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Rabbi David Wolpe

Rabbi David Wolpe

Posted: March 25, 2011 09:44 AM

Can You Pray What You Don't Believe?


How can we pray if there are things in prayer we do not believe?

Many people treat prayer like a treatise, picking through the book for doctrinal points. While we should not assert things we do not believe, prayer is not philosophy. Prayer is poetry. The sound of the words, the rhythm and cadence, are integral to prayer. "Sometimes too hot the eye of heaven shines" is not the same as "Some days are sweltering." The 'content' is loosely the same, but one is poetry.

When we say "This is the Torah God gave to Moses" as we hold the Torah aloft in the Sabbath service, we can recite that declaration even if we have doubts that the Torah is the literal, verbatim word of God. The declaration is deeper than the definition. It is a current carried from the past into the future. "Beauty is truth and truth beauty -- that is all ye know on earth and all ye need to know" famously declared Keats. Clearly not if you have to balance a checkbook. But we do not read poetry for information and we do not pray from the newspaper.

Over the years a prayerbook or hymnal becomes a vessel into which the aspirations and sometimes frustrations of the ages have been poured. They are the resource. Prayer connects us to one another, in shared longing for our own lives and for the world. Singing together changes the spiritual atmosphere. When one of us is sad, or broken, or cannot sing, the voice of another will lift him up and help soothe his spirit. It little matters if the words on the page would find their way into a list of approved beliefs.

We pray to heal our hearts and stir our souls. Check your caveats at the door. In here, we reach toward God.

 
 
 
 
 
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gal416
is a Bible verse † † †
01:54 AM on 03/29/2011
Sometimes when I pray I think about the commandments and how wonderful and a loving G-d we have who would care for our own well being and happiness to give them to us and who only wants what is good for his children.
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Allan Richter
09:06 PM on 03/28/2011
"We pray to heal our hearts and stir our souls. Check your caveats at the door. In here, we reach toward God." (David Wolpe)

When one recites the traditional liturgy regularly it changes from something that is thought to something that is felt and experienced.

“The Talmud relates that the ‘original saints’ (chasidim rishonim) used to take one hour to recite the Amidah (seven seconds per word). From the context, as well as from a number of Kabbalistic sources, it is obvious that these original saints used the Amidah as a meditation…the slow pace has the effect of quieting the mind in a most profound manner…” (Aryeh Kaplan).
11:47 AM on 03/28/2011
Well said Rabbi. I like to think of prayer as a conversation with myself or with "God as a reflection of the best that I can be". All that matters is that I hear myself speaking from my heart. Oh, if only more religious leaders and followers could open themselves up to this "truth"!
06:34 AM on 03/28/2011
This fog suffocates all sound and tendrils of doubt spread through the pure night; small vibrations hint at the presence of more but reaching out merely stills them. The vast plain I sense is but a single step from my front door; the ocean a puddle. I pray in a locked room lighting candles that throw shadows greater than vast mountains. When I close my eyes truth seems self-evident and when I open them again even more so.
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Dave24
Without God, life is everything.
04:18 AM on 03/28/2011
Scripture is literature; clergy are English professors interpreting said literature; and the laughable ocean of deep problems arises when said clergy actually believe the events and characters of said scripture were/are real.

All religions are fabrications that are embedded memetically across generations: instilled in children too young to think critically and in adults too invested to think otherwise.

God, gods, and their respective nonsensical religions are made up, people.
Make-believe.
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edensaunt
08:27 AM on 03/27/2011
not believing the words is one thing, often finding them immoral and revolting is a sticking point for me
08:16 AM on 03/27/2011
Prayer without kavannah (intent) is empty. It is merely words mumbled mechanically thoughtlessly to fulfill an obligation of time.

Prayer with kavannah is empty. It emanates from the heart although ebullient with passion it is kenosis an emptying of self.
01:30 AM on 03/27/2011
I think this is a truly great prayer:

JABBERWOCKY
Lewis Carroll
(from Through the Looking-Glass and What Alice Found There, 1872)
`Twas brillig, and the slithy toves
Did gyre and gimble in the wabe:
All mimsy were the borogoves,
And the mome raths outgrabe.

"Beware the Jabberwock, my son!
The jaws that bite, the claws that catch!
Beware the Jubjub bird, and shun
The frumious Bandersnatch!"

He took his vorpal sword in hand:
Long time the manxome foe he sought --
So rested he by the Tumtum tree,
And stood awhile in thought.

And, as in uffish thought he stood,
The Jabberwock, with eyes of flame,
Came whiffling through the tulgey wood,
And burbled as it came!

One, two! One, two! And through and through
The vorpal blade went snicker-snack!
He left it dead, and with its head
He went galumphing back.

"And, has thou slain the Jabberwock?
Come to my arms, my beamish boy!
O frabjous day! Callooh! Callay!'
He chortled in his joy.

`Twas brillig, and the slithy toves
Did gyre and gimble in the wabe;
All mimsy were the borogoves,
And the mome raths outgrabe.

I often say it when things get really crazy in the world like right now.
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s0uthparkc0nservative
Rhyme and Reason, living together
07:19 PM on 03/26/2011
Thank you Rabbi for your intelligent article. Having dealt extensively with both prayer and poetry, I must admit the thought hadn't crossed my mind before.
To those who prefer to s*** on this article, go ahead. This section of the website is for those people who believe in God (in whichever form) and wish to learn more about their religion, or religion in general. Criticism is integral to discussion, but name-calling is not. If you don't like it, go back to the homepage.
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jf12
Occupying myself
09:23 AM on 03/26/2011
No. The act of communicating something you do no believe is lying.
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Talossa
Not all liberals are silly.
12:07 PM on 03/26/2011
You've never said "I love you" with any doubt or regret in your heart?
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jf12
Occupying myself
08:29 PM on 03/26/2011
Yes, but imperfect love is still believable.
03:50 PM on 03/25/2011
H.L. Mencken's "Clarion Call to Poets" discusses this well. An agnostic's funeral cannot show the same respect for the dead and comfort to to the living that stirring verse can (and I say this as a non-believer.) The Book of Common Prayer is also very moving -- but "Rock of Ages", and other Anglican-type hymns, are semantically and musically awful. So it's not that I champion religious verse; only good verse.
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LintLass
"When you can balance a tackhammer on your head...
08:24 PM on 03/25/2011
I have to say, here, I honestly don't get what you say here. I'm a Pagan, but I'd rather have an agnostic read Yeats than have some doctrinarian gloat with a hymn.)

Not like I never wrote a poem or sang a song in my own life: one just came off my fingers a couple posts below.

Funerals are for the living, heaping indignities are optional.

But there's got to be ten thousand songs that'd serve, believe, don't believe, in what, who cares.

The perfectly ghoulish thing is that if I outlive my parents, they'll *probably* not even know *what* song to sing, and be too afraid to even play it if they did. try and erase my life under some 'true believing' 'hymn.'

But I'm not 'agnostic.' *My* hymns have been all around, all along, (And they are a touch better than Def Leppard, but not so bad as the rest) Funny thing is that in a world full of people arguing over who's 'Christian' enough, 'believer' enough, well,

Even hypothetically, I'd be the 'dead' one. And people thinking like you're talking probably couldn't name *one* song that I'd want to leave them with.

And that's very sad. Cause many, many songs would do.

'Agnostic.' 'Believer.' What's a 'good funeral?'

A good song, a good dance, and, a sad parting well-experienced. Sing the Go-gos 'Vacation.'

Just mean it.

Why?

Agnostic? Allowed. Numb? That's not singing. It's *erasing.* Poetry?
08:09 PM on 03/26/2011
IF YOU ARE A PAGAN THEN YOU WOULDNT NEED A FUNERAL SERVICE ANYWAYS?
01:56 PM on 03/27/2011
I loved your reply, and I'm sorry I wasn't clear. I wasn't referring to a eulogy, but to the words spoken as the body is interred (or ashes scattered, or what have you,) marking the milestone with dignity, acknowledging the fact that the days of men are as grass, and reminding any mourners that life is for the living. Though I will try to prevent my mother from giving me a Christian burial, I would like something to be said that helps her cope with my religion-free cremation. The songs and poetry I love would be played at the memorial, a separate event.
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gal416
is a Bible verse † † †
02:09 AM on 03/29/2011
Not the labors of my hands
can fulfill thy law's commands;
could my zeal no respite know,
could my tears forever flow,
all for sin could not atone;
thou must save, and thou alone.

Rock of Ages, cleft for me;
let me hide myself in thee
10:04 AM on 03/30/2011
Since you offer no commentary along with the words of the hymn I find so plodding, I am not certain why you posted this; but these very unmusical lyrics are even more droning now that I see them again. Thank you for supporting my point.
squat6971
59 *was* divine -- 60? not so much
03:15 PM on 03/25/2011
Prayer is the ultimate delusion. Who or what is listening? How do you know?

I see you only talking to yourself...
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LintLass
"When you can balance a tackhammer on your head...
08:26 PM on 03/25/2011
New rule: If you claim to know 'ultimate,' you don't get to call others delusional. ;)
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Talossa
Not all liberals are silly.
12:10 PM on 03/26/2011
How true. It's like someone who has never been loved, or never been able to love, demands that you show him physical, scientific proof that love exists.
08:10 PM on 03/26/2011
GOD DOES TALK BACK TO THOSE WHO LOVE HIM.
02:29 PM on 03/25/2011
Religion is an illusion and it derives its strength from its readiness to fit in with our instinctual wishful impulses. (Sigmund Freud)
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LintLass
"When you can balance a tackhammer on your head...
06:56 PM on 03/25/2011
In all honesty, one might think the same of sex if all you knew of it was talk. :)
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Talossa
Not all liberals are silly.
12:08 PM on 03/26/2011
* applause *
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Pat Pepe
08:58 PM on 03/26/2011
If you are a freethinker why bare you quoting Sigmund Freud?
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LintLass
"When you can balance a tackhammer on your head...
02:02 PM on 03/25/2011
Some days are sweltering,
The heat lamps of so-noble Churches find voices stolen
The alll-seeing projected, reflected, deflected Eye, said to sear
Those who are so blind as cannot see,
And squint and peer
Grow eyelids and be....

In some places the Sun warms, the steam heals, the Light returns, and shadows
Are not fear.

:)

Yeah, no poetry in there or nothing. Sorry, did I say that out loud? :)
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Indigo1941
Time Traveler
01:40 PM on 03/25/2011
Prayer has a poetic dimension but I doubt that you're reading hymns from the Rig Veda instead of passages from the Torah out to the congregation. It does matter what you say in prayer. I for one could not possibly recite the Apostle's Creed with a sincere heart, I don't believe a word of it and I doubt that you could do it. I can read a psalm and say it's lovely but that doesn't make it my prayer. You can read Hakuin's Song of Zazen but that doesn't make it your prayer. The words we speak make a difference in how we view this realm of appearances and worldly concerns.