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Looking for God in All the Wrong Places

Posted: 06/22/09 03:44 PM ET

A man recently came into my office for a job interview. As we were talking, I noticed that he was distracted by one of the framed items hanging near my desk, so I turned to see what he was looking at.

"Is that a Rabbinic Certificate?" he asked. "Are you a Rabbi?"

"Yup, but only after hours," I answered.

"Can I ask you a question?" he said. "I hope that you won't be offended, but...do you actually believe in God? I mean really believe?"

Now, that's an unexpected turn, I thought.

"Actually, yes, I do," I answered. "But we need to define what we mean by the word 'God,' though."

"Really?" he replied. "Well, I suppose, as a Rabbi, you have to. But frankly, for me, belief in God is irrational. I can't believe that there is some kind of being that watches us and cares about us. It doesn't make sense. Not in this world, the way it is, with the terrible things that happen. Besides, science has proven that most of the stories in the Bible are myths. And look at all the damage that religion has caused. Faith and reason are opposites, and I am not about to abandon my reason."

I've come to learn that many people, like this man, have difficulty encountering God in a way that is consistent with the realities of their lives, the workings of their minds, and the revelations of science. Most of us have wrestled with such impediments, which can seem to be insurmountable walls, separating those who "believe" from those who question, with no apparent reconciliation possible.

Surprisingly, a story in the Bible presents impediments to understanding God, and also responds with answers that the man who came in to my office would probably find unexpected. This story is well known -- even to those who have never read the Bible. One day, the shepherd Moses wanders on to a mountain, where his life suddenly changes. The text tells us:

An angel of God appeared to him [Moses] in a blaze of fire from amid the bush. He saw, and behold, the bush was burning in the fire but the bush was not consumed. Moses thought, "I will turn now and look at this great sight -- why will the bush not be burned?" God saw that he turned aside to see, and called out to him from amid the bush and said "Moses, Moses," and he replied, "Here I am."

Embedded in these four sentences, which describe Moses' epiphany -- his awakening to the Divine presence -- are several typical impediments to experiencing God, along with associated avenues for resolutions. Below, I present these impediments as first-person statements, similar to those voiced by the man who came in to my office:

Impediment 1: I see no proof of God's existence. I'll believe when I see an obvious demonstration:
The Bible is filled with spectacular miracles, which may lead us to look for God in such spectacles. The revelation to Moses, though, comes through a little, unassuming bush that has caught fire. This little bush teaches us that God can be found when we pay attention to the everyday miracle that surround us -- the things we all too routinely take for granted: a beautiful tree, the workings of our bodies, the wonder of our minds, the gift of our children, friends and our jobs, and the life force -- "burning" but unconsumed -- coursing through the veins of a little bush. When we consciously place our awareness on these everyday miracles, the presence of the Divine is revealed.

Impediment 2: I can't prove God's existence rationally, which is the only way to knowledge:
If we can't logically prove God's existence, then isn't God just a wishful delusion, a manipulative construct of control-based religion, or a pre-rational fantasy? Moses, however, had a direct experience of the Divine presence, calling him to his life's purpose. Intellect can provide a valuable categorical framework, but, as Moses discovered, God, like love, is experienced, not conceptualized.

Impediment 3: A relationship with God will make me arrogant and/or sheepish:
To some, it may seem that those who believe in God are giving up their individuality and intellect by buying in to a packaged, unquestionable, unprovable doctrine, leading to the paradoxical combination of arrogant certainty that one has exclusive ownership of Truth, along with the abdication of personal questioning. Not a very appealing picture. Moses' response, "I am here," though, is not a surrender of individuality, nor acceptance of a religious creed, but rather a declaration of full readiness to listen, a commitment to serve, and a desire to receive guidance and wisdom. This is the true posture of a relationship with the Divine.

Impediment 4: "Spiritual experiences" are just feel-good self-indulgence:
One of the unfortunate aspects of much modern spirituality is that it can often turn toward self-involvement, based on the belief that the primary goal of such spiritual practices is to receive Divine personal reward; to be given special "powers," to be protected by life's suffering, and to have a level of clarity that raises one above others. Moses's encounter teaches us that a deep spiritual path makes us more sensitive to the needs and feelings of others, less enthralled by the tug of our egos, and propels us to socially beneficial action. Moses is called because he needs to perform a task that will eventually lead to the transformation of the world.

I wonder if these explanations would have made any impact on the man who came in to my office. Maybe not...God is not found in explanations. Maybe, though, these points would have given some direction to his search, or at least have helped him to see that the "battle" between faith and reason is built on a false foundation, and that there are ways of understanding God and religion that can dissolve his impediments, open him to new possibilities, enrich his life, and help him to find purpose as he searches for work in these difficult times.

 
 
 
A man recently came into my office for a job interview. As we were talking, I noticed that he was distracted by one of the framed items hanging near my desk, so I turned to see what he was looking at...
A man recently came into my office for a job interview. As we were talking, I noticed that he was distracted by one of the framed items hanging near my desk, so I turned to see what he was looking at...
 
 
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08:10 PM on 07/20/2009
Besides, science has proven that most of the stories in the Bible are myths.

you are wrong science have proven the opposite science has proven most of the stories in the bible
remember your opinion is just that an opinion. science backs me, prove me wrong. this is for the writer.
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01:56 PM on 07/09/2009
Nothing new here; the same old arguments made by believers.

Me: There is no God.
Religious Guy (or Girl): Of course there is.
Me: Show me proof.
Religious Guy (or Girl): See that tree over there?
Me: Yes.
Religious Guy (or Girl): There you go, God.
Me: No. Tree.

I can vividly remember being about 5 or 6 and having my parents explain to me the whole God business. Even at that young age, I thought it was ridiculous.

THERE IS NO GOD. Trees however, are in abundance.
06:02 PM on 07/09/2009
Well, there you have it. You summed it all up. Thanks for showing up and showing how simple it all is. We are forever in your debt.
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Alan Lurie
05:44 PM on 07/13/2009
I encourage you to recognize that you are currently holding on to a position that you established at the age of 5 or 6!
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JohnFromCensornati
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11:16 AM on 07/09/2009
Has the Bush Depression killed the Gospel of Prosperity? Of course not. Why let a little inconvenience like home foreclosure cloud your thinking?

http://www.slate.com/id/2222495/
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HeevenSteven
20 Minutes into the future.
10:16 PM on 07/09/2009
This was interesting. Osteen always gave me the creeps. He'll surely keep fleecing the flock no matter how bad things get for the sheep.
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JohnFromCensornati
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06:37 AM on 07/10/2009
I think I've been following Lurie's blogs more closely than the rest of you all. At the end of his blog called "Bad Banker", he quoted Joel (not negatively). This struck me as odd coming from the Pure Consciousness guy. We can apparently learn spiritual truth from con men like Osteen.
03:29 AM on 07/08/2009
I just wanted to say again how much I enjoyed your piece, Alan, and to apologize for helping this thread veer so far off topic. My actual intention was to get things BACK on topic, given that religion threads always end up chock full of Dawkins and Harris cliches. Minimalist Syntax does a terrific job of answering the neo-atheists but I have no expertise in religion or philosophy--in fact, I'm a musician and amateur music scholar. All I know to do is point out that faith claims are untestable in the scientific sense and that many neo-atheist claims--such as religion literally being a virus--ARE testable claims. Yet, we have a reverse reality here in which untestable claims must be proven against Darwin, but claims regarding the destructive power of religion are presumed to be true because they come from people who have pledged themselves to logic and reason.

Anyway, once I get typing, I can't stop. Intervention may be needed.
03:16 PM on 07/08/2009
Tell us about your views of God in terms of music. That would be very interesting I think.
05:48 PM on 07/09/2009
I'll think about that. Hm....
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Alan Lurie
09:11 PM on 07/08/2009
Thanks Zanti,
It's been a fun conversation, fulled of passion!
To those who took the time to contribute, I wish all of you well.
Alan
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02:53 AM on 07/08/2009
There's a public access show out of Austin called "The Atheist Experience" that is one of my favorite free-thought pod casts. You can go to iTunes and download episodes, or subscribe for free.

Today while I was listening to the latest episode, I kept being reminded of some of the things discussed on this thread in the last few days. Especially about experiential evidence.

I wish some of you guys would listen to this episode (# 612), and let me know what you think.

If you don't have iTunes, you can listen here: http://huffduffer.com/norelpref/6357
The first 8 1/2 minutes are BS announcements so you can just skip forward.

I really would like some opinions on this episode.
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HeevenSteven
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08:59 PM on 07/08/2009
I listened to most of this. it was a good discussion. the hosts seem to know their philosophy of science. If you haven't read Carl Sagan's "The Demon Haunted World", You need to get it; it was written for you.
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12:17 AM on 07/09/2009
The reason I brought this particular episode of the AE up, is because minsyn and I had been discussing 'personal experience' (of god), and that episode said things I couldn't say here, with limited space.
I don't know if she listened or not, but if she did, I'd be interested in hearing her thoughts.

It's a great show. Usually there are more theists calling in, though. You should listen to some more of them, I think you'd like it.

BTW, I can't believe Carl Sagan wrote a book ... just for me ... wow, I'm honored!
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12:53 AM on 07/09/2009
Matt, the regular host, definitely knows his stuff. Sometimes he gets exasperated and the fireworks fly a little. I like It! But this is the program where they want theists to call in, it's on public access TV in Austin, an kind-of a talk to the atheist show. But they also do a show really more targeted for atheists called "The Non-Prophets" (also iTunes or their web site). It's got a different feel to it, internet/podcast only, and more irreverent. You might like it also.

Carl Sagan ... That book really put me on the path to rationality 10 years ago. I'd always been a skeptic, and thought the book would be a fun read. In a very subtle way, it really did lead me to a new path of inquiry. I think it should be a must read for everyone.
10:52 PM on 07/07/2009
Without getting into deep philosophical arguments I just make two observations;

First, to the list of the "impediments" above, and the cute but unconvncing logical retorts, one can add dozens of other impediments, to which in-kind retorts can be made - I am sure of it.

Second, belief in a god in any of the flavors (Judeo-Christian, Moslem, etc) and all its attendant trappings, exists and is today prevalent to the extent that it is, is due to the generational brain-washing and forced indoctrination, if not within the family setting, in the societal and institutional drumbeat of tradition for its own sake.

Marvelling at the beauty and infinite extent of the universe is akin to taking a slow journey through an infinite version of the Hermitage or the Louvre or the British Museum - without obsessing which one person arranged all the pieces or why in such a manner.
09:49 PM on 07/07/2009
Apparently, I stepped out of my station below (no, I don't have a station below, per se) when I made fun of evolution being offered as the explanation for everything (Explanation for Everything).

What I meant, very simply, is that no theory, no matter how sweeping and logical and beautifully researched, can act as the source for all answers. I see this being done with evolution. In fact, it's the nature of religion threads at Huff-Po that any discussion of the actual topic (God, and/or faith) has to answer to discussions of Darwin, of the shape and size of the universe, of the nature of time, of the probability that a dime dropped from the fourth planet of another star would hit the same car as on Earth, and so on. In other words, discussions about religion defer mightily to science, philosophy, cognitive "science," Darwin, and so forth, even though no one, to date, has explained to me why religion is beholden to these topics. I mean, we don't hold the validity of Einstein's observations to the Bible--I don't, anyway.

But the reverse courtesy? Out of the question, apparently.
10:13 PM on 07/07/2009
And please--no lecture on the differences between religion and science, which are very obvious, anyway. My question amounts to why one subject should be discussed in terms of another. It's not a relative-merits thing.
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10:14 PM on 07/07/2009
"no one, to date, has explained to me why religion is beholden to these topics"

We didn't start the fire!

The Greeks rationalists did their share, and the RCC picked up there and spent the next 2000 years trying to reconcile faith and reason. A Sisyphean task if ever there was one, eh?
12:40 AM on 07/08/2009
It's interesting that you use a polytheistic's toolbox for the final analogy.

I wonder whether Sysiphus could be so bold as to, one day, after performing his thankless task for a few eons, realize the inherent insanity of his expectations, and say; "to hell with it", and let the burden roll down the hill.

How exhilarating - yet scary - and liberating when our inner Sysiphi (?) are allowed to do so.



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01:13 AM on 07/08/2009
What do you think I meant by "beholden to"? Just curious.
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06:29 PM on 07/07/2009
JFC said: Yeah, I know it. There's nothing crazy about talking snakes or burning bushes that talk.
Min Sin Tax said: Only for people who take them literally.

Does this apply to the Xenu Thetan story as well? Have I taken it too literally?
06:34 PM on 07/07/2009
I think they intend their cosmology to be taken literally, as I understand it.
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JohnFromCensornati
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07:57 PM on 07/07/2009
So, just like the other people Maher was mocking?
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04:55 PM on 07/07/2009
New "reality" show!
Penitents Compete: Turkish Game Show's Religious Contestants Compete To Convert Atheists

http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2009/07/06/ipenitents-competei-turki_n_226146.html

Robertson & Dobson are already working on an American version: Religious Contestants Compete to Convert Atheists into BBQed Atheists.
05:49 PM on 07/07/2009
I am definitely rooting for the Greek Orthodox priest! I actually hope that no priest would agree to participate in something so ridiculous. And why would they offer the Vatican as a destination for the Christian winners? If they are Orthodox, they do not accept the authority of the Pope?
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HeevenSteven
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07:38 PM on 07/07/2009
Now we know something about the pope. He's NOT the boss of you.
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JohnFromCensornati
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10:00 PM on 07/07/2009
Well, they can just go and see the ruins instead. It's a free vacation in Italy.
Do you think the winner will believe in the Big Brother in the Sky version of god or one of these newer, squishier models?
04:15 PM on 07/07/2009
Just a clarification about apophatic theology that I think got buried a bit, so I am moving it up here:

God is not completely unknowable according to apophatic theology. The nature of God is unknowable, but His essences (which is the theological expression of what in western Christian theology would be called His love) are knowable through direct experience. Therefore, God is not a thing to be grasped intellectually. John of Damascus said that cataphatic statements reveal "not the nature, but the things around the nature [of God]." Therefore, Eastern Christian mystics pursue(d) God by silence and ceasing to observe themselves/their minds- by silencing all thoughts. This is a type of contemplative prayer.
05:03 PM on 07/07/2009
I meant His *energies, not his *essences
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02:08 PM on 07/07/2009
- response to minsyn - moved up for space -

Part 1

-- "It surprises me that an actual personal experience of God would not change the mind of an atheist in your opinion. Why wouldn't it? If you are a materialist, would you reject your experience as misleading information about the objective reality?" --

First of all, I've never referred to myself as a materialist.
And, yes, a 'personal experience' would not change the mind of an atheist in my opinion, IF the atheist arrived at his position through extensive critical thinking.
There are some who call themselves atheists, who just never adopted a theistic belief, and never gave much thought to their position.
There are also some who simply reject religion and call themselves atheist or agnostic.
There are also those who are swayed by someone else's arguments, that they may not even fully understand.
And there are those who are variations or combinations of all of these.
These are atheists who COULD be swayed by a perceived 'personal experience'.
03:23 PM on 07/07/2009
That category I do think is distinct: "an atheist who arrived at his/her position through extensive critical thinking." That is the category I had in mind when I said: "ideological atheist" in another thread. Does it have a name, because it would be useful to clarify that it is that type of position we have in mind sometimes.
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10:17 AM on 07/08/2009
I don't think the term "ideological atheist" really works. Especially since atheist have no ideology. The only thing all atheists share is a lack of belief in any gods.

I've heard some atheists referred to as 'weak' atheists and 'strong' atheists. But when I've heard those descriptions used, it's been differentiating between those who have no belief in gods, and those who believe there are no gods, not how they arrived at their position.

Maybe 'passive atheist' and 'reasoned atheist'?

Argggh, too many labels!
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02:07 PM on 07/07/2009
- response to minsyn - moved up for space -

Part 2

When people of faith refer to a 'personal experience' with a god, it is always described in some abstract way. It is usually described in terms of feelings or emotions.

When I've asked people who claim their god speaks to them, exactly what they mean, the answers are always one of the following, or variations of:
*they describe a thought that came into their head while praying, or considering a problem or question, and attribute it to a god
*they describe an incredible feeling or intuition that they follow, and if it turns out well, they attribute it to their god
*they interpret something another person says, or something they read as 'God was speaking to me through ...'
*they describe having a perceived 'void', then having it filled by a perceived 'feeling of God, or love, or peace' (they 'felt' empty, then they 'felt' filled)
*the describe a coincidence that they see as so unusual that 'it must have been God that made it happen'

These 'personal experiences' are far from sufficient evidence to change the views of a reasonable atheist. If you can give me a more persuasive (and verifiable) description of a 'personal experience of God', I would be happy to consider it.
03:53 PM on 07/07/2009
Those are interesting examples. I could add some ideas about this from the Eastern Christian tradition. In Eastern Christian mystical tradition, thoughts that come to you during prayer or other contemplation should be consciously ignored, or simply observed (but not engaged with) as "so many monkeys swinging in trees" or as something that simply passes by. Otherwise you could be deluding yourself. There is the idea that some people have "spiritual discernment" as a charism/spiritual gift. But this is only acquired after extensive spiritual discipline and practice and only rarely and I am not sure that it is a feeling of intuition about things or not.

The further examples except for the "coincidences" seem more familiar to me from my own tradition. Reading Holy Scriptures is meant to be a dialogue with Christ (although it is possible to read it also in a manner of pure intellectual inquiry). So there are many accounts even going back into Biblical times of people hearing words from another person considered sacred or reading words considered sacred and feeling they were directed at them, and they did do things like sell all they had and give the proceeds to the poor.
03:53 PM on 07/07/2009
I don't think there are verifiable experiences of God. Because they are subjective experiences. But I do think people report having a feeling that their experience is genuine/real. That makes sense because from the cog sci literature we know that people can have the experience of the people surrounding them to be "imposters" -- so the opposite of genuine/real. There are places in the brain that are loci of these experiences. I don't think that fact makes it more or less likely to be experiences of God. They can feel they are in the presence of genuine worship of the true God. They can feel that they are in the presence of overwhelming majesty, which dwarfs them and makes them "know" exactly what the attribute "majestic" truly means. They can feel they are in the presence of Love and "realize" that what they thought love meant is far too shallow and that love has an infinity of depth that they have never imagined. These are not experiences of emotion. They are experiences of something as genuine/real.
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08:13 PM on 07/07/2009
What kind of personal experience have you had with your god, that is so inexplicable it has convinced you of a god?

And, how did you , personally, determine that your personal experience was genuine/real?
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08:05 AM on 07/07/2009
Alan, I just read your two "The Begining of everything" posts. (sorry it took me so long to think of doing that, duh).

I understand better where your coming from; I've read a bit of Tarnas, and others who like this view. I see consciouness as an emergent property, like all complexity, as proposing that it preexisted our being seems like a homunculus fallacy to me.

I'm still a bit ignorant about this view though, but will try to catch up. Thanks for all your responses.
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03:47 PM on 07/07/2009
As far as Occam's razor, it's a bigger leap to assume that consciousness simply "emerged" from matter. (kinda' like how folks used to think that live maggots "emerged" from dead rotting meat)
Physicality and consciousness (not "thought) are categorically different. This has been the dilemma of all mystics throughout time
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HeevenSteven
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04:08 PM on 07/07/2009
I can't say anymore until we agree on a definition for consciousness; I somehow think we're not on the same page there.
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05:09 PM on 07/07/2009
Emergent properties of systems consisting of simple parts are well known. No violation of parsimony is necessary.

Consciousness is necessarily complex in my lexicon. That's why I asked how you see it. It seems that for many, consciousness is simply a substitute for the ol' ghost in the machine.
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JohnFromCensornati
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07:57 AM on 07/07/2009
Which god has the best ad campaign?

http://www.slate.com/id/2222255/
02:10 PM on 07/07/2009
That scientology ad is a bit ominous, no?
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02:25 PM on 07/07/2009
I would say total BS ... but ominous, no.

I wonder if it was intentional, for some reason, that the light beam (when the scientology logo first appears) makes the T look like a cross?
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HeevenSteven
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02:24 PM on 07/07/2009
Wow! I wanna be a Scientologist! Sometimes I feel like a Thetan....
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03:08 PM on 07/07/2009
"That's the plight of the newer religions like Mormonism and Scientology. When you're the new kid on the block, all of the good crazy has already been picked over. I'll see you a burning bush and a talking snake and I'll raise you magic underwear and extra-terrestrial infestation!" - Bill Maher
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10:13 PM on 07/06/2009
Check out Frank Schaeffer's latest.

http://www.huffingtonpost.com/frank-schaeffer/embeliever-beware-emgets_b_226071.html