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Jews Must Demand a Relationship of Full Equality With Christianity

Posted: 03/01/2012 9:29 am

My much-publicized dispute with Canadian TV host Michael Coren last week taught me valuable lessons about the Jewish community and the new relationship with our Christian brothers and sisters.

For those of you who missed it, I was invited on to Coren's Sun TV show to promote my new book "Kosher Jesus" -- or so I thought. Within minutes Coren had made four very troubling suggestions. First, that Jesus completed Judaism, thereby emphasizing classical replacement theology which sees Judaism as a subordinate religion to Christianity. Second, that liberal Jews who strongly dislike Christians are involved in an effort to portray them as unsophisticated bumpkins. Third, proof that this is so comes from Hollywood, which Jews either control or significantly influence, so that they can portray Christians in any negative way they wish. Fourth, and finally, that unappreciative Jews have engaged in an effort to malign Pope Pius XII, the wartime holocaust Pope whom the Catholic Church is currently seeking to beatify but who is known to the rest of the world as "Hitler's Pope." (The full video can be found here and my two columns on our dispute on my blog at the Huffington Post.)

Normally, any of these four insinuations would be seen as highly prejudicial against Jews and even anti-Semitic, something I called on Coren to apologize for. Instead, he disgraced himself further by launching into sharp personal attacks against my appearance, my name, coupled with slanderous allegations that are beneath contempt.

Now, Coren does not much matter, given his tiny footprint in the media landscape. But what happened next is instructive in terms of how desperate we in the Jewish community can sometimes be for allies. A Canadian Jewish organization came to Coren's defense, saying he has a long history of defending the State of Israel and friendship with the Jewish community, albeit, I assume, with right-wing elements thereof, seeing as he perceived "liberal" Jews to be poisonous in their outlook. I also received e-mails from Canadian Jews saying that while Coren's comments were repulsive, given that Israel has so few friends we have to be happy with what we have. We dare not alienate friends in the media.

For the record, I do not believe Coren to be an anti-Semite and can of course accept that his protestations to friendship are genuine. Indeed, we have a mutual acquaintance who now wishes to bring us together and I have extended an olive branch to Coren in the form of a respectful challenge to a professional debate on the record of Pope Pius XII during the Holocaust. I await his response. But there can be no question that his comments were slanderous toward Jews and furthered classic anti-Jewish stereotypes about world Jewish dominance, Jewish contempt for Christians, and the lying, unappreciative Jew who will even go after a saintly pope. Yet, in this age when Israel is so utterly marginalized and vilified, we are prepared to overlook Christian brothers who look down at our faith and who only dislike some Jews -- in this case liberals -- to clasp at any hint of friendship.

I disagree. I believe passionately in the new Jewish-Christian alliance and wrote "Kosher Jesus" primarily to advance it. The book seeks to share the Jewishness of Jesus so that a theological bridge can exist between the two disparate faith-communities and I am proud of the global impact it is making on both Jews and Christians. But I do not believe in friendship at any cost. We need not seek the position of superiority vis-a-vis Christians that was humbly bestowed upon us by that most righteous of popes, John Paul II, when he referred to Jews as "our elder brothers" in the faith of Abraham. But we must insist on a relationship of equality, brotherhood and mutual respect. We need not, we dare not, embrace Christian friendship toward Israel if it has any hint of condescension toward Jews and Judaism and, of course, from the vast majority of the world's Christians -- including the current Pope and outstanding friend of the Jewish people, Benedict XVI -- it does not.

Yes, Iran, as it never ceases to remind us, is gearing up for a possible war of annihilation against Israel and, of course, we require every media voice possible to sound the clarion call against Iran's possession of nuclear weapons. Likewise, Israel needs every last media ally to remind the world of the existential threat it faces from Iran-funded Hezbollah and Hamas, not to mention the barbarous Syrian regime to the north. Christians in general and evangelicals in particular have become Israel's most stalwart allies. But that need not mean that we must tiptoe around the relationship afraid to give offense when any of those same Christian allies seek to proselytize Jews, as my friend Dr. Mike Brown, and many other Jewish converts to Christianity, still do. We must vigorously oppose them, which is why I have agreed to debate Mike next month in New York. Glenn Beck expressed it best at the Christians United for Israel dinner in Washington last year. Christian support for Israel should be based not on end-of-days theology or a desire to bring back Christ but on simple, unadulterated love for the Jewish people, just as we Jews must reciprocate with unadorned love for our Christian brothers and sisters who stand by the Jewish state through thick and thin.

To be sure, in Judaism action is much more important than intention, and whatever the reason for friendship and good deeds, they supersede the motivation. But Jews and Christians have come long enough and far enough to now engage in a mature relationship of mutual affection where we both respect the G-dly calling that each faith possesses without engaging in games of one-upmanship.

It is for this reason that I also agree with my friend and hero Elie Wiesel that it is high time that our warm allies in the Mormon Church cease the posthumous baptizing of any and all Jews, once and for all. I have been close to the Mormons since my early 20s, have lectured in Utah to Church groups on countless occasions, and took Prof. Wiesel himself to lecture in Utah in 2006. Indeed, I once even believed that posthumous baptizing did not much matter given that it was a private ritual and the public friendship of the Church was much more significant. But friends do not just respect one another in public, they do so in private as well. And it is time that our evangelical, Mormon and Catholic friends respect and learn from the faith that was not only practiced by their savior and redeemer, as I detail in "Kosher Jesus," but who said in Matthew 5:18 would be in force for all eternity. That religion, of course, was not Christianity but Judaism.

Shmuley Boteach, "America's Rabbi," is the international best-selling author of 27 books and has just published Kosher Jesus. The London Times Preacher of the Year at the Millennium, he is currently mulling a run for Congress from New Jersey's Ninth Congressional District, running as a Republican. www.shmuleyforcongress.com.

 
 
 

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11:12 PM on 03/10/2012
I'm paraphrasing, but the big three monotheistic religions are rooted in the story of a man willing to murder his son to please God. When a story like that is the foundational basis of your religious heritage, bad ethics will follow. It seems to me that man made God and I have yet to hear or read any convincing evidence to the contrary. Search for the truth.
09:08 PM on 03/04/2012
In my new book, "Kosher Jesus," I talk about my new book, "Kosher Jesus."
11:16 PM on 03/10/2012
Do you have a chapter about evangelicals and their requests for believers to sow a seed of faith otherwise God will be mad? For those that don't know, "sow a seed of faith" is code for send the guy on TV some of your money.
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03:28 PM on 03/04/2012
Rabbi: Please stop holding yourself out--or allowing some Christians to hold you out--as "America's Rabbi". (same for R. Daniel Lapin) You know there is no such thing (not even close!). And that label only confuses some Christians who mistakenly believe you have some special credibility or status.
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02:53 PM on 03/04/2012
Rabbi, because you've held out Glenn Beck as a representative of "unadulterated love for the Jewish people", I comment here.

I have watched countless hours of Glenn Beck in full (not bites or commentary about him), and reviewed his blog--and the comments therein--over time.

Though Beck's lips drip milk and honey, he always manages to kick me hard in my Jewish gut at least once, if not many times, per show/event leaving me almost breathless. His attacks on politically liberal Jews, his attacks on reform and conservative Jews, his choosing Rosh Hashana for his "interfaith" rally, his attacks on "collective redemption" as satanic, his gagging gimic whenever he references Kashrut, his relentless attack on "liberation theology" (which actually arose out of slavery, with a deep love of Moses, the Children of Israel, and G-d's mighty hand against Pharoah etc.), his swipes at the Israelis during his mission there, his disinformation about the President's policies/relationship with Israel and the Jewish people, his pushing the notion that Jews who vote democratic are self-hating, etc. etc. I find him and his followers mortifying...

I say these things as someone who has also spent countless hours with other Christians who really do have a deep and brilliant understanding of Torah and Jewish life set forth in their New Testament, and love the Jewish People and the State of Israel for real. They too, are mortified by the drek that comes out of Beck et al.
03:25 PM on 03/02/2012
I believe that Rabbi Schmuley's point is that Jewish people should not have to be concerned whenever meeting, or being in the company of christians that they could become a target and be put in the uncomfortable position of being proselytized. The truth is that most (not all) christians believe that Jewish people are destined for damnation if they do not accept the christian savior and ask to be forgiven of their "sins." Those who hold this view feel it is their duty to "witness" to Jewish people and give them the opportunity to be "saved." Most of the witnessing is done out of sincere love for the Jewish person, however, this is not the motive in many other cases.
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michelesda
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12:03 PM on 03/02/2012
I would cheerfully grant Judaeism and Christianity full equality, at the bottom of the food chain of human accomplishments.
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RichDavid
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11:10 AM on 03/02/2012
As a Greek Orthodox Christian I have always felt very close to the Jewish faith. I think I am Jewish by default.
10:58 AM on 03/02/2012
I think agree with most of what is said here, but the headline is a bit unfortunate and may obscure the point being made. After all it does not explain the consequences of demanding. Certainly Jews should not badger Christians until the admit that Jews are their equal. And I don't think Boteach is arguing for that. It is more fair, as someone below seems to be doing, to say Jews should demand equal rights and protection as Americans, but I don't think that is Boteach's point here.

I think what he is arguing that if Christians are going to ask for friendship, Jews should demand that Christians respect them. They should not accept people as their friends who actually condescend to them. And that makes some sense.
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12:27 PM on 03/02/2012
Lon: I think what he is arguing that if Christians are going to ask for friendship, Jews should demand that Christians respect them. They should not accept people as their friends who actually condescend to them. And that makes some sense.

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It may make some sense, but Boteach should know better.

The condescension of bible believing Christians towards Jews is woven into the warp and woof of Pauline theology. While Jesus may be the heart of the New Testament narrative, Paul is definitely the mind.

Anything Boteach says or does should be taken with a big grain of salt. He's a Jewish PT Barnum, always looking for the next public relations move in his endless quest for self-promotion, not unlike Michael Jackson's other "spiritual advisor", Deepak Chopra.

What is more problematic about Boteach (to me, at least) is his right wing affinity with people like Pat Robinson.
12:40 PM on 03/05/2012
Actually, if Boteach knows a range of actual Christians he should know that some will and some won't. I am not sure what is gained by overgeneralizing about Christians.

I am generally not a fan of Boteach. I disagree with him far more often than I agree. But that doesn't mean I don't think it should be noted when he gets something right, or that there is a need to find some way to attach him in such cases.
Mercy8 om
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09:31 AM on 03/02/2012
And here in lies the problem...when one religous group assumes it's better than others, that group looses is crediblilty and in fact it's power. That group just looks rigid and dogmatic. If we can not bring our selves to the discousion of religion then we look foolish. If we can't bring both and our hearts and out minds to the table then we just look like frightened superstitous folk. It does not serve our faith to be afraid of process. It does not serve our faith to be afraid to ask questions and to be open to all the answers. God is not some small fragile being that can not toterate speculation. God in infinite and the infinite is not afraid of anything.
TomMartin
Freedom and equality.
08:31 AM on 03/02/2012
Jews can demand it, but then unfortunately many Christians will continue considering their religion to be superior to others, including to Judaism, that is to be expected in view of what the New Testament says. But then Judaism is hardly pure on it, Orthodox Judaism considers even Reform Judaism inferior. And the Bible and Talmud have plenty of contempt for polytheism. It is true that the Noahide laws about Gentiles do not require becoming Jewish for salvation, but they condemn idolatry, so that could arguably condemn most Christians too.
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03:23 AM on 03/02/2012
You know the old saying? "You get what you pay for". You want it wholesale, at cost or retail? Do you think you deserve it free?
BahtHarim
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09:53 AM on 03/03/2012
This is an anti-Semitic steotype. And when I first commented on this, it was not posted. Why not?
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iLdoRight
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04:20 PM on 03/04/2012
Do Jewish people want a land that may have been offered on condition to their ancestors, but was according to scripture taken back away?
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David Weidner
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09:34 PM on 03/01/2012
No religion can demand respect from any other religion. And no religion can demand respect from those without religion. Respect is earned. If your beliefs are worthy of respect, they will most times get that respect. Not all beliefs are respectable however, just so you know. I say this not specifically about Judaism, but beliefs in general.
Mercy8 om
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09:50 AM on 03/02/2012
I'm right there with you brother!
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Domingo Cardoza
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01:24 PM on 03/05/2012
Great post.
04:37 PM on 03/01/2012
Been there, done that. I was born and raised in a Catholic family and 40 years ago I left the Catholic Church and the christian church in general for theological reasons. I embraced the Jewish faith and I am Bat Noach who adheres those commandments according to Torah. Here is the issue I believe you are missing (I read your columns and look forward to each one) - christians believe that their savior is G-d incarnate. He is on the same level as HaShem according to them. This is anathema to Torah believing Jewish people and to anyone who has read the TaNaKh. This is the great division between Jews and christians.
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08:18 PM on 03/01/2012
It is a division between Christians. Some say "all you need is Jesus." For others the scripture says Christ is subject to God (1Cor.15:27-28). We need Jesus to get to God, he is our mediator, but God is "all in all" (1Cor.15:28). We can't come to Jesus unless God draws us (Jn.6:44).

When I hear one say "thank you Jesus" I think, Jesus said to God be the glory. Jesus instructed us to pray to God in his name, which doesn't mean pray to Jesus. When Jesus has subdued all things, he will be subject to God (1Cor.15:28).

These scriptures seem to be lost to some Christians. Perhaps Christ is their "stone of stumbling" 1Pet.2:8.
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01:36 PM on 03/05/2012
"These scriptures seem to be lost to some Christians" I agree with you on this. When I was a kid attending Sunday school, I was conflicted to pray for Jesus ,when He said to praise only God. I personally made a decision to pray to God and acknowledge JC, as the bible says, as his son from my early teen days. Unfortunately, on the verge of sounding blasphemous, I also believe that the majority of faiths are filled with leaders that use religion to manipulate and concentrate influence or power at the expense of equal rights, and often times, life. I don't say this to degrade or attack R. Boteach; is just my default position.
TomMartin
Freedom and equality.
08:35 AM on 03/02/2012
Not all Christians consider Jesus to be God incarnate. There are a few denominations that reject that idea, the largest of them are Jehovah's Witnesses and the Iglesia ni Cristo. And there are a few denominations that are not dogmatic about it, like most Quaker denominations refuse to be dogmatic about it.
03:01 PM on 03/01/2012
I have nothing but admiration for my Jewish friends.
02:34 PM on 03/01/2012
Not all differenses can be resolved. Christianity has its beliefs, and this Jew doesn't seek to have christains change them. But Jews have a right to criticize those Popes we want to, and bigoted statements we want to. if the two faiths can't establish a working relationship by agreeing to disagree on such issues, then so be it.