Religious people, myself included, like to say that God's law is absolute, that it transcends the subjective, arbitrary and hence fleeting quality of human law. But how do you test a thing like that?
I've found a way. I call it the "Canary in the Coal Mine Phenomenon" and I've learned it by being a rabbi who specializes in working with addicts. What most people don't know about recovery from addiction is that "the program" doesn't just possess a spiritual component. The entirety of the 12-Steps is a spiritual system for living. It's not just that "Higher Power" thing most people have seen in movies where someone goes to AA. The whole program is a guide for how to live a life of God-consciousness.
Why is the program of recovery all about improving one's relationship with God? In a real small nutshell I'll say it like this. For "normal" people, spiritual fitness is a luxury. For the true addict, however, spirituality is the only effective means to bring about the complete remission of an illness that is progressive, fatal and incurable.
The pioneers of AA -- the first of the 12-Step groups -- had received a revolutionary insight from psychiatrist Carl Jung. Jung revealed that neither the medical nor the mental health professions could help the alcoholic but posited that relief from alcoholism could be found through spiritual means. "Spiritus contra spiritum" Jung called it, making a play on Latin words that mean "spirituality is [the antidote] against [addiction to] spirits."
So what was that about the canary?
The canary idea was an observation I formed while writing my book "God of Our Understanding: Jewish Spirituality and Recovery from Addiction." I was trying to explain how the spiritual truths of the 12 Steps were arrived at empirically through trial and error. Basically, the first people to recover using the spiritual method had to experiment on themselves to find out what kinds of behaviors were conducive to a spiritual lifestyle. It was a simple test: were they getting better or not? See, most people can live without seeking out spiritual consciousness but the addict -- the true addict -- cannot. That's what makes the addict the spiritual canary.
In the days before mineshafts had proper ventilation, miners would bring a canary in a cage down with them whenever forging into a new area of the mine. Canaries are more sensitive to poisonous gasses than human beings, so as long as the canary was alive, the miners knew the air in the new area was safe to breathe. If the canary stopped singing, the miners knew it was time to get out of that part of the mine.
A canary is not a toxicologist, or whatever expert you would consult in order to determine whether or not air is safe to breath. A canary is just a bird -- a bird that when it breathes poison, happens to die quicker than a human.
The addict, for reasons we do not fully understand, is critically sensitive to any kind of spiritual deficiency. They live and die by their ability to connect with God. If you have lived among addicts as I have, you will know that no amount of "clean time" ever means that they are cured. They can be completely chemically sober for years. And then, if they let themselves become spiritually sick, they will baffle everyone with a seemingly inexplicable relapse. Perhaps they stopped meditating. Maybe they stopped looking for ways to be of service to their fellow. Or maybe they allowed a resentment or a grudge to start eating away at their serenity.
In short, if a certain idea or practice is spiritually harmful to human beings, the addict will be the first to show symptoms. Conversely, if a certain idea or practice promotes spiritual wellness in human beings, it is evident in the addict by their relief from the compulsion to use.
So, is righteous indignation bad for you? Look at the addict who started feeling holier-than-thou and see what happened to their recovery. Is putting financial security ahead of spiritual stability a killer? Ask the addict who forgot about the God-consciousness that helped them get their feet back on the ground. Basically, if you want to know what is spiritual poison for a human being, you've got to ask a spiritual canary.
Conversely, if you want to know where there's good, clean air for your soul to breathe, go see where the canaries flourish. The spiritual canaries I know take daily moral inventories; they put principles before personalities; they show up where they're needed and not where they need something; when faced with a dilemma, they pause and humbly ask God for direction.
In this coal mine called life, who's your spiritual canary?
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If someone says to you believe in the tooth fairy he makes all life fit together would you? NO.. Religion is MAN made and that is all it is. NO magical fairy dust created any of it. Man did. It is man that must get himself out of behaviors that will kill him and because belief in a sky god or some kind of spiritualism makes addicts sober does NOT mean it is true. It just means they got sober. If one could stand on one's head for 9 hours and get sober I say good do it. Whatever works!
Woe to the crown of pride, to the drunkards of Ephraim who stole my ministry for themselves and their own agendas, whose glorious beauty a withering flower, which are on the head of the fat valleys of them that are overcome with wine!
Replace the DOT with a Period for links to my Medical Records that show that they betrayed me into the hand of Merchants, who betrayed me into the hands of Ishmael, like as Moses foretold of about the heir by birthright of the house of Israel, Lord Joseph of Mount Ephraim . tinyurlDOTcom/679jbus
the addict will be the first to show symptoms . . ."
Fair enough. Now, about that practice of ritually altering infant boys with sharp implements . . .
at a party no less !
The piece was about an empirical observation I made about people who have experienced recovery from addiction through the maintenance of a spiritual program. And it's not just my personal observation. It's a regularly observed phenomenon. When you behold a phenomenon (that means, something that we know happens but we're not sure why it happens) it should inspire wonder, not judgment. But, alas, what it comes down too for each of us is personal experience. Do we relate or do we not relate?
It reminds me of what Carl Jung said:
"Religious experience is absolute. It is indisputable. You can only say that you have never had such an experience, and your opponent will say, 'Sorry, I have.' And there your discussion will come to an end.'"
If it works for you, fantastic. But truly, there is not one way. Not everyone can understand or follow a 12-step or religious equivalent.
I wonder how many addicts that went through the sham that is AA and NA have come out of it all being sober non-theists.
I had a lot of help. I did not do it on my own. I needed the tools, the right attitude and practice at being sober. It was not simple personal fortitude (I was a bit light on that at the time). I did 3 years of group therapy paid for by my health insurance (Kaiser has an excellent program). I did attend AA occasionally. There are meetings that go light on the "Higher power" thing and when they didn't I ignored it. I found it was important to keep what I was trying to do a part of my consciousness. That and the fact that about every third time I went to whatever type of meeting someone would say something important and useful to me. It turns out there are a lot of intelligent and interesting people working to get their lives straightened out.
Are we not all addicts of one thing or another? Addict's who claim they are more holier then thou attitude, addicts who serve their own flesh and deny others their own rights also. Yes we are all addicts at what ever. We are all addicted to something, Liars? gossipers? judgment? steal? human beings of great jealousy of others, all are addictions also. We must all work at daily.
Set them apart and the needs of one are denied for that of the other.
Starve the spirit and the body yearns for substitutes, distractions from emptiness -- addictions such as gambling or drugs or both.
Starve the body and the spirit falters.
It's called atheism.
Why aren't you going to the politics section to write about church/state separation issues? These are more about politics than they are about religion.