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Beyond Transcendental: Realizing Your Innate G-d Connection

Posted: 05/15/11 10:14 AM ET

It's not easy to worship a distant G-d. Often He feels so heavenly, so uncommunicative, so incompatible with mortals.

You might have never realized it, but when we reach out to G-d we always do it in one of two ways, what I call the "meaningful" and the "transcendental."

A meaningful religious experience is one that resonates with you as an individual. It could be words of Psalms that reduce you to tears, the shrill of a shofar blast that stirs an awakening inside you or a moment of ecstasy as you walk your child to the Chuppah. Meaningful moments are always inspired by some sort of understanding or general appreciation of what you are doing. The words of Psalms were apt to your life, or very beautiful poetically. The cry of the Shofar was chilling in its purity. And the marriage of your child was the culmination of countless hours of education and exhaustion, completing another cycle of Jewish transmission from generation to generation.

The problem with meaningful experiences is that they are extremely human. There's nothing wrong with that, but it leaves in the back of your mind a gnawing feeling of distance from G-d. As much as the Bible is filled with anthropomorphic metaphor, we are all acutely aware that G-d is very un-human. He created the world and He is also infallible, two things that none of us really relate to on personal terms. So however meaningful a religious experience might be, we remain acutely conscious of how far we remain from G-d.

That's why we all have an urge, from time to time, to transcend our mortal trappings and escape the constraints that stand like an iron wall between ourselves and our heavenly Father. That could mean meditating until you lose awareness of your surroundings, or doing a mitzvah with the awareness that its given reason does not define it, because it is the will of G-d. Transcendence can also be a philosophical experience, the realization that the mind cannot grasp G-d in any way and that any human activity is inadequate to contain the Divine.

These two paths -- of seeking G-d with the mind/heart or despite the mind/heart -- frustrate us as much as they satisfy us, because we always seem to be flipping from one to the other. Neither seems to work fully. As we narrow the chasm with acts of worship, we come to realize that it is a gap that can never be bridged. Narrowing it only makes it wider.

But there is a third way: Stop trying to connect; you are already connected. This notion of an infinite chasm between you and G-d is simply not true. It is not a vertical relationship of G-d up there in heaven and you down here on earth, but a horizontal one, because your own soul is G-dly. It is the same substance as the Divine.

Instead of looking to bridge a gap that isn't there, come to the realization that your very being is sacred. Meaningful and transcendental experiences are aimed at connecting the non-Divine with the Divine, but as soon as you recognize that you actually contain the Divine, you will see your connection to G-d as existential: your very being binds you to God. The simple fact of your presence testifies to His existence.

If that's the case why do we need to worship God? Can't we just be, and that's enough?

Remember this: Your being only provides your connection with God, it does not manifest that connection. And that's a problem because it imposes a limitation on your relationship, and, in a certain sense, projects a limitation on G-d. If your relationship only "existed" and it never "manifested" then it would send the message that things have to be that way. It would be as if G-d cannot connect with us openly and manifestly; it all has to be subliminal and existential -- which, of course, is not true. So while the greatest connection that you can have with G-d is through your being, it helps when that essential connection begins to manifest through overt, conscious connection -- and that's where meaning and transcendence come in. They are not a substitute for your existential connection; they are the manifestation of it. And, of course, a manifestation is always something of a failure; it never fully brings to light what lurks under the surface, which is why you get frustrated.

But when you realize that the shortcomings of your religious experience do not really cripple you -- they do not compromise your existential connection with G-d in any way, they are just an inherent limitation in the power of manifestation -- you might just want to dance for joy. Your connection is always absolute, and all your attempts to manifest are really the icing on the cake. Quite important icing, mind you. It's the reason why you're here in this life, to ice your cake. But you can't fail. You can only make a delicious cake even sweeter.

This column originally appeared on Chabad.org and is based on a discourse from the Lubavitcher Rebbe on his birthday in 1978.

 
It's not easy to worship a distant G-d. Often He feels so heavenly, so uncommunicative, so incompatible with mortals. You might have never realized it, but when we reach out to G-d we always do it in...
It's not easy to worship a distant G-d. Often He feels so heavenly, so uncommunicative, so incompatible with mortals. You might have never realized it, but when we reach out to G-d we always do it in...
 
 
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Allan Richter
08:00 PM on 05/18/2011
“This notion of an infinite chasm between you and G-d is simply not true. It is not a vertical relationship of G-d up there in heaven and you down here on earth, but a horizontal one, because your own soul is G-dly. It is the same substance as the Divine.†(Rabbi Chaim Miller)

This is a concept from Kaballah. Israel’s Kaballah (mystical tradition) is divided into three parts: theosophy, meditation and practical. Once you learn the basic metaphor Kaballah is addictive. It acts like a switching station between eastern mysticism, the Biblical tradition and philosophy.

Try it, you'll like it!
08:26 PM on 05/19/2011
"Always be mindful of these two aspects: Zer Anpin (Small Face) and Attika Kadisha (Holy Ancient One). They are held in abeyance by a thread."

Reb Harmona paced his study pondering this sentence muttering to himself, "what is this (p'til) thread?" And as he paced back and forth he pondered its meaning, "why do these two divine names require a thread? Are they not sufficient and complete and whole. Why would they be lacking in any way and require this p'til this thread?"

A wind arose from the open window and blew the pages of the tome. Reb Harmona awoke from his trance and stared at the open page. "The shemaya (heavens) comprise the attributes of fire and water. One extinguishes the other or boils it away. How is it possible that these two opposites coexist as the woof and warp of the firmament? It is this invisible thread that tightly bounds the two. And so it is with our world that the heavens mirror. For here too the incompatible qualities of love and hate, greed and charity, and judgment and compassion coexist."

Reb Harmona danced in jubilation fore he understood the depths of the saying, "l'mala l'mata (so above so below)."

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Bill Duckworth
"Its a Duzzy"
10:21 AM on 05/18/2011
Nice way to say the spirit is within and without
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iLdoRight
Encouraging The Rightest Rightness
02:15 AM on 05/18/2011
Have you ever started to talk to a person about a religious topic, and the person you are talking to is a regular "Religious Service Attender", and as you start on the religious topic you see their eyes start to "Glaze Over" like they are going into a trance? I have seen it many times, and I think it is a state many religionist know they can accomplish with their listeners and use in the process of keeping the "flock" right where they want them, habituating their sheep to their process and putting them in a state of mind in advance to "zone out" so that if any other shepherd comes along and tries to take them away they will have a tough time listening because they have been conditioned to "zone out" by all the dazzling or boring sermons that they have listened to in the past, and as they have learned to "zone out" so they will be able to tolerate the circumstance and not get up and embarrass themselves by leaving in the middle of the service. I know I felt that way a few times as a child. Listening to most of the Holy Scriptures did not make me feel that way, some of the genealogy sections did though. I am not sure why but this article made me feel sort of dizzy like I remember some religious services doing.
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03:57 PM on 05/17/2011
if one is going backwards the connect is " f e". the alphabetic order would be "e f" as in what the ef are is going on here? "icing the cake?" now is that a spiritual cake or the physical kind that you can't keep and eat at the same time?
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edgraham
There is no magic
01:07 PM on 05/17/2011
I hope that G-d forgives you for the typo, "If that's the case why do we need to worship God?"

Seriously, I think by now that "G-d" has become just another spelling of God. Aside from that it was an interesting post.
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busterggi
I'm a Sally Randian
04:24 PM on 05/17/2011
At the risk of seeming anti-Semetic, he really ought to buy a vowel.
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researcher
01:08 AM on 05/17/2011
both the religious and the materialists have an interesting thing is common.

one rejects a god made in the image of man and the other worships a god made in the image of man.

some day one by one they will figure out that there is no such god they are rejecting or accepting.

there never was such a god and there will never be such a god. but they will keep right on rejecting and accepting such a god until; ok it will be a surprise for them. a surprise of the greatest of value.

a value much greater than religion or scientism. much greater.
08:18 PM on 05/16/2011
Rabbi Miller is just extolling the joys of tribalism, which is all religion really is. There is not a shred of evidence that God or G-d or any other deity exists. If we want to be comforted by imagining the existence of some celestial father figure, we could dream up any figure we wanted and ascribe to it any characteristics we wanted. Oh wait, we already do, as evidenced by thousands of years of bloody warfare, tyranny and backwardness. Seriously, humankind will never realize its full potential until it can give up its infantile preoccupation with imaginary supernatural beings and deal more effectively with reality.
07:31 PM on 05/16/2011
With no disrespect to any religion - or to science - I think the gap in dialogue (a true gap) might be better served - including for the atheists and agnostics - if we think of "God" and "heaven" as simply another consciousness dimension. The concepts of "God transcendent" and "God immanent" can be resolved by simply accepting the hypothesis that all religious "heavens" and "nirvanas" are simply ways that various Teacher/Messengers - including Moses, some of the O.T. Prophets, Buddha, Mohammed and Christ - described that next and impending consciousness dimension, its basic laws and requirements for contacting. Later Teacher/Messengers evolved the message simply because humanity's capacity to understand grew.

Teacher/Messengers were "associate­d" with religions because that was the forum available to them (e.g., no mass education, no wide-sprea­d scientific community.­) Additionally, religion is ubiquitous and its "methods" more universal, as distinct from science. The Teacher/Messengers may have used terms for which we are uncomforta­ble, if our orientatio­n is toward science. However, all religionists are probably equally uncomforta­ble with the characteri­zation of their "heaven" as "simply" another consciousn­ess-dimens­ion. Nevertheless, the "rules" of religions constitute the ABCs of that dimension. Goodwill, love, selflessness, etc., are the disciplined "means" of "at-one-ment" - the essential meaning of atonement - with that dimension.

So redefining the problem in this manner is a starting point since it offers something for many in the form of compromise. It offesr, if you will allow, a bridge.

Wayne
08:38 PM on 05/16/2011
Yes, there are many worlds, many loka, and many stories to weave.

As wanderers in the Guttenberg Galaxy lost in the written word we forgot that not so long ago our ancestors told and listened to stories. For in these tales some of these worlds are revealed or at least a hint of their shadows is discerned between the words spoken. We have forgotten how to listen.

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Ashik Jaya
06:05 PM on 05/16/2011
There once was a spirit named God
In heaven is where he doth trod
Now you tell me he's here
Whispering in my ear
One of these two is a fraud.
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Elijah A Alexander Jr
Elijah NatureBoy
05:28 PM on 05/16/2011
I agree with your conclusion, Chaim, but have some small differences with the body of the article.

I see the Bible's cycle as Ecclesiastes 1:9 states, what was before Genesis 1 will return and after Revelation 21 this civilization again. Civilization cycles like a day. Genesis 1:1-2:3 is first light until sunrise, 2:4 is the beginning of sunrise and Noah's flood its completion. Revelation 19:21-20:15 is sunset to dark with chapter 21 being dark's civilization. Thus, reincarnation is the law until we metamorphosis into eternal beings.

During night civilizations our energy or spirit acts as the body is why there's no birth and during the light civilization we don't recognize our spirits. During this light civilization we long for our energy, god, until we have metamorphosed. Jesus said we all must be born again (John 3:1-8) to "see the kingdom of god" within while Paul say we become a new creations, metamorphosed. What happens is we integrate our energy [femininity] and flesh [masculinity (Genesis 2:24) and recognize our god nature as we become whole.

The rituals of the various religions are but pacifiers but since we're nearing the harvest time the longing is greater, especially in the "true" Jews to survive the termination of civilization. Most people are still content with traditions and the things of the world because they are not "the remnant of god's people" to be harvested or saved.
01:52 PM on 05/16/2011
I just love all not jealousy of for all are dearly Love by God, for all were created in God's Image, and has placed himself in all, there forth to say I love God I also must Love that God created for God dwells in all.
01:31 PM on 05/16/2011
I ask the dear Rabbi were there not 12 Tribes of Israel (Jacob was renamed Israel right? Did not God name himself the land God was giving his chosen people, did God not call it the Promise Land? Where today are the other 10 Tribes of Israel? God in the OT did not call his chosen people Jews did HE? But the 12 Tribes of Israel ( Jacob renamed by God right?) Did the name Jew not come from the Tribe of Judah a son of 1 of the 12 sons of  Israel also? Why do we never speak of the other 10 Tribes of Israelite? Where are the other 10 tribes of Israel? For God does say HE himself will call them HOME, before the great Day of the Lord right?
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el sistema
01:26 PM on 05/16/2011
"Instead of looking to bridge a gap that isn't there, come to the realization that your very being is sacred...your very being binds you to God. The simple fact of your presence testifies to His existence."

As an atheist I read that statement as stop attempting to work out the problems for God's existence and just accept that he exists. Closing your eyes to the gap between God and reason doesn't make the gap go away. You're just equipping yourself with denial and submission.

Yet maybe theists read this differently. Acceptance without evidence is still called submission, and what you end up submitting to is a vacuum. You cannot have absolutes without the evidence to sustain it. You cannot claim you have an existential connection without demonstrating that connection. Otherwise it's not existential, and you end up stating your belief in God is the evidence for God, which isn't a realization at all.
01:08 PM on 05/16/2011
What I found so very interesting to me, is having read the bible so many times over over over again, when I finally asked God to teach me HIS Word, so I would understand, know HIM and all that pleases HIM, so I would not be deceived, was right at the beginning of the bible first chapter, is that the first thing God created was not the Sun or Moon, for light,   but a  Light , itself was created first, then God -separated-light from darkness. (good from evil?> one world separate from other world Kingdom? ) How could I have missed understood this after reading hundreds of time. I always thought the sun moon were created first, when God spoke "Let there be Light". How wrong I was.

Earth was a formless wasteland and darkness covered the abyss, while a mighty wind swept over the waters. Then God said: "Let there be Light" and there was Light. God saw how good the light was, God then separated the light from the darkness. God called the light day, and the darkness he called " night" Thus evening came and morning > followed-the first day. We got our days backwards. Night  comes first,  then  first Day. Evening came, and morning followed -- the first day. Then God said Let there be a dome in the midle of the waters, to -separate-one body of water from the other.Interesting..

The dome separates, the dome is the sky. . Evening again came and morning followed again.

The sun, moon were N0T created till the >Fourth day. Interesting? God was not talking about the Sun light, moon light, was not at all what God created on the first day, but a whole different superior -Light. Light refers to Wisdom.

First day. Interesting also I  did not know, evening came first, the day followed > evening darkness. How could I have missed that? Day does not come first, but evening comes first, then day.
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el sistema
02:28 PM on 05/16/2011
"The sun, moon were N0T created till the >Fourth day. Interestin­g? God was not talking about the Sun light, moon light, was not at all what God created on the first day, but a whole different superior -Light. Light refers to Wisdom."

I think you can draw any you want conclusion from these texts. Doing so had created the likes of Harold Camping and Co., Westboro Baptist Church, the Branch Davidians, etc. However what wisdom are you referring to if the light that God allegedly created was not physical light? Is it even possible to create wisdom without humans around to perceive it?
03:10 PM on 05/16/2011
... and then he put it on a tree and forbade humans to take of "the light"... such circular logic leads no where.
07:28 PM on 05/16/2011
And now we will delve into the Maaseh Bereshit. The third line of Bereshit (Genesis) states, "And God said, "Let there be light," and there was light." Tell me what is that light? It is Or, Aleph Vov Reysh. In Gematria is come to 207. Not the word Raz (that which is hidden) spelled Reysh Zayin comes to the same numerical value. What does that mean? Delve deeply into this mystery and you shall discover that there are three types of light: Direct, Ambient, and Concealed. We are most interested in this third category for it circulates within itself and is never seen. It is this light called Raz that we seek.

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alterego55
"Always intended to be a factual statement"
12:46 PM on 05/16/2011
Abrahamic religions are tribal self-admiration societies steeped in visual symbolism. Each has its version of the "truth", which are all based upon a logical fallacy called circular reasoning. My "book" is the truth. Why? Because it says it is.
01:24 PM on 05/16/2011
Yes, Abraham faith are tribal. 12 Tribes of Israel, sons of Israel ( God renamed Jacob Israel) In OT Testament God did not call them Jews did he? God's Chosen people were called Israelites, who are the 12 Tribes, sons of Israel (Jacob). God gave HIS Blessings given through Moses to each of the  12 Tribes of Israel naming each son of  (Jacob) also,  before the sons of Israel, the 12 Tribes of Israel enter what God called -The Promise Land".
One of the 12  tribes (one son of Israel (Jacob) was called Judah-thus the name Jew came from.
There was also., Dan, Levi, Benjamin, Zebulun, Asher,  Naphtali, Gad, Reuben, all given a large part of land in what was has been Named Israel, which was much larger then today. Iraq, Turkey etc were once all part of it. Dan> Denmark , have to look up where there land was in that time, where names of theses nations also came from etc. Remember all were later taken as slaves also scattered through out the world. We too can be Israelites then ? . Interesting.
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01:54 PM on 05/16/2011
you're not getting what he is saying.
03:22 PM on 05/16/2011
I think you just proved his point of circular reasoning.
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01:34 PM on 05/16/2011
I wouldn't call the invention (in comparison to pre-abrahamic religions) of the prohibition of images being 'steeped in visual symbolism'.
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alterego55
"Always intended to be a factual statement"
01:46 PM on 05/16/2011
I really do not understand your comment, please explain.
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Elijah A Alexander Jr
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08:08 PM on 05/16/2011
I agree it's not 'steeped in visual symbolism' but vision causing symbols. Of course, one has to see the cycle the Bible implies before the vision began to manifest itself