At least three times a week, stepmothers email me requesting a recommendation for good therapist where they live. Usually, I don't know anyone in their area but I give them a list of questions to ask therapists before they finally select one with whom to work. Finding a good therapist...

"Why didn't someone tell me that I would always be second in line? Why didn't someone tell me that I would never have my husband completely to myself? Why didn't someone tell me that I'd feel so alone and alienated from friends and family who just don't understand my struggles?...

Being a stepmother can be one of the most challenging roles in society, and one that often receives little support, understanding, and appreciation from others. In my book, The Happy Stepmother, I share 10 steps to thrive despite the frustrations that come with stepmotherhood, but here are 10 tips you...