Rachel Kramer Bussel (www.rachelkramerbussel.com) is a New York-based writer, editor, blogger, and reading series host. She's edited over 25 anthologies, including Best Sex Writing 2008, 2009, and 2010, Peep Show, Bottoms Up, The Mile High Club, Do Not Disturb, and Dirty Girls, and her own fiction has been published in over 100 collections, including Best American Erotica 2004 and 2006. She is Senior Editor at Penthouse Variations, hosts the monthly In The Flesh Reading Series, named Best Reading Series by New York Press in 2009, and wrote the popular Lusty Lady column for the Village Voice. She's written for AVN, Bust, Cosmo UK, Gothamist, Mediabistro, Metro, Newsday, New York Post, Penthouse, San Francisco Chronicle, Time Out New York, Zink and other publications. She blogs at Lusty Lady and Cupcakes Take the Cake.

Blog Entries by Rachel Kramer Bussel

Book Trailer 101

Posted November 9, 2009 | 02:20 PM (EST)


Last month, in the name of book promotion, I hopped in the shower, made out in the street, drank from a water fountain in Central Park, gyrated behind a curtain and flashed my underwear. What for? All to promote my latest anthology Peep Show: Erotic Tales of Voyeurs and Exhibitionists--specifically,...

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What I've Learned in Four Years of Running My Erotic Reading Series

2 Comments | Posted October 12, 2009 | 11:38 PM (EST)


For the past four years, I've hosted In The Flesh Reading Series, a monthly reading dedicated to erotica and sex and held at a bar that's a former massage parlor called, appropriately, Happy Ending Lounge. When I started, I had no idea, frankly, what I was doing. There is...

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Size 9 With a Life-Threatening Eating Disorder

Posted April 14, 2009 | 07:36 PM (EST)


When most people think of those suffering from eating disorders, they picture those with emaciated bodies, starving or puking, barely hanging on to their lives. Nicole Johns suffered severe damage to her body, including exercise-induced asthma, irregular heartbeat, and hypotension, and had to be hospitalized to be treated...while a size...

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The Media's Sexual Irresponsibility

Posted February 2, 2009 | 08:32 PM (EST)


I've had my iPhone since early November, but just the other day finally added the New York Times application. How excited was I to be able to access the paper of record at the touch of a button? Very much so, and the first thing I clicked on was the...

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Been Rejected Recently? The Rejection Show's Jon Friedman Helps You Cope

Posted January 27, 2009 | 11:25 AM (EST)


Comedian Jon Friedman knows from rejection. He faced so many of them that he decided to turn them into something productive: The Rejection Show, a comedy show featuring all rejected or turned down materials, ranging from Saturday Night Live skits to game show audition tapes, failed customer service...

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Exclusive: New York Times Reporter Benoit Denizet-Lewis Talks Addiction, Recovery, Drug Policy, Obama and America Anonymous

Posted January 2, 2009 | 10:46 AM (EST)


New York Times journalist Benoit Denizet-Lewis is a sex addict. That is a fact he openly discloses at the start of his excellent new book America Anonymous: Eight Addicts in Search of a Life. Now that I have your attention, I can also tell you that it was...

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Best Sex Writing 2009 Interview: Susannah Breslin on Eliot Spitzer and prostitution

Posted December 30, 2008 | 05:24 PM (EST)


My name is Rachel, and I write about sex (among other topics). A lot of my writing is of the erotic variety, but what really gets me off, in the intellectual sense, is smart writing that treats sex with the respect it deserves. To that end, my latest anthology is...

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How Many Partners Makes You Promiscuous?: More On The Never-Ending Debate

Posted August 7, 2008 | 08:30 AM (EST)


I'm not going to tell you exactly how many people I've slept with, partly because I don't know, partly because I stopped caring long ago, and partly because it's none of your business. But I will tell you it's more than French First Lady Carla Bruni's reported number: 15. Way...

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Kerry Cohen On Her Publishing And Her Promiscuous Past

Posted June 6, 2008 | 03:06 PM (EST)


As soon as I got a copy of Kerry Cohen's Loose Girl: A Memoir of Promiscuity, in the mail, I knew it would be one I'd want to read. Because that's the kind of book I tend to fall for. What I didn't know was how much I'd relate...

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Knocked Up and Proud: Louise Sloan, Single Mother By Choice

Posted March 26, 2008 | 03:24 PM (EST)


New York-based writer and editor Louise Sloan didn't set out to be come a single mom, let alone a spokesperson for them. She knew she wanted kids at the age of 28, but her various partners weren't quite ready. When she hit 40, she knew it was time to proceed...

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How Not to Date - An Interview with Judy McGuire

Posted February 13, 2008 | 03:31 PM (EST)


Judy McGuire is who I turn to when I am having relationship problems, and believe me, I have a lot of them. She has a way of giving advice that is never condescending, comes from the heart, and experience, and is actually helpful, which isn't anywhere as easy as it...

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Sex Doesn't Need to be Sensationalized

Posted January 25, 2008 | 12:52 PM (EST)


I wasn't surprised to read that newly hired and newly resigned New York Press sex columnist, former child actor Claudia Lonow, had plagiarized her writing from popular sex advice columnist Dan Savage. (Savage has no official comment at present.) When I read the incest question she answered...

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2008, One Day At A Time

Posted January 3, 2008 | 12:31 AM (EST)


Editor's Note: Dr. Mona Ackerman is on vacation. Her weekly column will return next Thursday.

When I was growing up, One Day at a Time was a TV show; now, it's a motto I try to live by. A catchphrase and major tenet of Alcoholics Anonymous, it's also provided...

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2008, One Day at a Time

Posted December 31, 2007 | 07:21 PM (EST)


When I was growing up, One Day at a Time was a TV show; now, it's a motto I try to live by. A catchphrase and major tenet of Alcoholics Anonyous, it's also provided for me a way of looking at life that recognizes that life goes on, whether...

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The Case For Open Relationships

Posted December 10, 2007 | 07:03 AM (EST)


Matt Titus's recent post "How to Be Faithful" struck a nerve with readers. And it's something I've thought a good deal about, so I decided to look not at monogamy as a goal, but as a social construct. First let me say that if you are in a monogamous...

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Am I A Sex Addict? Are You?

Posted November 26, 2007 | 03:13 PM (EST)


Kevin Federline accused Britney Spears of being one, Gerald Ford thought Bill Clinton was one (and Clinton has had counseling for it), British comedian Russell Brand just came out as one, and Halle Berry's ex-husband Eric Benet sought treatment for it. But who's really...

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Don't Pass the Buck When It Comes to Selling Your Book

Posted September 24, 2007 | 11:38 AM (EST)


As an author, perhaps I'm supposed to side with doom-filled writer Peter Sacks in the, "Isn't it awful how few people read and how America is becoming dumbed down?" conundrum, but while I can't quite imagine how one gets through a day, let alone a year, without reading, the rest...

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Part Two: Interview with Flying Filmmaker, Jennifer Fox

Posted July 18, 2007 | 06:18 PM (EST)


Part two of my interview with filmmaker Jennifer Fox, director of the recent Flying: Confessions of a Free Woman. Read part 1 here.

You talk about investigating "this modern female life," so I'm curious how you felt about the contrast between your New York life and that...

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My Interview With Documentary Filmmaker Jennifer Fox

Posted July 13, 2007 | 05:19 PM (EST)


Filmmaker Jennifer Fox's six-hour documentary Flying: Confessions of a Free Women, represents the first time the acclaimed director has allowed herself to step in front of the camera, baring (almost) all about her family, friendships, and romantic relationships. She's already detailed here at HuffPo her evolution as...

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Weight Lifting Shapes the Mind and the Body

Posted July 9, 2007 | 09:04 PM (EST)


What I'm about to write I would've found obnoxious and pretentious mere months ago but lately seem to tell everyone who so much as asks me how I'm doing: I have a personal trainer. Even now, it sounds like saying I have a chauffeur or money manager or lawyer; there's...

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