/16/2011
Sadly, you seem to possess an exceedingly limited understanding of Judaism. John Adams didn't though:

I will insist that the Hebrews have done more to civilize men than any other nation. If I were an atheist, and believed in blind eternal fate, I should still believe that fate had ordained the Jews to be the most essential instrument for civilizing the nations. If I were an atheist of the other sect, who believe, or pretend to believe that all is ordered by chance, I should believe that chance had ordered the Jews to preserve and propagate to all mankind the doctrine of a supreme, intelligent, wise, almighty sovereign of the universe, which I believe to be the great essential principle of all morality, and consequently of all civilization.
03:36 PM on 12/16/2011
IF you were an atheist you would not believe or even contemplate any of things you just mentioned.
10:24 AM on 12/18/2011
Yeah, he was wrong. Greece, which had a massive effect on the development of rabbinical Judaism (gods that's gotta sting) and Rome were the prime models of modern western civilization, even Christianity was as much a Roman religion as it was a Near Eastern one, just look at the saints. And Egypt and Persia had a greater effect on the development of these cultures than some backwater in the Levant.
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bklynsparrow
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11:58 AM on 12/19/2011
Who's your hero, empress. No, no- let me guess. Does his first name begin with "A'?
12:20 PM on 12/19/2011
Archibald MacLeish?
07:02 AM on 12/16/2011
Get with the changes rabbi . . . I would hate to get you upset but I have two cousins via marriage one male, one female who are Jewish . . . Jewish atheists . . . . then we have 19th century Irish, 19th century Italians, 17th-18th century English and 19th century Germans in our family . . . that is what America is a melting pot . . . israel is not America and never will be . . . the should be complete separation of church and state . . that is what democracy is about . . .
07:18 AM on 12/16/2011
just wanted to add we also have Protestants, Catholics and Buddhists .in our family . . . this is America with all its rich diversity . . .
01:21 PM on 12/19/2011
Macready. All that is sooo interesting, and it is an illustration of exactly what R. Jacobs states. Keeping an uniquely Jewish Identity is difficult, if not impossible in the U.S. or anywhere else outside of Israel. The melting pot creates Americans. It does not preserve Israelis, nor Jews, as a nation. Muslim are also experiencing how difficult it is to preserve and maintain their ID as Muslim, and they are a religious community only, not a nation, or a people. There is separation of Church and State. There is no separation of nation and nation possible in the U.S. Jews are not a group of religious people who have joined a Church. Similar difficulties are encountered by groups such as Beduin and Roma. They are not a religion. They are nomadic nations, and maintaining their Identity has become difficult; they can not function as nations within nations.With intermarriage, even if the woman is jewish and determined to live a jewish life and raise the children jewish, she will run at odds with the extended family. She will be given a X-mas tree and decorations, will be expected to appear at X-mas family festivities, and her own Identity and that of her child will be discounted. It means that she will be erased, as well as her child, and is swallowed up in a culture which is not her culture. You are confusing religion, with Identity, peoplehood, cultural heritage, language.
01:35 PM on 12/19/2011
I know a very young woman. Her mother is a friend of my children. She is jewish, and so is her family, but her mother kept X-mas. Nothing so religious. The X-mas tree had only bears hanging off the branches. She has married, and is now pregnant. Her husband is in the military, and this year is the first holiday together as a family. They are still setting up a household. She got a ...X-mas tree, and that was nice of the people who gave it to her, but she wants to celebrate the Jewish Holidays, and raise her yet unborn child, jewish. Her husband fully agrees with it. But..his family is not jewish. What happens, de facto, is that she is encapsulated within the Christian Culture and Religion. There is NOTHING wrong with the Chrisitan culture and religion. It is just not HER religion and culture. Yet, she is an American, was born and raised here, and she even married *out*. She would rather not be melted, or a pot. The point R. Jacobs makes is exactly, that being a jew in the U.S. is for all practical purposes impossible, unless one is ensconced in a strictly orthodox environment. In Israel it is not necessary to be part of the orthodox community, because Israel is jewish, the people are jewish, it is natural to be, and to live, jewish.
09:46 AM on 12/16/2011
you are mixing up democracy, atheism and intermarriage with the issue of this article -- The preservation of the Jewish people. Jews remaining jews is fully consistent with democracy, morality, el. al. Your suggestion that it isn't is ridiculous and antagonistic. Also, why take a shot at Israel. we're talking about thwe american jewish Community. I'm sorry to say but this comment of yours betrays an animosity to unassimiated judaism and to the preservation of the jewish community as a distinct community. It is fortunate that most people don't feel thje same way you do.
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Nwo2012
Sue me, I boycott products from the settlements
03:02 PM on 12/18/2011
Oh please.
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french queen13
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02:45 AM on 12/16/2011
What strikes me is how often one hears an Israeli firebrand, usually a settler, on the news and he has an American accent ...
06:54 PM on 12/16/2011
I have heard from Israelis who have made the same observation about these radical settlers.
10:55 PM on 12/18/2011
"a settler"?
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09:10 PM on 12/15/2011
Rabbi you have a very hard sell. Most people wish for the best for both the Palestinians and the Israelis, but the ongoing occupation of Palestine and the siege of Gaza make it hard for some of us to be supportive of Israel government and its actions. The actions of the hard core settlers is also appalling. In short Israel and the settler movement are staining Judaism and covering the Star of David in the blood of innocents. I think that is having a souring effect on many American Jews towards Judaism.
06:34 AM on 12/16/2011
ditto lb . . and the rabbi is ignoring that what is happening to American Jews has happened to all ethnic groups that have come to America . . . . assimilation . . . and that is a good thing . . .
12:04 AM on 12/19/2011
Muslim who come to America do NOT assimilate, and they actively proselytize. Like the Christians they have whole networks to accomodate newcomers to their faiths. Christians actively pursue others, as I have personally experienced. They think nothing of forcible baptism. Mormons have even gone further than that, and *baptized* Jews after death!

What the Jewish community needs is active and more organized outreach. It is unavailable in many areas. Couples need to make a choice, and should not become stuck between two religions. Judaism takes lifelong study and is a way of life. It is almost impossible to stay away from Christian Celebrations. There is no objection against Christian celebrations, but it is not for the Jew. For that reason, it is good to have a homeland, where one can belong, and be part of the whole society.

If we read, and we hear, we already see and hear the complaints from Muslim, about encroachment of Christianity on their faith and community. It is not surprising, that neither ibsalzman, nor Macready, are unable to see the similarities between Muslim, and Jews with respect to having a difficult time maintaining their identity in a Christian nation. Neither can ibsalzman see what Islamic terrorism does to soil the faith of Islam and its public face.
12:17 AM on 12/19/2011
One does not need to assimilate to respect, and learn about, others' faith. I have participated in prayermeetings of other faiths and study groups. We came together with an open mind to learn from and about each other, discuss each others' scripture, and how we read and interpret it. I see nothing wrong in joining a prayermeeting where people pray for healing of a sick or dying person, for example. I do not mention, however, the name of another Deity when doing so. And, it is not something I do regularly.

What the previous two posters do, is so antithetical to judaism, that I can not believe that either one of them speaks from a jewish point of view. It is not that they disagree with Israeli policy. It is outright slander. And, as a response to this article, it is totally out of place to boot. It is not about Palestinians and Israelis. It is about community, jewishness, the future of the Jewish Faith being best served in Israel.

When I participated in discussions with Christians, they had genuine questions, which I could, by the way, not all answer either, such as Why the RED Heifer? On other occasions, reading what Jesus had said in the red letter edition, I saw nothing that distinguished him from any other Jew. He did not abolish Judaism, or The Law (Torah) for example. He was a Jew according to Jewish Law and tradition. We discussed that without repercussions from Christians.
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Ohalos
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10:15 AM on 12/16/2011
The land that the Palestinians live on was most recently called Transjordan. Before that it was part of the Ottoman Empire. It was never at any point in history their land. It was, however, called Judea - because Jews lived there for 1000 years and never relinquished ownership of it. So in what way is it occupied? If there is a "siege" of Gaza (which is flourishing materially btw) it's because they routinely fire missiles into Israeli civilian populations. What would you do?
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lbsaltzman
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03:31 PM on 12/16/2011
What the land was called is irrelevant. The fact that the Palestinian people were occupied in the past is irrelevant and does not negate their rights to their indigenous homeland.

If Israel wants the missiles stopped, then stop the occupation and siege and leave the Palestinians in peace to have a country on what is left of their historic homeland.
03:49 PM on 12/16/2011
The first clear use of the term Palestine to refer to the region synonymous with that defined in modern times was in 5th century BC Ancient Greece. Herodotus wrote of a 'district of Syria, called Palaistinê" in The Histories, the first historical work clearly defining the region, which included the Judean mountains and the Jordan Rift Valley.

The term was first used to denote an official province in c.135 CE, when the Roman authorities, following the suppression of the Bar Kokhba Revolt, combined Iudaea Province with Galilee and other surrounding cities such as Ashkelon to form "Syria Palaestina"

The Hebrew name Peleshet usually translated as Philistia in English, is used in the Bible more than 250 times. In the Torah / Pentateuch the term is used 10 times and its boundaries are undefined. The later Historical books include most of the biblical references, almost 200 of which are in the Book of Judges and the Books of Samuel, where the term is used to denote the southern coastal region to the west of the ancient Kingdom of Judah.