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Rabbi Shmuley Boteach

Rabbi Shmuley Boteach

Posted: August 17, 2010 09:01 AM

I still remember, Russell, when you came to my debate with Rev. Al Sharpton, nine years ago, in New York City. You struck me then as a man of warmth and openness. In that spirit I offer you this response to your recent blog post supporting the Ground Zero mosque and your categorization of those opposing it as being guilty of hatred and bigotry, which strikes me as a bit harsh.

For the record, I am a supporter of the mosque being built, but only under two conditions. First, that its builders consult the families of the Ground Zero dead, who are the people whose opinion matters most. Second, that the 13-story complex include a museum detailing the events of 9/11 with exhibits explaining the modern abuse of Islamic teachings by extremists and their repudiation by Islam itself.

I don't expect you to agree with my conditions, or with those who oppose the mosque outright. But I do ask that you consider this.

We live in a secular age where religion has been largely repudiated. Sure, people still go to Church and they still celebrate Chanuka and Christmas. But religious values have ceased to be impactful on their lives. It's secular values that dictate what's important, from money and fame to material comfort and financial security. How did religion which was once all-powerful become so marginal? There are many considerations, but perhaps the most important has been religion's hypocrisy and intolerance. Simply put, when people witness religions behaving badly they conclude that it's all a farce. Whether it's a priest being caught molesting a child, or a Rabbi being arrested for money laundering, or, most seriously, an Imam telling his faithful to blow up children, the average person looks at this and determines that religion is a farce.

Which is why it's so important for the religious faithful, in general, and religious leaders in particular, to behave with morality, ethics, and sensitivity at all times.

But your blog post completely ignores the need for religion to behave with sensitivity at all times. It makes no mention whatsoever of how Islam might win public opinion back and instead accuses Americans of being bigots.

There are bigots in America, but Americans are not bigots. There are a hundred mosques in New York alone and nobody objects. But the average American is souring on Islam not based on any intrinsic prejudice but based on the violence they constantly read in the newspapers. And yes, I agree with you. They should rise above that and understand that the extremists do not define the faith and that the vast majority of religions Muslims are G-d-fearing and peace-loving.

But this is where the builders of the Ground Zero mosque squandered a unique opportunity to portray Islam in a favorable light, even as you completely let them off the hook. Given the huge media profile of this particular mosque, the organizers could have showed Americans how wrong they were about Islam. The builders could have taken out a full-page ad in The New York Times (they have, it is reported, $100 million for the mosque, and this expense would be tiny in comparison) announcing their intentions of building an Islamic Cultural Center at Ground Zero and inviting all the families of the 9/11 victims to the Jacob Javits Center on a specified day to lay out their plans and obtain the families reactions. They could have said that they while they are firm about their intentions of creating an Islamic presence at this hallowed site, their intention in so doing is not offend the families sensibilities but to repudiate the fanatics who have tarnished the name of Islam and hence, the builders wish to proceed with the greatest sensitivity and understanding.

Sadly, Russell, none of this happened. Rather, it was announced that a mosque is being built adjacent to a giant American cemetery irrespective of the families wishes, that it's a First Amendment right, and that all those who oppose it are bigots.

Fair enough. It's a free country. Say what you want and build what you want.

But if you're intention is to reverse people's negative impressions of religion in general and Islam in particular, then you're probably not going to achieve that by telling ten thousand people who watched their loved ones incinerated at Ground Zero, and whose remains are now part of the very air and dust of the place, that they are no longer victims of a terrible attack, but a bunch of cold-hearted bigots who hate Islam.

This, Russell, is just not the way to bring peace and reconciliation.

I wish G-d's blessings for all the good work you do.

Rabbi Shmuley Boteach hosts 'The Shmuley Show' on 77 WABC in NYC. He is the founder of This World: The Values Network, and is the author, most recently, of 'Renewal: A Guide to the Values-Filled Life.' Follow him on Twitter @RabbiShmuley.

 
 
 

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Malby Lewis
10:35 PM on 08/19/2010
"First, that its builders consult the families of the Ground Zero dead, who are the people whose opinion matters most." Say what?? The "families" who have made a full-time occupation of complaining about Ground Zero are way overdue for therapy. It's 2010. It's not ABOUT you. It's about the Constitution. I think your loved ones would be ashamed.
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rougebaisers
03:18 AM on 08/19/2010
If I hear one more person slip out of explaining why we shouldn't care about those who lost loved ones on 9-11 by saying Muslims died that day, as if that makes it all ok, in the loving memory of the loved one I lost, they are going to walk away bruised.
02:55 PM on 08/19/2010
It most certainly does not make it ok, and no one is implying that. Those lost were lost because of 19 criminals. Just because they used religion as their reason for that criminal activity does not mean all those who happen to check the same box of their voter registration card share their feelings or would ever do something such as they did.

The WTC disater was not a christian masacre nor was it an American masacre. It was a global diaster. People from over 50 countries and representing almost all of the worlds religions died as well.

I am very sorry you lost someone there (or anywhere), but personal greif, no matter how deep can trump the law and the constitution.
01:31 AM on 08/20/2010
Faved and fanned.

And I would like to add that if we give into fear then the terrorists have indeed won. The wanted to instill fear so that we would change our way of life. Denying our fellow Americans the right to build a Community Center on private property because of their religion, is giving into fear.

@rougebaisers, I am sorry for your loss. I lost a family member that day, so I understand your pain.
10:51 PM on 08/18/2010
Rabbi Schmuley - With all due respect, there are at least two major logical leaps in your article.

1) Even if the people building this cultural center/mosque could be seen as more sensitive if they took out a NY Times ad explaining their intentions, it does not necessarily follow that the people who oppose this mosque are well-intentioned advisors. They could - and likely are - villifying this mosque out of bigotry. Obviously, most people that are raging against the project are not doing so because they recognized a missed opportunity for inter-faith dialogue. 2) You acknowledge: "[T]he average American is souring on Islam not based on any intrinsic prejudice but based on the violence they constantly read in the newspapers. And yes, I agree with you. They should rise above that and understand that the extremists do not define the faith and that the vast majority of religions Muslims are G-d-fearing and peace-loving." People who vehemently oppose the building of a house of worship because they ascribe the violent actions of a minority to the hearts of the whole faith ARE by definition pre-judging bigots. Thus, you concede the veracity of Simmons' position while you purport to contest it.
01:33 AM on 08/20/2010
Faved & fanned.
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maslin
At 6 bn km, it's mostly small stuff.
08:10 PM on 08/18/2010
Rabbi Boteach, I am going to let a better rhetorician speak for me to you.

'We, America's Muslims, have also come near this hallowed spot to remind America of the fierce urgency of now. This is no time to engage in the luxury of cooling off or to take the tranquilizing drug of gradualism. Now is the time to make real the promises of democracy. Now is the time to rise from the dark and desolate valley of discrimination to the sunlit path of religious justice. Now is the time to lift our nation from the quick sands of religious injustice to the solid rock of brotherhood. Now is the time to make justice a reality for all of God's children.'

Apologies to Dr. King and his family for changing a couple of words. It seemed to fit.
05:30 PM on 08/18/2010
Rabbi Boteach:

Look religion needs to be governed.

All religions, regarding sexual abuse of its practitioner's children, embezzlement (which happens often), fraudulent fundraising and tax evasion, and the use of intoxicants, like Kava Kava, outside the ceremonial places - like driving intoxicated from a ceremony under the influence of Kava Kava.

Having a religion does not exempt it from the laws of the land.

Islam is founded on a belief that there are those that are Muslim and those that aren't and those that aren't - are not tolerated and in fact are subject to destruction, violent destruction.

My belief is that Islamic practice must be regulated in the United States against the advocacy of violent overthrow of the government, ours.

Why is it prohibitive to express outrage that a religion espouses mutilation and oppression of its women, why is it prohibitive to express disagreement against a religion that is hateful towards, mine, Buddhism?
10:38 PM on 08/18/2010
How would you regulate Islamic practice in our country?
Of course Buddhist's, Hindus and Hasidim Jews do not oppress women,
02:58 PM on 08/19/2010
And of course christains have never, ever done anything evil or oppressive or terroistic and justified it with their religion.
04:11 PM on 08/18/2010
RABBI IRWIN KULA: "Yeah, I just think my father came—my father came here in 1938 from Poland. He came here to escape the Holocaust. He came because of religious—for religious freedom. And here we are. You know, my father is eighty-one, and he’s watching this and can’t believe this, because if you—I mean, and this is where the professor was right. Just take out the word "Muslim" and put in the word "Jew," and you see that this strain, which has always been a part of America—and especially when things get tense, and especially when people are under tremendous stress—and we are—it’s very easy, right, to blame somebody. And now, it turns out, you know, Muslims are getting blamed. "
02:33 PM on 08/18/2010
How many times does it have to be said?

It is NOT a mosque! It is NOT on ground zero!

Say it with me now...
03:28 PM on 08/18/2010
It is NOT a mosque! It is NOT at Ground Zero!
03:58 PM on 08/18/2010
It is a Mosque ... and a Culture Center.

You're right, however, it is NOT GZ.
04:05 PM on 08/18/2010
It is a Community Center with a prayer room. It is not a mosque, any more than a Hospital with a chapel is a Church.
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charlietuna11
01:27 PM on 08/18/2010
mark twain stated that religion wasn't evil but rather what people did with it. i wonder what people he had in mind rabbi. today there is a story on yahoo about a christian minister who wants to celebrate 911 by requesting his parishoners bring a qu'ran to chuch and burn it. i was brought up christian as our whole family was. the racism and bigotry in that faith is second to none. do i know good , honest, and caring chritians, of course, but there leaders like pat robertson, hagee franklin graham are filled with hate but still admired by that faith. chritians are always insisting that muslims should speak out about terrorism and bigotry. thats fine by me but has any christian ever criticized the well known racists and bigots in their leadership? if they have it was certainly not done so publicly. i can understand why organized religion is fast disappearing in every nation but america. its only a matter of time before sleepy americans catch up to the rest of the world....
04:02 PM on 08/18/2010
So, you were "brought up Christian" were you. Please explain. Seeing that the word Christian means "Christ like" ... I'm curious as to how such people could be racist and bigots. Again, please explain. Are you doing what people here are doing to Muslims ... that is painting an entire religion, Islam, as being bad, because the acts of some radicals of that Faith? I'm sure you're opposed to that CharlieT ... but, you support bashing all of Christianity due to the bad behavior of some? Please explain.
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NJProgressiveIndie
Never Surrender...
12:08 AM on 08/20/2010
"do i know good , honest, and caring Christians, of course,"

I think you might have missed charlietuna11's point. Doesn't sound like he's bashing ALL Christians to me.
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Savojah
01:25 PM on 08/18/2010
Is everything so cut and dry for you all? At no point, when you heard about this, you weighed both sides of the argument, and then based your decision on that? Or is it that you know right away how you feel about an issue. I'm just saying, because it doesn't seem that easy to me. I like this analogy. I think 9/11 is something that will be with us forever, and those who remember that event are scarred forever by it. I think we all moved on, but we can all remember the feeling of that tragic event. And like tragic events, some people are able to move on a little easier than others. If anyone like myself has ever had a tragic event in there lives, it stays with you. Lets say for an example you some close to you was murdered, and the person responsible went to jail for 10 years. You have forgiven this man after some time. But when he gets out, the gets a job at a local store that you shop. Yes, deserves to make a living like everyone else, but why does it have to be at this store that I shop? So now, this guy is a constant reminder of this tragic event. Some people might be able to move one from it, and wouldn't mind. But some, and rightfully so, are not over it, because it is too soon.
01:42 PM on 08/18/2010
Faulty Logic.

No one at Cordoba House or Park51 has committed any crimes. No One to Forgive.

Total Strawman, savojah.
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Malby Lewis
10:41 PM on 08/19/2010
It is too soon? Apart from all the other defects in logic, we're supposed to deprive American citizens of their constitutional right to freedom of religion in order to appease people who have not "gotten over" the events of almost 10 years ago? Lots of people experience tragedy every day. Few of them spend the rest of their lives in front of cameras whining about their sensitivities. You're enabling people who need psychological care, either for obsession or narcissism.
01:15 PM on 08/18/2010
As John Oliver points out on the Daily Show,

"There is a difference of what you can do and what you should do. For instance, you can build a Catholic church next to a playground. Should you?"

http://digbysblog.blogspot.com/2010/08/daily-show-final-word-on-mosque-arade.html
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slb83
01:29 PM on 08/18/2010
Catholic Churches still run daycare centers all around this country, and no one is protesting that. Stop the BS logic. No wonder our kids are lagging behind children in countries that aren't as developed as ours! Look at who and what they are learning from.
01:43 PM on 08/18/2010
Political Satire is a wonderful thing.
04:08 PM on 08/18/2010
You tell 'em SLB!! Danged Catholics and their schools and teachers!! So what if they have a higher percentage of students completing high school ... attending college. We MUST hold ALL of them responsible for the actions of a few pedophile priests.

And you're the same person who says we mustn't hold Islam responsible for what radical Muslims have wrought? So, let me get this straight ...it's okay to bash the Catholic religion over the actions of a few priests, but not okay to bash Islam over a few terrorist?

Did I get that right ...
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Never Surrender...
12:22 AM on 08/20/2010
I suspect that if a Catholic church was built next to a playground, it would not receive the same relentless drum-beat of fear and hatred ginned up by the far-right, as Park51.

What should have been settled behind closed doors with all parties involved--and that includes 9/11 families who oppose AND support the building of the center--has turned into a media circus, a political punching bag for politicians, and a war against Muslims, in spite of the inescapable fact that all Muslims are NOT terrorists any more than all Catholics or priests abuse children.
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slb83
01:09 PM on 08/18/2010
#1: Not a mosque. #2: Not at Ground Zero. #2. There are two other Mosques in that area, one which has been there before the tower was even built and no Muslim from NY planned that attack. #3: It's a local issue which was decided locally. #4: White protestant Christians and American Citizens were not the only people who died in that blast, so to demonize Muslims over something like this that has been in the works for at least the past two years is crazy. Therefore, it seems that everyone became a Non-Muslim and an American Citizen at the time the building came crashing down on them. Or maybe we would rather ignore that Muslim Americans died as well as acted first responders at the time of this tragic incident in our history #5: Did I mention that it's not a mosque and not at ground zero. Even two blocks away is misleading. #6: You either believe in the law or you don't. You know most people believe in Equal Opportunity and Anti-Discrimination as not just a law, but a moral principle, however in practice, it's another story. The same thing goes for this. #7 :Why do Muslim Americans in NY have to be treated this way because of what someone in Afghanistan/Pakistan/wherever the hell he is did. #8: Is it right for All protestant Christians to give away their rights just because of the actions of some fundemenalist christian fanatics responsible for this hoax?
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indieprncss75
I'm freaking awesome!
02:50 PM on 08/18/2010
Fanned & Faved!
04:44 PM on 08/18/2010
Ditto.
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knucklelady
The prettiest dresses are worn to be taken off.
01:05 PM on 08/18/2010
Wow, Rabbi, I honestly never thought the day would come where I so vehemently disagree with you. While I hold my religious beliefs sacred and close to my heart, this is something more important than any one religious viewpoint. That is, we are Americans... FIRST. Do you know why? Because it is THAT fact, that glues us together. How many Christian denominations are there in the US? How many Muslims, Jews, Catholics, Mormons, Jehova's Witnesses, and so on...??? And how such religious difference does divide us. But this ONE thing... the most important thing of all, that of being an American... is most important here. The Constitution binds us all. The Constitution protects us all. The Constitution ensures everyone's rights are valued, respected, and upheld.

Those of us who support the building of this community center don't have to agree with it. We can even think it's in bad taste. BUT... just as those who can support a woman's right to choose, yet not find herself ever making that same choice... DO and WILL support such basic civil rights enshrined in the Constitution. Why? Because that's precisely what it's about; protecting the rights of every single religion in the US.
02:24 PM on 08/18/2010
Faved and fanned.
04:11 PM on 08/18/2010
Uh ... that's what they Rabbi said. Yes, they have a Constitutional right to build, but he's asking that they consider the sensitivities of doing so.

So, let me ask you and all the other Huffies on here who are screaming about the Constitution ... what is it that you can't comprehend how someone can support the Constitution AND still ask someone not to take an action that is Constitutionally protected? Why would you slime or villify someone who is practicing his right of free speech?
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NJProgressiveIndie
Never Surrender...
12:29 AM on 08/20/2010
OK.

"Why do the negras have to drink from OUR water fountains. Ain't us white folk got no rights?"

"Why do the negras and that Comu-NIST boy Martin Luther King gotta push so hard for their 'rights'? What's the hurry? What about us white folks?"

"I don't give a damn what them Yankee Lib-ur-rals say about tha' Constitution. Why can't the negras stay at the back o' tha bus where they belong? It's them ACLU Comu-nists and that boy Martin Luther King ruinin' OUR way of life an' spoilin' our Negras rotten, is what it is!"

Ringing any bells, sir?
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dudekabob
A box of chocolates! For moi?
01:05 PM on 08/18/2010
We have always been a country of over-reactors, so this is nothing new. It's what I call emotional gas, and it'll pass, like it always does. Religious freedom is NOT conditional and I strongly disagree with the good Rabbi. And, by the way, simply disagreeing with a Rabbi does NOT mean one is anti-Semitic. Remember, Arabs are a Semitic people, too. What's being proposed is an expansion of a community center that's been in the neighborhood since 1970. I wonder if the outcry would be as loud if it were any of the local strip joints planning expansions. Something tells me not.
01:03 PM on 08/18/2010
Rabbi - I agree that the leaders of the mosque should have consulted the 9/11 families and the idea of a museum is great. This is a way to stick our finger in the eyes of the radical Muslims by showing that the United States is a country of tolerance - no matter what terror is committed on our soil. I am sure that the leaders in countries such as Iran, Syria or Saudi Arabia would not be too thrilled with anyone wanting to build a church or synagogue there. We should be welcoming to all religions and bow to stereotypes. Intolerance is a recruitment tool for terrorists.
05:40 PM on 08/18/2010
Why should the Muslims have consulted the 9/11 families?

Your reference to the US as "a country of tolerance" seems to be in keeping with the idea that Muslims in America are here on sufferance and are not American citizens whose RIGHTS say they did NOT have to consult or ask permission. (The only consultation required of them was whatever is prescribed in building/development regulations. Generally, that is for neighbours - whoever they may or may not be. So if the regulations required neighbourhood consultation, so be it. If not, forget it.)

Suffering a loss of loved ones in a tragedy does not confer on anyone additional rights superior to or exceeding mine. 9/11 families do not govern me. We are equal and I do not need their permission for anything and have no need to consult them. So far, I have not heard them speaking out very loudly about health care for the responders. That's a bunch who have earned special consideration for additional rights because of their injuries sustained during public service - and even they do not have rights superseding mine!

Our family would consult our neighbours if we were having a party that could affect parking or might impinge on their quiet enjoyment. That courtesy was common practice, but no one complained about those who chose not to follow it. And we did not try to drive them out - because we respected them as free people to consult or not as was their right.
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Malby Lewis
10:48 PM on 08/19/2010
Wow. What he/she said.
12:44 PM on 08/18/2010
It seems obvious to me that people on both sides of this issue are arguing about two different issues without realizing it. Those opposed are arguing that the whole idea is offensive on the part of the mosque builders and that they ought not to do it out of respect and decency. Those in favor are arguing that the builders have a constitutional right to build a religious center wherever they see fit and that it is offensive and unconstitutional to try to stop them.

What nobody seems to realize is that to support the builder's rights and to object to religious intolerance is not the same as thinking that it is a good idea for the mosque to be built. And to oppose the building of the mosque is not to suggest that they should be banned from doing so.